Family - January 2007

same bedroom, but have their own beds. Can I have my children taken away because of this? Some states do have laws saying that once a child is a certain age they can no longer share a bedroom with opposite sexs siblings. Is it the same in california? or are there any laws regarding opposite sex siblings in the same bedroom?

2007-01-15 08:47:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

well she live in bklyn ny .
she is 51 year old .
she thinks she known it all ....

2007-01-15 08:46:15 · 4 answers · asked by shysamirah 2

2007-01-15 08:44:41 · 3 answers · asked by karenpoller 1

ok...the deal is that i lose my father recently and i have got to move on because i am SERIOUSLY depressed. He had a massive heartattack and was also an alcoholic. He chose drinking over a realationship with me but i loved him more than anyone else even though he hurt so bad. When my father died he toke a large piece of me with him. How can i focus on things like family, my boyfriend, and school? someone please help me! im dying here

2007-01-15 08:36:34 · 10 answers · asked by Caraaa. 1

Wife: Make dinner for family (2 young daughters, me, her), Give the kids a bath every night and dress them for bed, clean bathrooms, do her own and kid's laundry.

Me: Do all the dishes every day, do all the vacuuming, dusting, clean kitchen, get breakfast ready for kids, do my own laundry, and any outside chores (lawn, weed-eating, etc).

2007-01-15 08:35:15 · 11 answers · asked by I hate friggin' crybabies 5

UGH! I HATE Mary.
Who is Mary?
She's my mother, that's who she is.
I hate my dad the same amount but he's not important now.

Well, I've had to take her crap every day.
Every day for fourteen years.
Today was the end of the line.

I had a project to do.
I leave it for a moment.
I come back, she's doing it.
She says, "whats your problem im doing all the work."
I didn't even ask for help!
I finish it
she tells me im too dumb, it wont work
IT WORKS

she's like "yea, watever." and gets into the usual
"i hate you"
"you were a mistake"
"why cant you be like jane and sam (my siblings) they're so much better than you are"
"you're a f#$%king idiot."
etcetera.

and then she calls my dad and whines that i said those things
my dad calls me a liar cause i said she was being reverse
and i hate them both
this is every day for me
i cant take it anymore
what can i do?!

2007-01-15 08:34:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have tried everything to get away from a stalker, but she keeps finding me and my fiancee everywhere. She tracked him down when he was bringing lunch to me @ work one day. She has found his ebay & has been contacting him on that. She has come to our home yelling derrogatories in the street. She has now been tracking my e-mail & my answers on this thing. (None of what I said or asked was wrong, she's just psychotic) I took her to court for a restraining order, but did not have enough of the evidence with me & she admitted to coming to our house. She and my fiancee have been over for almost a year now (and it was 4 months after they parted that he & I got together) & she just can't accept that it's OVER. If anyone has any suggestions, let me know. She'll be reading them too... But as it sits, this will be my last post on here. Thanks for all your support!

2007-01-15 08:31:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My grandmother loved jewlery ,she always wore this one ring and the day she passed I grabbed the ring from her finger and wore it ever since.
Last weekend my husband and I rented at a hotel as a weekend get-away we drank so I was a little out of it, and something spilled on my finger so I took off the ring put it on the night stand to clean my hands... The following day I'm in the car and I grab the finger where the ring would usually be only to find it missing! My husband and I drive back to the Hotel but they said some one rented almost Immediatly after we left and no one has reported anything! I have not been able to stop crying I feel so irresponsible and shameful, the ring was not very expensive but it meant so much to me, and it kills me to think some other woman is wearing it without knowing its background!! What should I do? I cant just let it go. should I purchase a ring that reminds me of my grandmother and dedicate it to her or the impact she made in my life?

2007-01-15 08:28:09 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

He does absolutely nothing around the house, will not stay home for more than ten minutes, is 17 years old, every other word is a lie, does drugs, and acts totally immature. His father is doing the best he can, his mother has washed her hands of him a long time ago, and to me he is totally out of control. I feel like my marriage is going quickly down the tubes because of him, even though his father tells me that we are fine, he just has to work out all these issues with him. Without meaning to, he takes out his frustrations on me, not physically, just verbally and always apologizes after. He is very much a man in admitting that he is wrong. Even so, I dont know how much more I can take this in my life, it disrupts my household every single day. The two other teenagers in my house, mine, are for the most part under control and very respectful of us both. I am at my wits end............

2007-01-15 08:17:01 · 12 answers · asked by stepmiss 1

My parents are really unfair. They never let me go anywhere with my friends or anything. They won't even let me babysit so I don't have to ask them for money everytime i need it. I hate this so much I haev tried EVERYTHING. they are absolutely crazy. I dont know what to do. I have tried talking to them, I have tried bargaining with them. But they dont listen to anything I say and they insist on giving me hour-long lectures everytime I want to do something fun.

2007-01-15 08:05:35 · 16 answers · asked by snapdragon812 2

My parents are cheap. They don't give me anything that I wanted. Everybody in my class has a cellphone, an Ipod, and has nice clothes. My parents are cheap and they don't give me anything. What should I do.

