Family - September 2006

In all ways how do you think you come out of it ?

2006-09-30 23:45:48 · 10 answers · asked by Mr. PDQ 4

2006-09-30 23:38:01 · 1 answers · asked by GRAHAM M 1

My family is always putting me down and they never believe in what I say until they find out the truth from someone else... I am an adult and they still treat me as a child and seem to think that that is how I think, I guess. Do I talk to them about this or what? They are driving me crazy with the way they treat me..as in no respect. I have my faith in myself and the Lord, so what about them????

2006-09-30 23:36:36 · 4 answers · asked by chazzer 5

2006-09-30 23:28:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-30 23:22:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so please help! My hubby's a GOOD Stepdad. Its been 1+1/2yr. we've been married. My daughter, 13 & him LOVE one another but she's VERY resistant in many ways. She's in contact w/ her biological Dad & thinks the world of him. That's fine but she's just..I don't know how to say it: all consumed w/ him, who's never taken 'good' care of her, doesn't pay child support, had to be tracked down to help out, etc. I decided long ago not to judge or chase him (for her sake: time, $$) anymore. He never missed a b-day or Christmas & that's more than enough for her. Her Stepdad wants to adopt her, give her our name, takes excellent care of her. BUT she's become CLINGY to her bio. dad who lives 5 hrs. away. WHY? They talk through 'myspace' almost daily. He's remarried w/kids - that's great! My Q's are: what names can she call her Stepdad - she won't do "Dad" & the 1st name thing's KILLIN me. As she grows will she appreciate him at all? It seems all that's reserved for a deadbeat. Help, please.

2006-09-30 22:25:48 · 12 answers · asked by Sleek 7

Don't know what to get her she does the knitting, still does the gardening,I'm thinking to get her a plate with a pic of her nephew,me and my son? get it engraved

2006-09-30 22:23:47 · 11 answers · asked by pisceslady a 4

i really want another child (i have a son whos 5 after christmas) with my partner but he always says he doesnt want any more, we talked about it and he said he didnt want to, he doesnt want any more of his freedom taken away, i explained that yes things would change but he would still be able to go to football training and stuff, what do you think i should do? i dont want my son to be an only child, i want him to grow up with lots of family around him.

2006-09-30 21:53:23 · 30 answers · asked by betty_boop81xx 2

2006-09-30 21:50:29 · 5 answers · asked by puzzled 1

I'm curious :-)

2006-09-30 20:59:49 · 19 answers · asked by cucumis_sativus 5

2006-09-30 20:47:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Anyone ever been adopted by their grandparents? If so, Have you noticed your raised very strict, almost to strict, that it makes you feel like you can't do anything right, cause what you do is not good enough for your adopted mother? I was a result of a rape, adoped by my grandparents..If anyone has been adopted and feel so alone, and really not
wanted? I would love to have some feed back
please..Thank you..Have you felt you are imprisoned in inviable bars?

2006-09-30 20:39:51 · 7 answers · asked by shea_harriet 2

My brother can be pretty violent with me, not often, but it does happen. Nothing too big of a deal either.. I probably deserve it, or at least provoked it. He is very strong, and has a horrible temper, but is truly a good person. Yes, it can be scary because he is around 6'1, and is very muscular and I’m about 5'4-5'5 and 97lbs. But I bring it onto myself. I should know when to get away, but I stay.
It has happened every now and then since I was little but just this last summer I visited some friends for a few weeks (I live in a different state & am going to college) and was at his house, I don’t really know why but he flipped out on me because he said I hadn’t spend enough time with him while I was there. He just threw me down the stairs, then against the door and started chocking me. Anyway it’s a long story, but what would you recommend I do when this happens? I have told my parents when I was younger, but they say it's my fault.
Oh, and I'm 19.

2006-09-30 20:26:25 · 24 answers · asked by jen 1

I am getting married in 6 days and at first I understood that my family and my friends weren't going to be able to attend the wedding due to the location. But the more i think about it the more pissed i get and hurt. I am fron Ohio and I move to Canada with my fiance (been together for 4 years) It is an 6 hour drive. And I just can't get over the fact that my own parents refuse to drive 6 hours to see their oldest daughter get married but will drive 2 days to go to some freaking church crap or some other event . Who knows .. I am trying ot be okay with it but I just can't shake this feeling of resentment for them. Even my best friends whom I have known since grade school aren't coming. I had to ask my soon to be sister in law to be my maid of honor cause my friends aren't coming to the wedding. I keep thinking back on all the crap I have done for them and never once ask for anything from them and now when I need the the most they can't do it .. Am I allowed to be PISSED at them ???

