Last weekend was his weekend. When she came home that sunday she told me that her step mom took her sister to the movies and she had to stay at the house. Wouldnt you think that its only fair to take both of them? (dads on house arrest) it was a childs movie for gods sake. (shrek 3). i guess i just dont understand it. should i confront them. it really hurt my daughters feelings.
2007-05-27 01:39:18 · 9 answers · asked by Cassie K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
other child is not mine.
2007-05-27 01:48:09 · update #1
Absolutely! If they did not want to take your daughter, they should have gone on a weekend she was with you.
I can't believe her father thinks it's okay to leave her out of things and upset her like that! That is cruel.
2007-05-27 01:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I think she should have taken your daughter with her, you need to realize how hard it is for step moms and step kids, stepmoms feel they have no authority because alot of times they get undermined and they are expected to bend over backwards for the child involved even though they aren't blood and while yes when your husband and current wife got married she knew about your daughter that doesn't make things any easier. I would let this go, while it might have hurt her feelings you need to think all the times your husbands wife has been there for your daughter and just EXPECTED WITHOUT QUESTION TO TAKE OVER WHEN IT IS CONVIENT FOR EVERYONE yes i have some issues with this because i am a stepdaughter of a mom and dad, and a step mom of a 12 yr old. Your daughter might catch grieve if you say anything leave it between them.
2007-05-27 14:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, while it may have been insensitive to leave your daughter out of it, the step mom is not responsible for entertaining your daughter. Maybe she just wanted some time with her own daughter.
Secondly, confronting this woman, or anyone, about this will not help. It's not like you can force her to do it. And if you make an issue of it, your daughter will be the one caught in the cross fire.
Good luck.
2007-05-27 01:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if confront is the correct approach, but I would definitely talk to them about the proper treatment of your children. It is important to get both sides of the story. For instance, it is entirely possible your daughter was misbehaving and her punishment was not being able to see the movie. If that was not the case, then you should definitely have a talk with her father and stepmom as to what your expectations are concerning the children's treatment.
Best wishes.
2007-05-27 01:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there might be more to the story. Was she acting up or someting so she didnt get to go maybe as a punishment? Is the sister your child also or the stepmoms? You should talk to your daughter and your ex before you talk to the stepmom.
2007-05-27 01:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by curious student 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be worth your time to ask the step mom in a nice manner. THere might be more to the story than you are being told. If that's not the case, then you have your opportunity to tell her how badly your child felt by being left out.
2007-05-27 03:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly have had a similarthing take place in my kin. the human beings who have been indignant and in denial ultimately (whilst there grow to be actually actual info that could desire to not be denied in any respect) stated that the have been scared and felt undesirable approximately having not achieved something faster - so on each and every occasion it grow to be touched upon as a difficulty the rwere reminded of ways responsible it made them experience and have been given indignant with the sufferer of the abuse and the human beings who supported her. Your mum is probubly questioning - 'why did not I do this years in the past whilst he tried to tape my daughter?' - certainty is circumstances have been differant and perverts weren't interior the information plenty. Now a days there in no exciuse to not checklist newborn abuse or inapropriate behaviour. you could not substitute their minds, you mustn't experience such as you have any explaining to do. He grow to be actually interior the incorrect, its a f*cking extreme element to do and that i'm happy you got him slung in penal complex, i'm hoping he gets his head kicked in by inmates! Your motheris incorrect, and that i'm notably particular she is familiar with it. and as for the 'making waves' element, that grow to be stated by my kin interior a similar difficulty. You made no waves. He made waves whilst he tried to get off over a 12 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old female.
2016-10-08 22:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out the whole story. There's a reason that your daughter wasn't taken. I'm not inclined to believe that they just didn't want her along.
Do not "confront". Do not EVER ask the stepmother. It's DAD's responsibility... Ask him.
2007-05-27 02:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, these days for some one in your position it is a lawers job, or posibley some social servise.
your only going to set your self up for upset and arguments and posibly a bad situation.
you control what goes on under your own roof not anothers.
2007-05-27 01:47:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