2007-01-15 08:04:38 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'll give you a little help: his nickname starts with the E and ends with... should I say that? no then I'll give you too much help.

2007-01-15 08:03:51 · 4 answers · asked by anonymous 5

and he is the same with his grankids now,he has drove a big wedge in my ralationship with my mum,now me and mum never get on,nothing will work not even telling her i love her.just alot of anger,now she has just been told she has cancer,and i feel so hurt and i dont no what to do next,i want to be there but my dad keeps winding her up making up lies so me and his grankids are never around,the way he always wanted it pls help

2007-01-15 07:58:05 · 11 answers · asked by pt23 2

okay when I was little my parents were never there for me I always had to go to my grand parents or my uncle. My dad has an excuese kinda, he was almost allways on the road (Truck Driving long haul) but I allways had to "keep my chin up" for my brother and my sister. After I turned seven I took on the older sibling roll and was constantly there for my sister and brother. When my sister experienced her first heart break I was there saying it's okay and all that, but when I first had my heart broken no one was there. My mom when I was little didn't care about anyone except her and her husband... My life has gone from bad to pretty good, I got a bunch of friends that care about me (I didn't when I was little) and a guy that worships the ground that I walk on *smile*. My question is how do I forgive my parents for being such bad parents? and belive me they were bad. thanks.

2007-01-15 07:47:05 · 10 answers · asked by lill_angel_07_88 3

i have a father but he doesnt love me so how do i deal with the death of my mother im only 15 and she was only 35 and she was my everthing. i cant talk to the rest of my family about it cuz there so oblivious to everything and im sick of trying to pretend that everting is ok and i can handle it when the truth is that i really cant..SO CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP
thank ♥

2007-01-15 07:41:43 · 15 answers · asked by da 1 u ♥ 2 hate 2

2007-01-15 07:36:01 · 3 answers · asked by cindibad20022002 1

My father has an uncurable disease called M.S. (multiple sclerosis). It can make him extremely depressed from time to time and then my mom and him both get sad. It seems like they're too busy caring for each other to care for me. I know it sounds selfish, but that's what I think. I used to be able to talk with my sister about this stuff, but now she's at college across the country. I guess I'm just feeling lonely and like no one is looking out for me. Sure I have friends, but my best friend and I never talk about this stuff and I only really have one friend who will listen to me when I talk about this stuff, but I feel guilty how I'm taking up all her time. I just really need someone my age who I can talk to, and have them talk to me. What should I do? What's going on?

2007-01-15 07:34:52 · 4 answers · asked by K.M. 1

okay my "real parents" put me up for adoption when I was 11 because I got hit by a car and it caused me to have some disablitiys does this mean they don't love me??? I think it does, I mean it wasn't my fault, why didn't they want what am I suppost to do when I have children and they ask me where their grandparents are??? I mean was i a bad kid did i not do my chores everyday??? Is this something i should continue to dwell on or should i let it go? someone please give me some insite...

2007-01-15 07:12:10 · 8 answers · asked by Stacy ` B 2

I got hurt on my last job and was on temp disability for awhile (which didn't pay anywhere close to what I was making).Needless to say, me trying to get my leg squared away left us in a big financial hole. So I said teh heck with my leg an dwent and got an office job which I just started. I get paid on next friday but everything was due last week and now I'm about to lose my car, my washer and dryer, and I've already lost my phone. I'm a man of great pride and would never as anything unless I REALLY needed it.I I have asked my family, every local charity and several churches in my town. Either they can't help me (no funds) or I have to apply for assistance or be on a waiting list. I need help now and I've exhausted every resource I know. PLEASE I don't need smart alleck remarks or advice on what I "should have" done. I need help before I'm put into a further hole. I've talked to everybody that I owe money too and they're all saying "sorry about your luck."They need payment now.

2007-01-15 07:12:02 · 8 answers · asked by p y 1

My grandmother is 76 years old, and unless I beg to take her shopping or drive her to the doctor's, she will insist on taking the bus and then complain about it endlessly. I do not want to make her take two buses to go to the doctor's (for a check-up, mind you. She's not ill) but when I offer, she'll look miserable and then say no, she'd rather take the bus. "Really, it's only two buses dear. It's good for my poor old bones."

I HATE when people hint that they want something and then refuse my help when I offer. I don't want her to think that hinting at me will always work, and I've mentioned this to her before and she won't change. But she is getting old. What should I do?

2007-01-15 06:52:32 · 3 answers · asked by EvilFairies 5

ok so my mom thinks i hate her more than a average child my age should which is probably true and i feel really bad about it but i mean everything she does is just so annoying and i dont why i think that....but i went to this guy who sopposed to tell me if im going through depression or not and well i am and he says it might be because of my past because of my dad he was an achoholic and my parents divorced when i was 7 but i dont htink thats it. i mean honestly i dont really care about what my dad does i mean i dont even know him...and the reason for me being mad at my mom all the time i think is because i dont really know her either she was never there for me when i was little so my sister was sorta my "mom" soo what do you think?

