my husband always watch other girls plz help me how I react or maintain relatioship?

Question

I am very scared of husband attitude.he loves me he cares me,
but when i went with him out side i saw he always watch girls..
i dont like...how i react on this ........plz help me

Answer 1

ALL men check other girls out even if they are married or jsut dating - this is something that we have to out up with
doesnt mean he is going to leave you

Answer 2

Nothing to be scared of there. Girls come out in their best in order to attract complimentary glances from men. Your husband is neither a womaniser nor does he neglect you. This isn't considered an indiscretion nowadays. If you want him not to stare at girls, you might only end up annoying him. You could deal with this in a different way though - make his girl watching habit a subject of some harmless rib tickling when you two are alone. That way he would also know that his habit hasn't escaped your notice and hence would be conscious not to cross limits.

Answer 3

Maybe in a quiet conversation, gradually bring it up, as a positive. Maybe ask him, maybe even when you find him doing it, ask him, "Honey, can I look at the fine men when they pass by?" and laugh it off. It may give him some thought.

Don't embarrass him by doing it loudly and publicly. Do it quietly.
Let him know it makes you feel uncomfortable and you would like a little respect, at least in public.
ONE thing you MUST know, as others have said on here, MEN will look at other ladies, no matter what. Men are visual.
THey may do it when we think they are not. BUT it is the RESPECT factor that makes us mad, as women.
BE SECURE in yourself. KNOW that what you have, has him coming home every night. Your love, your attitude and definitely your prayers will make him want to come home to YOU. YOU are married, so I would not suggest to rid yourself of him. Marriage is a sanctuary and a ministry in itself. Make sure he is taken care of in every way. Talk to him sweetly. It takes men a few days to allow what we say to marinate.
BUT never, ever seem insecure. MEN hate that. THEY LOVE confidence. I am learning that myself, being a widow now.
Grasp each day and live it like it is your last and love that man and he will love you.
Maybe change what you wear and attract him to look more at you.

Answer 4

"Can't that poor fellow even look at the menu if he is on a diet."

Just joking. You know when he loves you cares for you that means that you are a special person in his life and you are beautiful (well he thinks that for sure).

Still he looks at other women to feel proud that such a sweet, beautiful women is by her side and every other girl is no where in front of you.

so feel good and love your husband today more than yod did yesterday

Answer 5

Hello....pls. dont take it serious and no need of getting scared....this is because of your possessiveness(over) you are doing this....but the same time think/check about yourself
and evaluate your appearance, your dressings, your style etc...you know why I am writing this cause many ladies/girls thinks after the marriage they (ladies) are not showing/taking much interest in keeping fit, (exercise), to be attractive,and not giving much attention on dressing like before their marriage..,and dont ask if they have kids...the issue get worse., cause you ladies usually thinks that " WHAT EVER IS IT, HE IS MY HUBBY..,AND HE KNOWS ME AND I KNOW HIM AND WE HAVE A GOOD UNDERSTANDING with each other..these type of thoughts makes the matter even worse...so dear take my words since I AM ALSO A HUSBAND TO MY SWEET LADY....AND FROM MY EXPERIENCE COMPELLED ME TO WRITE THOSE LINES...TO BE VERY FRANK MY LADY NEVER EVER GIVE A CHANCE TO LOOK FOR ANOTHER GIRL EVEN AFTER A MOTHER OF TWO GREAT BOYS OF MINE..OF COURSE OPPOSITE SEX ATTRACTS US..BUT THAT'S ONLY FOR A GLIMPSE...and irrespective of sex every body does it. so try to be more attractive in all the ways, be happy especially in front of your husband. and think positive..all the best.

Answer 6

Why don't you jyst make a sarcastic comment so he knows it's bothering you? Say, "Wow, honey, that girl is freakin hot huh? Want me to go get her number for you???? Then give him a good old meaningful look, that lets him know you're angry, and walk away. That's what I would do.

My husband may occasionally look at other girls, but that is human nature. Looking is one thing, I notice people too. Staring is a completely different thing altogether. I would NOT tolerate him staring and completely checking out other women. He has too much respect for me to do that.

So you need to speak your mind, and have some respect for yourself, and stick up for yourself. He's your husband. He's supposed to love, respect, cherish, YOU. And you only. Don't be scared, you're in a partnership together. He is being thoughtless, and it's your right to call him on it, and let him know, then it's up to him whether or not he changes his behavior out of love for you.

Answer 7

you DON'T react - why even let it get to you? If you saw a pretty flower, or painting wouldn't you look at it? Or say someone with an outrageous hairstyle, that would catch your eye....it's the same thing, just because he admires beauty doesn't mean he is going to go running off after them. It is YOUR attitude that is at issue here...

He isn't touching, he is looking - they are strangers, of no consequence to you...don't makea problem in your marriage where there isn't one.

Answer 8

As your husband is loving and caring towards you, talk to him earnestly.
Tell him:" Darling, I feel upset when you start looking around at other women, when I AM RIGHT NEXT TO YOU!
I shall respect you greatly if you realize that it is extremely bad manners, and stop this habit."
What is there to be scared of? After all, he is your husband, right? You have a right to express your feelings. If you won't, who will??!
Do it, ........before he gets into an affair with someone else, and it is too late!
ACTION is the magic word! DO IT!

Answer 9

Dau'ter, Relax.
Men are born voyeurs. So long it is not exposing him to risks, like social ostracization or STD, why should you worry. You cannot simply encroach upon his personal space as long as it is not harming you.
I'm married for last forty years, and my husband ogle at adult films like an owl, to the activities of girls of his granddau'ter's age.
Realities are to be accepted . I am getting worried for you as I think you are overtaxing your husband, tending to spoil the relationship.

Answer 10

Wow. this may be an extremely solid question. i think of adult men that do this tend to create the impact that they are dedicated to their paintings so the have the time on the ingredient to have some "unusual". That feels like the main available clarification to me. it variety of feels, additionally that they do this for the objective of pacifying the adultress so she would not make point out of this illicit affair.