Family - January 2007

I lived with my mother . My younger sister is in overseas now. My mother do all the house work including drive me to work & exercise class. Now my mother wants to go to Australia to take care of my sick cousin. She will staying there for a couple of month or year. The problem is :-

i) I have to stay alone at home.
ii) I have to do the housework & don't know to cook.
ii) I don't know how to drive. No transportation near my house .Who drive me to work and exercise class.

Any solution

2007-01-15 17:50:51 · 5 answers · asked by jennifer L 1

See any difference?

2007-01-15 17:36:58 · 6 answers · asked by Huguenot 5

Even though my baby's father did not sign the birth certification. Do i need to petition for custody for my child? I do not want my child around his father due to him being violent and to him having an untreated bipolar disorder that his sister informed me about. What should I do?

2007-01-15 17:30:15 · 6 answers · asked by nikki 1

I got engaged to a wonderful, wonderful woman just last month. We had been dating, kind of on the sly, for over a year. Why on the sly? Because she's black.

Her family is very close and loving, and they have completely accepted me. Her mother could very well be my mother. She is the warmest and most compassionate human being I've ever met, and she passed that on to her daughter, which is why I love her so much.

Here's the problem: I finally introduced her to my family. My mom is okay with it, but my father refuses to speak with me, see me, or acknowledge that I exist. I am an only child, and his actions have torn our family apart.

I love my father, but how can I get him to understand that this is the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with? How can I change his mind?

2007-01-15 17:24:57 · 15 answers · asked by White Dude X 2

The trailer floor is falling through,dogs and cats use the carpet. urine spell in the trailer always, dead parts of animals in yard all the time, roof leaks, The mother is a good mother she just has no where to go. The boyfriend is a good person, just how he lives

2007-01-15 17:23:28 · 12 answers · asked by Ma's girl 1

where is a good place to find one

2007-01-15 17:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by tyler j 2

2007-01-15 17:16:55 · 11 answers · asked by Phillip 4

Hi all. I'm married 20 years old and my husband and I been together for the past 4 years. We have a very loving relationship in witch im very happy... I've just migrated to Australia 1 year ago, I still find it hard to adjust here as nun of my family is here and is hard not having your family around...I'm working and my husband is working and studding as well (he will be going to university next year to study for becoming a school teacher) for the moment we're living with mother in law and we're trying to save up so we can move out... This is my current situation and now my question is should I have a baby now? I really want to have a baby I know deep inside I would be the happiest mother ever :)) I come from a big family (I have 7 brothers in witch im the oldest) and in my family I was like a second mother to my younger brothers, I did everything for them I wash I cook I wake up at night when they cry to try to put them back to sleep (that was when my mom had the twins) Continue---->

2007-01-15 16:48:40 · 10 answers · asked by Tina 4

My in-laws always upset me they are always rude, blut with me and not respect me at all but now I have a problem with my 8 year old baby I am simply concerned about her heath and if I see something that my husband's family is not doing right with my baby and that effects baby's health (since she is not suppose to take all kind of outside food because she is too young for all this)but they try to give her and if you say something they won't listen you. I had spoken with my husband and we had argued about it because he doesn't see anything wrong(eventhough baby's doc.said that it will effect baby's health) with that and he will never say anything to them because they are his family (he said that to me because for him his family comes firs tthan baby's health) then I though may be counselor can help us but he does not want to go there(I don't know why) I am very upset with this please advice me. thanks..

2007-01-15 16:46:40 · 8 answers · asked by hondolkk 1

He abused her physically and emotionally can a law suit be filed even though she has been removed from him and placed with me? There is a pending investigation and The child protective services has indicated him on numerous findings? So who should pay for her long term care? She now has PTSD.