2007-01-15 06:38:15 · 19 answers · asked by rawrimadinosaur 1

My brother, his family and I drove 800 miles to see my dad ( he's very ill ) We stayed Friday afternoon until Sunday afternoon. On Saturday my brother , his family & I went to lunch. My brother's wife saw a desk she wanted and had to have. She went back to my dad's found the desk in Savannah and then along with my brother and his children left to go buy this desk ( they were gone for four hours ) They could have bought it online and had it shipped for a hundred bucks. The desk & hutch came unassembled which they crammed into the minivan crowding me and the two kids. Needless to say it was a very uncomfortable ride. After the 14 hours in the car we arrive at my brothers where I walked into his house without wiping my feet. He got pissed and started in with his crap that I am ungrateful for the ride ( I had an open plane ticket all ready purchased I didn't need his ride I just thought my dad would like to see the family together ) I told him he was selfish. Was I wrong.

2007-01-15 06:35:37 · 6 answers · asked by colleen c 2

How am I supposed to deal with my brother's wife? When I was single I spent a lot of time with my brother and his wife and another couple. Eventually I met someone and got married and had a child. Now I don't have as much time to spend with my brother and his wife. My sister -in-law has not taken this well. Everytime they have a party or they are going out and they ask me and I am unable to go, she gets really mad at me and will stop talking to me. Sometimes this silent treatment will go on for months. It makes it very awkward at family gatherings. She won't even look at my wife and me.
Then she will try to turn things around and tell everyone I am mad at her. She does this same thing to other members of my family if she feels like they have somehow wronged her.
I have noticed that she never has any friends for very long. She will have a friend for a while and all of a sudden you never see them again.
What do I do about this? I can't just tell her to f*** off.

2007-01-15 06:28:15 · 15 answers · asked by Marco 4

most recent she nicked a piece of homework my brother did b4 he died i had it for years then she spoke to me like i was nothing for asking her if she took it when i was little she treated me like a servent i was only 5 when she left me home alone with a hard core porno on to look after my baby sister when she was just days old. she used to bash my head on the floor if i didnt clean it propper and meny other things to hurt me. i wasnt aloud to go to school alot because i was often covered in bruseis i was raped every night by her boyfriend and when i told her she tried to hit me and called me a lier i eventually got out at the age of 12 but her boy friend went on to rape my sister every night if she had of belived me my sister would have been spared even today being 25 married with my own 3 children which i would never dream hurting or makeing them feel as i did as a child my pain still gos on its very raw and she is still hurting me to day i want to divorse her how please

2007-01-15 06:25:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think that in a family that has 3 kids from one parent and 1 from another parent that the 1 child will have problems becuase she is consided the "step child" or the odd one out, more then the others are. Do you think that some people think that being the step child is considerd a negitive and people would more likly want to be around the other kids or side with them? If so how would you improve the situation?

2007-01-15 06:20:27 · 10 answers · asked by lee b 2

Wat did u wanna be wen u were a kid??[[N wat are you noww?]]

2007-01-15 06:15:43 · 17 answers · asked by barneyyaldridge 1

i am 19 and my mum treats me like im a kid im not allowed out unless it is planned weeks b4 and she grounds me for lil fings like my room a mess or not goin to wrk i have told her i wana move out wen i cn afford it and she went mad how cn i stop her she guna drive me insane!!

2007-01-15 06:12:28 · 10 answers · asked by luce1234 1

I was going through the shed to clean it up and organize it more. When I pick a box up, I didn't know the bottom was so fragile from being wet that everthings fell out. I realized it belongs to my son who is in college now.
There was lot of notebooks, two small hidden camera, small lockpick kit, few books on psychology, lock pick, interrogation, and other things, some audio or computer equipuments.

What upset me most is the note books contain many personal information on various people that my son use to have conflict with in past. One even have big bold "sex offender" on one person. Other page show one old neighbor who use to toss dog waste across fence into our back yard that I made him clean up to keep peace. Other page show a teacher who was having issue with him when he was in senior, he end up got a "A" in that class. Most of the notes seems to be written in foreign lanaguage or code.

There's also few printed pages from website on interrogation, blackmail, legal, and

2007-01-15 06:11:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This kid had every opportunity in the world to walk away. Seems he spent plenty of time on the net and at the movie theater alone. I am so confused!

2007-01-15 06:08:46 · 7 answers · asked by tbear 5

My Girlfriend was pregnant with my baby, and already had a little one herself. She lives in a two bedroom flat. Her parents were selling thier house and to save money they wanted to move in with us for a few month to help them. None of it made sense as they were promising to pay all her bills and redecorate the whole place, so how this was savig them money i dont know? When i say them to move in that meant her mum and dad and her bother and sister. So that would have meant 7 of us living in a two bedroom flat. When i found out about this i was the least bit amused. I wanted to work on our relationship and build for the future for the new arrival and work on us as a family. I said this to her parents and explained that i wasnt happy about the situation. In the end they didnt move in, but i am constantly told i was wrong and it was none of my business wotseva. All i was doing was looking out for my family. As a consequnece she lost the baby over all the stress that this caused her.

2007-01-15 06:07:52 · 28 answers · asked by Westley K 1