2006-09-30 20:24:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-30 20:17:06 · 1 answers · asked by K_D 1

2006-09-30 20:05:54 · 8 answers · asked by homer_dejesus 1

like i want to find out if my father has an e mail address or even his address

2006-09-30 20:02:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-30 19:42:15 · 30 answers · asked by person 1

He insists on only wearing two or three things and tearing them up all the time. We have a neighbor who assumes I don't even buy him anything and just buy for me! It hurts, but it hurts more that I want to groom him nicely and he will let me for events and stuff but not at home.... Two of our children have commented on it and they dress nicely all the time partly because they think it's wrong he doesn't, it seems.

So guys...? Why do you not want to dress neatly and comfortably? Or is it just my guy?

2006-09-30 19:39:03 · 18 answers · asked by *babydoll* 6

Please help me, I kinda have problems in loosing my possesions cause last friday i lost my scientific calculator in school which was very expensive, I keep on blaming myself and I got grounded by my parent's. I was so careless they say, for now it's my problem on how to find it. could you give me any advices on how i start finding it and what is the proper way to do so i will never loose any of my things again.

2006-09-30 19:17:23 · 3 answers · asked by MarkAngelo 2

2006-09-30 19:16:35 · 15 answers · asked by BACTERIA RETURNS 1

This is 100% serious. I can find anyone online and I finally found papa after ten years of searching since mama gave me his name.

I really love/hate him, if you know adoptees you'll understand. I want to be like him and to kill him, but first I have to find out more about him.

I've found out the incident involved him drunkenly exposing himself to a underaged teenage employee at a department store. He served a few days of a 90 day sentance. The judge told him to get a job, so at around 60 he's still a huge loser.

But it's his fault mama couldn't keep me, and he never wanted anything to do with me or her, and his family told him to keep her away from them once she got pregnant. How messed up is that?

How can I be a good person, and I am, when my parents are such monsters? And how can I relate to them?

2006-09-30 19:03:16 · 9 answers · asked by filosoof 1

Simple, please answer.

2006-09-30 18:40:12 · 12 answers · asked by full_gangstarr 3

Okay so i have an issue with my parents. My step-dad i swear hates me, everyday he comes home and yells at me sometimes for things that aren't even my fault or are just plan stupid. He tells me all the time i can't do things, and when i do go and do things when i come back i get into trouble for forgetting to shut off my t.v before i left. He tries and presuade my mother that i'm dishonest and a liar. Funny thing is half the time he can't even back up what he says. I'm still the one that's wrong and get's into trouble though. Like yesterday i couldn't go over to my friends house because i had "dirty clothes" on my floor, the truth is they weren't even on the floor, and they weren't dirty either, i was just laying out the clothes i wanted to wear. He's very assuming too, whenever something happens he automatically blaims it on me, and my mother goes along with him just because he's her husband. I feel like i'm a bad person and my parents hate me. Am i really that bad?

2006-09-30 18:39:11 · 12 answers · asked by Goose Feet 6

she threw all my stuff on the ground and wripped this pic of me and destroyed my room
she is being a bigbigbig jerk only because i wanted to shop with her to get her a b-day present!!! WHY IS THAT MEAN??

2006-09-30 18:34:33 · 23 answers · asked by live_laugh_love l 2

I think my parents are racist because i have a black boy friend and my mom says things about him all the time. I have tons of black friends and my mom and dad will say they are the n word all the time and other things. they ask my why i have to like black people and why i cant hang out with white people. and i just get along with black people better than white people and i wouldn't change it for the world. but what should i do?

2006-09-30 18:34:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

like... NOT granny grandma mama, or gramdpa or papa. nana also isn't an option, it's already taken bu other grandmother. thanks

2006-09-30 18:29:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

and he said i dont know anything and that im stupid, what did i do wrong? i think i just looked at him wrong...i am so confused, and mad, and upset, and everything.

2006-09-30 18:24:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

the motives unknown

2006-09-30 18:21:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wrote this poem when I was 16 and now several years later, looking back I'm wondering if its any good at all. Can u plz tell me what do u think of it?

My Perfect Fairytale

Oh,
how I loved that day,
when everything happenned my way,
The skies were green
and the leaves were blue,
I was queen
in a dream so true.

We bumped into each other,
and I stepped onto his toe,
Little did I know,
he was my knight in shining armour.

He gazed into my eyes,
and I noticed a glint of sadness in his,
I felt an urge to share a slice
of his miseries.

And so,
I held his hand
and whisked him away,
to a land
so faraway.

We shared our dreams,
We shared our burdens,
We built a kingdom,
of our own imagination.

Needless to say,
We lived happily ever after,
The perfect way,
to end my fairytale.

2006-09-30 17:55:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anjali 3