Someone very near and dear made a agreement on my late father's inheritance and then maliciously backed out of it.
I have tried to let it go of it for the sake of peace in my family, but it is eating me up inside. Addressing it would only result in self-serving justifications that would only serve to add insult to injury, and make matters worse.
I need to let this go for the sake of my own peace of mind and move on with my life. I need to know HOW to do it. This is not about my father's inheritance, but it is simply over a broken promise that didn't need to be made in the first place.
Any answers would be greatly appreciated.
2007-01-01 05:55:31 · 4 answers · asked by llexpat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I see no way that is can be resolved unless it is addressed. Is it a broken promise that you can prove was made or a promise made in private between the two of you. Either way, you are going to have to approach the person who made the promise and take whatever action needed from there. If nothing else the person will at least know that you are aware,if they don't already, of the breach. If it's monetary or property involved then you will have to take it on the chin unless civil courts are involved.
2007-01-01 06:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by P/T Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write it down...all your thoughts and feelings...purge your system of the poison that is festering in you. It is like an infected cut. Until you get it all out it will never heal. Once you have it all written down read it through and then tear it up into tiny pieces and scatter it anywhere that makes sense to you. And as you let go of all those pieces let go of your anger and hurt. Sounds pretty simple and yet mystical and dramatic doesn't it? It kinda is, but it is effective especially with people you don't want to really confront for whatever reason. This has worked for me in the past, I hope it works for you...Best wishes...
2007-01-01 14:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remind yourself that you are a better person than that and they are the one who made false promises. Think of it as they are not worthy of the stress it causes you. This is never easy but, in time they will get theres. What comes around goes around and you are the better person for forgiving them.
2007-01-01 14:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the promise is not broken.Her heart is broken
2007-01-01 15:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