Family - January 2007

I am sixteen years old and i was adopted at the age of two. I was emotionally abused when i was younger. It seems as though I am a burden to the family and all i am is a disappointment to my parents. I would like some advice about changing families or going into an orphanage or ways of legally leaving my parents. I know for a fact that this would be better for both me and my parents, so if u can help i would gladly appreciatte it

2007-01-01 08:22:38 · 1 answers · asked by Swazy 2

i know it sounds weird but i always feel gulity and the end of the day...or sometimes i feel i cant do anything like my dream of acting..i mean you hear all actors saying"whatever you want to ndo in life you can,never give up" i mean im live in florida and in order to act you have to be in like la or ny...iv talked to my mom she says me making it in the bussiness is a 1 in a million shot deal..i dont think she understands that i really want this!i mean im a straight a student,i do my chores without being asked..for no allowenece!and my room is always clean.does she think its becuase im not responsible?any moms out there with advice?maybe to get my mom to see it threw my eyes,how bad i want this?

2007-01-01 08:18:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever been in the store and a kid starts screaming at and hitting the parent because he/she wants something in the store, after the parent already told the kid no. Then the parent, turns around and gives the kid what he/she wants, just to get them to be quiet? That is so annoying, to give the kid, what he/she wants, but i'm more annoyed by the parent for giving the kid it's way.

2007-01-01 08:13:08 · 10 answers · asked by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6

just got a phone call to say a very good friend commited suicide yesterday, why?????
what do you say to the family????
they are trying to put together the last hours of their life????
what do you say to the kids????
help
why news year eve???
so many question and no answers.

2007-01-01 08:11:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't seen my father since I was 8. He stopped calling when I was 14. I'm 19 now.

He called today and asked me to meet him. I don't know if I should.

2007-01-01 08:07:22 · 9 answers · asked by Yulia 4

well it's just that my brother stole my ipod sold it for drugs went to jail on friday got out on monday went to rehab on wednesday (last) and he checked him self out o there and it's putting sooooooo much stress on my mom and I what should I do + he tryed to steel like $5.00 from me and my mom thinks that he is like better but obveoulsy he is not and he stole a lady's purse!!!!!

2007-01-01 08:06:55 · 16 answers · asked by music is my life {itz m33gan} 3

I don't know if it has been done to u but it sure has been done to me!My sister copies everything i do!Like when i start liking something all of sudden she likes it too and wants to show people that this adoring thing started from her!She always takes my clothes and people are like "wow that's a nice outfit!" and then she doesn't say a thing about the fact that this is my outfit!And the strange thing is that she older than me and u can't say that i am her role model as a big sister cause i am the younger!What should i do?Will she stop??

2007-01-01 07:57:58 · 9 answers · asked by ~CoNniE~ 1

but that person is very expensive, she leaves too soon and doesn't do things right, so my mother has to redo them, and it's getting worse, we really don't need her but we used to and now we keep paying her because we are afraid to tell her we don't need her anymore, she's got a strong character and will react in a gross manner almost for sure. I don't want my mother to get upset but I don't want that woman to use us. to make things worse,at the beginning of the year she usually asks for a sallary increase, and it's already really high, what would u do?
many thanks and happy new year

2007-01-01 07:52:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 18 year old is dating someone my husband and I don't particularly approve of. He is a senior in highschool like my daughter and smokes pot. Yesterday night we allowed my daughter to have her boyfriend spend the night. We made him sleep downstairs in the computer room while she slept upstairs in her bedroom. They were watching a movie and it was 2:00 and i told her to go to sleep. She asked me if she could finish the movie first and i replied no...I was tired She got very angry at me and that got my husband very angry. He then yelled at my daughter for hugging her boyfriend good night. This morning my daughter came into my room around 7:00 and asked if she could go downstairs with her sleeping bag and lay next to him. I was half awake and i think may have replied yes. I don't know....well she went down there and when i woke up at 11:00 she was in her sleeping bag he was in his sleeping next to him. We woke her up and yelled at her. He left soon after. They been together 2yrs

2007-01-01 07:45:05 · 31 answers · asked by Marino272 1

earlyer i posted the question about by big brother beeing sick (the question is in additional details) when my parents got back he was still realy ill. to cut a long story short he was rushed to hospital cause he was dehydrated. me and my sister now feel realy bad and we know its are fault for not taking him to the hospital sooner we were just wondering what we should do to say sorry or make him feel a bit better when he gets back (we dont know when hes coming home). thankx for all your previous help to happy new year x

2007-01-01 07:39:01 · 5 answers · asked by francho 3

I'm 21, and earlier today i was trying to call my father to wish him a happy new year but I just forgot in the moment. I was with my family members of my mother side and it completly slip my mind until today.I just go a phone call from my brother who went with my father and he told me that my pops was very angry at me because i didn't give him a phone call last night. My question is should I let my father cool down a little or just give him a call a.s.a.p. and tell him i'm sorry that i forgot to call him. This matter is very sensitive could you guys give me some wise advice I really need it thanks to all.

2007-01-01 07:34:45 · 5 answers · asked by Ayato Kamina 3

She shaves her armpits weekly, she has lots of pubic hair and I heard the doctor saying something about her upcoming period and my sister is only nine!

2007-01-01 07:29:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister has been going out with her friends everyday to starbucks, drinking coffee. My bestfriend saw my sister spreading out her legs and a guy sitting in her lap, and they were shaking. My sister also swears 24/7 at me and I dont know what to do about it? What do you think is happening to her?

2007-01-01 07:26:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My grandmother won't stop whining! She sits around talking about how she can't do anything for herself (she can and several doctors said she could). Whenever anyone is busy, she whines "I'm so sorry I'm such a burden, but my mind doesn't work. Someone is going to have to take care of me. I can't eat." Then she'll look at whatever food we have and ask "Whatcha eating...?" When I offer her something, she won't give me a straight answer or she'll say "that' ok, honey. I don't want to put you out." She drives me CRAZY! She manipulates my mother into doing everything for her. My mom seems to like being able to wait on her mom, but I don't like being expected to wait on someone who can take care of themselves! Plus, my gma sitting on herr *** all day can't be good. Won't she deteriorate? She tries every new depression medication she can but when it doesn't "work" the next day, she complains about how she's different from everyone else and how the meds don't work. How do I handle her?!

2007-01-01 06:55:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad won't cross on the stairs, won't open umbrellas in the house, won't put shoes on the table (even if they're in a box), won't wear the colour green, is very worried about breaking mirrors, won't eat meat on Good Friday (even though he never bothers with church) and has to have the Xmas decorations down by 'twelfth night' even if it kills him. He also insists on windows being closed even in the height of summer in case a bird gets in the house, which is bad too. He also has to enter the house by the door he originally left from. Failure to observe these superstitions makes him mad. My mum follows none of these superstitions. Anyone else with a superstitious dad?

2007-01-01 06:31:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-01 06:25:06 · 2 answers · asked by RFG3rd 2

My aunt and uncle are on welfare and have one baby, Johnathan. He is slow in development and is taking physical therapy because he is a year old and hasn't begun to crawl. So it's obvious that he needs special attention, right?

Well, then my aunt finds out that she's pregnant... again. They already have trouble affording their first kid. How to tell them to stop without being rude?

2007-01-01 06:19:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I class my childs father as her dad, but recently my friend pointed out he is just DNA/sperm donor, as my child has received 1 x 1st birthday card, a milkshake and a packet of mints a few months ago, and 10 visits in 12 yrs. and today when i said it to him he was shocked, why? i always refer to him as dad, but my daughter says do you mean mike or my father, why was he shocked, he has never been to any events/xmas/birthdays/school/never came when she was admitted to hospital by 999 ambulance/only ever sent her 1 card/never paid maintenance, all i have ever asked for was time and having another family/girlfriend/smoke/drink/golf always comes before her.

2007-01-01 06:16:28 · 26 answers · asked by trouble 4

2007-01-01 06:15:24 · 3 answers · asked by kaybee413 2

They were in bed together,and my aunt's clothes looked a little messy when I knocked on the door. Are they committing incest......omg?

2007-01-01 06:03:03 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-01 06:00:20 · 11 answers · asked by PopsGifts 3

Someone very near and dear made a agreement on my late father's inheritance and then maliciously backed out of it.

I have tried to let it go of it for the sake of peace in my family, but it is eating me up inside. Addressing it would only result in self-serving justifications that would only serve to add insult to injury, and make matters worse.

I need to let this go for the sake of my own peace of mind and move on with my life. I need to know HOW to do it. This is not about my father's inheritance, but it is simply over a broken promise that didn't need to be made in the first place.

Any answers would be greatly appreciated.

2007-01-01 05:55:31 · 4 answers · asked by llexpat 2

i know my mom is doing something behind my back shold i tell on her or should i tell her i know

2007-01-01 05:55:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im going to drop off flowers. What kinds of flowers are suitable? What else should i bring/do?

2007-01-01 05:50:55 · 12 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4

Sometimes, unluckely you have to share a table with christians who can't have a normal brindis but instead start a so called "praying", as an atheist you don't like the situation and just want to get out there and wait they finished. But ...should I leave the table, stay there and tolerate they finish, just say I hate to listen that %$@!

2007-01-01 05:49:03 · 19 answers · asked by ronaldoinho 1

she is being rilly mean should i be mean back

2007-01-01 05:47:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I been living with my very Bossy Motherinlaw and Wife for two years now. I been out of work and we lost our House so she Has takes us in. She and My wife are in Business and work full time. They leave Me at Home all day. Well she has me cleaning washing etc I cook for them as well. If I do not do as she want she yells at me and Her and My wife dont talk to me. Now they just sold my car as I have no say at all. I see they are molding Me into a submissive Maid for them. I kinda let this Happen But Now I think I am past the point of no return. Whats Next for Me? She's talking about Buying Pantys If I dont get in Line!!!!! She Has said this a few time in the Last week

2007-01-01 05:42:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm taking care of my grandmother. She can do everyday things for herself but the rest is up to me. Can you share your experiences?

2007-01-01 05:39:12 · 4 answers · asked by Cori 3

I'm sort of having problems at home and really stressed lately. My bf's mom told me that anytime i just want to get away from life i can go with them anywhere or just go to their house. Should I tell my mom this even though she's the problem?

2007-01-01 05:34:55 · 6 answers · asked by tadpole 2

I know i don't like these kids that have to live in this house with me. I always tease them and make fun of them expectually the youngest one. I think he has some kind of health problem, he's freezing all the time. me, my sister and our friends steal his blanket from him, the kid is 6 years old. We steal his backpack from him, it has his food and treats in it. he's afraid of the dark so we steal his flashlight and nightlight from him to make him scared. One time after we stole his flashlight and nightlight, we turned off the light on him and closed the door, he was scared. I don't care if he's an , a teenager, a child or a baby, i still seriously don't like him. And I would do anything to kick him and his siblings out of this house. My friends were talking, they were saying that they might end up killing this kid, i didn't want to go that far, i don't like him, but i don't want to kill him. i won't become friends with him, but my friends want to kill him. I need help!

2007-01-01 05:30:06 · 11 answers · asked by Richard C 1