my dad was so mean and hatefull, got a kick out beating his kids, other things as well. hope never to see him again ,not this life or the next, what happens to people who make others life a liveing hell on earth, please let me know. also dont want him around my brother who died too . my brother was a cool big brother, dad made him steal. he dye running from the law 25 ago. dad has no right to see him in the next life. he did not love his family, he hated us kids, so mean too us all, mom went a long with him on everthing, she was suppose to go frist. she real sick too.also will mom last long, she is only 82 pounds.will mom go to the same place as dad, we sure hope not somebody let us know ok,worried about mom soul.
2007-05-28 12:40:00 · 7 answers · asked by god gift 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Here is what I believe.... I believe we all go to the same place, but after we die we have to review the last lifetime and experience firsthand all of the pain we caused other ppl. I also believe the choices that we make in this life affect the sort of life we will have in the next one (karma). I believe that we all have every experience good and bad in all of our lives so that our souls will evolve and come closer to god. I am sorry that you experienced so much pain with your dad. I bet if you think about it, those experiences taught you alot about life and what you wanted and didn't want and also the kind of person you want to be. Learn from your dad and all of your pain will not be in vain. I wish you the best.
2007-05-28 13:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't say that I know how you feel, but it is an awful thing to have to go through...I can offer one bit of advise...As far as where they "go" after....It depends on what you believe....but, (and please don't take offense to this) I think that if you can you should seek some kind of therapy...It could help just to talk to someone, and heal yourself so you don't have all these negative feelings. I believe that all things happen for a reason, and maybe in some way you benefit from this by becoming a stronger person or such things...Anyway I hope this helped a little bit...And good luck to you in the future...
2007-05-28 12:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there sweetie
im so sorry to hear about your life. and its great to have people on here to support you and talk...and your not alone trust me, every family has issues. and its so sad that you had to experience this in your life. i don't know how old you are but. i went through alot when i was a child. i had to grow up pretty fast. my mom died from a drunk driver when i was 5. but i didnt have those kinds of things that you have had happen. and I do believe in god too. but i say just be yourself and try to be there for your mom and enjoy what you have. and i hope you do well and hope your safe, and hang out out with good people and that want to go far in life and so will you! best of luck to you...
2007-05-28 13:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there. this is so sad almost bought a tear to my eyes. no people have a right to beat or hurt or disrespect anyone ever no matter who they are. my dad and brother died 6 years ago i was 10 and they both died in a car accident its hard to no were people go my dad and brother were great i hope they go to heaven. some people deserve to go to hell. i guess no body can really no what happens when we die. hope this advice helps let me no if you ever wanna talk
xoxo Scottie
2007-05-28 12:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly for one my mom and dad do no longer bypass via my stuff considering i'm like various situation have been that's and that i might understand in the event that they have been in there and likewise they might relatively waste there time on something else like being on the computing device or something. Plus considering my mom and dad do no longer stay jointly i would not would desire to hassle plenty. additionally i think of they might defend me then turn me in. With the police officers i might in simple terms kill them and if I had to i might go away to Japan or Italy, japan first. i might in user-friendly terms kill my mom and dad because of the fact the very final hotel i ought to arise with. So it might take a little time for me o would desire to kill them. considering i ought to threaten them in the event that they did locate out and tried to tutor me in via say i might kill them in the past they have been given to the police officers. additionally considering they do no longer watch the information precise there could be yet another excuse i would not would desire to hassle. additionally if I had a loss of life observe i might maximum probable have my sister in on it too. lol.
2016-11-05 21:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by hinch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD will judge.whatever wrongs your dad did or had your brother do he will pay for his sins.that is between him and GOD.do not be like him pray for your mom and yourself and your family.read the bible and you can learn the truth yourself.this is a simple prayer but it helps me- i hope it will help you too.--- "GOD grant me the serenity to accept the things i can not change,courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to know the difference."AMEN
2007-05-28 12:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a person obeys the gospel and they are good decent people theyll make it to a better place.The ones who dont wont.Theyll go to a much "warmer " climate". TThe one thing you need to think about is "WHY was he like this?" Maybe his parents treated him worse than he did you and this was all he ever knew?Hard to say.If he had known the LORD he wouldnt have acted like that.
2007-05-28 12:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