2007-01-15 16:36:54 · 21 answers · asked by cmcbmc1025 1

I am married to my second husband, whom I love dearly. I have children from my 1st marriage and he has children from his 1st as well. My Mother-in-law favors his children dramitacly over mine. We have approached her and she gets very defensive. She told my husband how could she love my children like she does his, after only knowing them a few years. She makes it very obvious to our children as well. I am pregnant with "our" second child together. When we had an ultrasound she didn't want to know the sex, because my husband had said he would like it to be a surprise. That made me feel like I was un-important. After all, I'm only carrying the child. I can't shange her thoughts or actions, but how can I live with this on a daily basics? Please help. All advise would be helpfull!

2007-01-15 16:33:43 · 9 answers · asked by Jackie 2

I'm getting married in May and I would like my dad to be happy for me and all but I don't knw how he feels about it or why he want talk about it. In a way I could care less what he thinks b/c it's always negative thinking but I just wish he would be happy for us and know that I will be around and that I'm nt going to leave like my sister did. I just would like to knw why he's nt happy for us and why some other ppl like my soon to be husband's brother who's in the wedding by the way thinks we won't go through with it. How can we prove everyone wrong and really let them know that in May this will happen and we will be so happy with each other.

2007-01-15 16:30:39 · 7 answers · asked by Shorty 1

I'm getting married in May and I would like my dad to be happy for me and all but I don't knw how he feels about it or why he want talk about it. In a way I could care less what he thinks b/c it's always negative thinking but I just wish he would be happy for us and know that I will be around and that I'm going to leave like my sister did. I just would like to why he's nt happy for us and why some other ppl like my soon to be husband's brother who's in the wedding by the way thinks we won't go through with it. How can proof everyone wrong and really let them know that in May this will happen and we will be so happy with each other.

2007-01-15 16:23:20 · 8 answers · asked by Shorty 1

I quickly told her I was his wife and it is my business. He quickly agreed with me. What is her motive for this?

2007-01-15 16:08:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found cocain in my x girlfriends car she said her friends were doin it but not her there were 2 straws in a box of newport 100s her dads jewel card and her i.d. in the box along with a baggie containing a little bit of coke how can i find out ...she is 24 yrs old no kids

2007-01-15 16:03:29 · 13 answers · asked by not together still love her 2

My husband has a 4 yr old daughter who has no idea he is her father.Just that person who used to visit her at the mall.Yes when he finally was able to contact her it was very close to 1 yrs old, they went to court and he got 4 hrs every other weekend meeting her and her mother at a mall. It would be that way intill she was comforable alone with him well it ended up to go on for almost a year because the mother rufused to let him have a relationship with her.He let her run the whole thing which was his first mistake he really did think it was for the best to give her way so there was no tention....well then the bomb shell he went away for training for the army talking it over with his ex she agreed when he came home it would start up again well wrong it did'nt.he then right after training moved to 30hrs away and 2 months later was deployed she refused to take calls or send him any pic of his daughter.he is comming home soon and wants to see her,,,,she only knows the bf as her daddy...

2007-01-15 15:42:57 · 3 answers · asked by east 1

2007-01-15 15:40:28 · 7 answers · asked by broadwayaprilandtiffany 3

ok, i'll try to make this short. my sister (20) has a 3 month old baby and is living with the baby and her bf at my mothers 2 bedroom apartment. my sis works 20 hr a week and her bf works about 15. they both recieve checks from govt. hers 450 and his 300 a month. my mom is living on ssi of 700 a month (about 150 after all bills are paid). they do not give her a penny to help out and she is struggling. her car is broke down and its 600 to fix. she's been without one for 2 weeks now. she needed some pop from the store thats not too far away and my sis made her give her 2 dollars to go there for her. next time my mom wanted something from the store my sis wouldnt go get it and my mom had to walk in the rain. on top of it my mom suffers from severe depression. now tonight my sis's baby is in the hospital and she needed me to go get her bf from work and take him home, wait for him to shower, and take him to hospital. i was so angry cause she wont barely do for others. my fiance is takin hi

2007-01-15 15:17:39 · 4 answers · asked by notsurehere 2

i have been with my partner for seven years now and his mother is still trying to get me out of his life we hav two boys together and she favours the eldest,as she considers the second a mistake she has told me i will only ever be the mother of her sons kids and nothing to the rest of the family how do i solve this so evry1is happy???i cant take anymore plz help!!!

2007-01-15 15:06:01 · 25 answers · asked by tamara0405 1

I have a toddler entering the "terrible 2s" and he doesn't seem to obey my orders, I tell him you're grounded your going to the crib, and that seems to be working so far, so after that he behaves better for a while. But I'm moving and can't take the crib, Where or what is the best place to send him to think about what he did? the stairs? a corner? PLEASE HELP!

2007-01-15 15:03:01 · 4 answers · asked by Alexandrarc 3

What are some optional items i can bring to basic training ie. address book?

for instance do i bring envelopes and paper to write letters home or can i get them at the px? and what about stamps do i need those or what?

2007-01-15 14:58:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-15 14:30:49 · 7 answers · asked by shakenbake228 1

2007-01-15 14:29:47 · 14 answers · asked by notre1842dame 4

She hugged me, looked in my eyes, said she loved and trusted me and asked Hun, promise me, please. Though she's being over controlling, how could I say no? I love her, she's a wonderful mom, but I didn't want to make that promise. But I made, and even
said úpon my world, mom! she got so happy

2007-01-15 14:14:15 · 8 answers · asked by Marta M 1

We used to talk all the time. But now we barly ever talk and i feel really bad. What should I do?

2007-01-15 14:04:51 · 5 answers · asked by KittyCat 1

2007-01-15 14:02:08 · 6 answers · asked by Jasmine 1

How do you know your boyfriend is lieing? or cheating? im mean i don't think my boyfriend would but theres always what if he is?


Well one day he went on the computer and and i was next to him .And he had to sign in his msn but before he was going to he ask me to go get him some water? im like know just sign in so then he did but the werid thing was he was takeing forever to do so ? i don't think he has time to cheat cuz he go's to work at 1:40 to 11:00 at night but im with him the hole time. but idk maybe im just scared that he might. but when i asked him did he ever cheat on me before he says no but he laugh about it idk

2007-01-15 13:53:21 · 4 answers · asked by roxie 1

well.....i just found out that im pregnant and im gonna have a baby in nine months but heres the thing....the father doesnt want me to tel anyone he is the father and his parents are CHRISTIANS!! and also...he goes to colllege so wat the heck am i gonna tell my mom and work out how am gonna support my child wit out its daddy...

2007-01-15 13:51:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I grew up with a ton of family around. Now, I live far from my family and we dont see them that often. My husband keeps saying that it's okay our boy will grow up just fine. However, it really bothers me that his grandparents, unlces & aunts are all so far away. My husband is a Dr and his practices keep us here, but I feel like we need to move closer to family. Maybe this urge will go away but right now it's eating me up! Anyone else raising a family without your extended family near by???

2007-01-15 13:40:30 · 13 answers · asked by Corbyn's Mommy 2

My best friend is having trouble with her family.
She lives with her mother and three half siblings ages 11, 9, and 6. She is 14.

She is constantly being beaten up by her 11 year old brother. Not in the normal ways. He usually smacks her with books, punches her in the breasts, verbally abuses her, and now hits her on the head with Swiffer mops. Sometimes, when he is really angry, he will brandish a knife, but he puts it away when my friend threatens to call the police.

He gets angry over the smallest things- for example, my friend was on the computer and he demanded that it was his turn. When she said no, he smacked her with a book until she cried. Whenever my friend talks to her mom about this horrible problem, her mom tells her to fight her own battles.

Any advice for her? She sitting next to me and really wants advice. She hates being home with these people. Her other siblings are amazing, but her 11 year old brother makes her home life hell.

2007-01-15 13:31:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous