Family - November 2006

My 13 year old daughter is on her 3rd pregnancy. I have tried talking to her about the dangers of unprotected sex but she will not listen to me. She tells me that it is her body and she can have as many babies as she wants. My husband is happy with her behavior. He says that she is old enough to do what she wants and if she wants to keep having babies than its on her. Is their anything that I can do to stop her or should I just accept having all of these grandkids?? Help please!!

2006-11-30 23:54:24 · 37 answers · asked by mamabag06 2

2006-11-30 23:47:22 · 26 answers · asked by Grinner5000 4

i am only allowed to spend 20 on my bf for xmas and hes only allowed to spend 20 on me but i dont know what i can get him for 20 that is good and not cheap ****. this is what his mum said and we have to show her the recipts to his mum.

ps i live with my bf and we only allowed to 20 cos we havent got alot of money cos i just got a new car and just passed my test thanks

2006-11-30 23:37:34 · 15 answers · asked by shell 5

when a family member tells lies about you and turns your brothers and sisters against you and sends you vulgar text messages, what would you do?....sadly this is my mother. other half sais my whole family is mad, which is true, but should i try and speak to them or should have nothing more to do with all of them? i feel that at the end of the day these people are my family, but also i think because my brothers and sisters are just as mad as my mother to believe her, i cant be bothered anymore. what do you think?

2006-11-30 23:10:30 · 33 answers · asked by loxie 1

2006-11-30 23:06:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or is that just an extreme case of narcissism?

2006-11-30 23:00:10 · 26 answers · asked by The Phantom of Anna Nicole Smith 2

My brother is ten i am 14 he calls me every profanity he can think of, he is venomous and anything can set him off. He dissapears for hours and we find him at parks etc. He punches walls when he doesnt get what he wants he threatens to hurt us or my dog. No one can control him, not consellors, teachers, not my parents no one. He causes fights and disturbances in my family and i keep imagining him dead or gone. But what scares me is everytime i imagine that i feel less guilty. I hate him, i have tried befriending him, but nothing works i want to know is there anything i can do to make him stop hurting us all and being so angry?

2006-11-30 22:55:59 · 12 answers · asked by mcr_fan_4evr 2

My inlaws are very interfering in our lives. I have been married for 1.5 years & till date facing problems with my in-laws. My Father in law is very interfering whether it be our personal finances, me n my husband going out together, what to buy and what now to!! They interfere in every little thing. He also keeps on taunting me for some reason/other. Tries that me n my husband don’t spend much time together, when at home or out. Keeps interfering or asks to sit with him n talk. My ma inlaw keeps back biting abt me wt my fthr in law. She also keeps corrupting my husband’s mind. My husband is nice but very scared of his father. Though he supports me & knows his father’s attitude but cannot take a stand at times. I understand his position but im fed up. It gets very stressful staying at home after I come back from work. We r planning on having kids. ive tried talking to in laws politely but they r the same after a few dys. pls advise on how can i convince my husband to stay separately.

2006-11-30 22:34:10 · 8 answers · asked by sparkle 1

wut does it mean when the poeple at school withdraw u from school does that mean ur kicked out or wut does it mean u can go to another school????

2006-11-30 22:25:59 · 5 answers · asked by sweetchick19002003 2

My partner had a baby as a result of a one night stand. When the mother registerd the birth she claimed that she didn't know who the father was. We have his daughter every weekend and he pays her £110 a month and also helps with clothing and shoes etc. without any hesitation. He is willing to support his daughter but now she is demanding more money from him.
As his name is not on the birth certificate has he got any rights?
Can he be made to pay more?

2006-11-30 22:20:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my feeling of love have gone for my partner but we are expecting our second child is it because im depressed that i have no feelings what should i do about situation please help!

2006-11-30 21:47:55 · 16 answers · asked by amy_cuddihy 1

me and my partner are expscting our second chid but im feeling very stressed as we argue all the time!wat shall i do

2006-11-30 21:30:13 · 6 answers · asked by amy_cuddihy 1

with all my heart i really really want to say sorry to her. after my behavior towards her. i love her. i just don't know how to say sorry. i'm scared.

2006-11-30 21:27:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Most came to Ellis Island in 1890s and 1910s from Messina, Sicily, Italy. Surname could also be LoCanto. Various spellings of all 3 names. I only want to hear from actual people, I have all the genealogy websites I need. Thank you!

2006-11-30 21:22:54 · 1 answers · asked by miladybc 6

she hasnt really asked for anything.i have got her litlle presents but i am really stuck on what to get her for her main present .she has a game boy,mp3 and things like that please help

2006-11-30 20:53:31 · 16 answers · asked by NICOLA P 1

i have a 13 yr old sister, but she looks, & acts like shes 17.
shes the talk of our neighborhood because no one believes
her real age NO ONE! .. i recently got jealous,, i always use
to think i was prettier than her,, but then i started giving her
beauty tips, and helping her out,, and people have noticed the
difference.. what should i do? we are close in age [im 15] so
we're all in the same "crew". when they call [& they kno i answer] they same "is _________ there?".. it hurts.


HElP?!?

2006-11-30 19:59:45 · 8 answers · asked by chelsღ 3

i come from a big family, either they so easy get emotion. n i don't how to make them feel comfort , n can think with calm . their always make a decision so quick n never think is it good to do or not . their just want to do something n say something that they think thats right for them .but it's always can hurt someone . please tell me how to solve this problem n what must isaid to them can think in cold head. n care to their surounder . thank u..

2006-11-30 19:58:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

just watched "click it"(Adam Sandler) and it got me to thinking I would have to say rewind so i could fix some of my mistakes not all of them as some taught me some really good lessons and one big mistake years ago brought me my youngest daughter(One of my greatest joys in life ever) who is about to have her 1st child. Rewind and force my oldest daughter to leave her boyfriend 11 months and 25 days ago

2006-11-30 19:31:27 · 2 answers · asked by katlady927 6

My 13 and a half year old sister has been acting really weird lately... shes been crying and trying to avoid people. I know that shes keeping something from us. My mum wont do anythink. Citae wont do anythink. Ebelle wont do anythink. Her boyfriend wont and of course dad wont...
but I WANT to help her. I cant let my little sister go on like this. I dont know whats wrong!
She hasnt even been talking for the last 6 days...

PLZ HELP GUYS!!!

-Yasmin

2006-11-30 19:29:53 · 51 answers · asked by Yahmina 2

Why doesnt he ask me directly?
Its not really bothersome to me, I’m just curious

Why does my best friends older brother (19yrs old) [ note: I am 17, and a senior in HS ] never ask me questions directly?

For example, yesterday, I’m walking downstairs where my best friend and he was sitting. He is turning on his new HDTV DVD of Superman, and I hear him say,

“Wait, Kate has to see what its like before I switch it to High Definition” I get downstairs and sit on the couch and he obviously sees me. (he looks right at me) and he asks his sister “Has Kate ever seen Superman?” and my best friend (his sister) says “I don’t know Casey, why don’t you ask her yourself?” and he says “Kate, have you ever seen Superman?”

Why does he always do this? He never asks me directly, or speaks to me directly. He talks to me like I’m not in the room. Why?

2006-11-30 19:22:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-30 19:02:50 · 10 answers · asked by CHRISTOPHER 1

Hi everyone, im 26 and have a beautiful husband, weve been together since we were at school, and married at 25. I have PCOS so would like to try for a baby now to give me plenty of time to conceive, we want this so bad, we have a rock solid marriage and a stable career, plus we are blessed in that we will never have financial difficulties due to parents fortune. However this parental fortune has given them some hold over us, they think that they can now control my husband and i and the decisions we make. They thought we married to young, and they will deffinately think that this is to soon!! they are my husbands parents and so its difficult for me to controll the situation, they feel we should be focussed on our career til about 33 then try, but thats way to long for me to wait, and it may spoil my chances of ever having a baby!! please help, im stressed with this, and i want to know if you think that we are too young and they are right?

2006-11-30 18:59:36 · 8 answers · asked by sabina 1

Ok...so i'm the YOUNGEST BROTHER of 5. First my older brother (30 years old) then 3 sisters (29, 25, and 22 years old) and then me.. 17. I've read that personality differs from every individual according to their position on the family (by the way's that's Adlers theory). i wanna know what are the personality traits of the younger brother (like me). Also, we (my family) is Aristocratic, Catholic and kinda conservative. I hope that with these details u can help me decifer how this could have made my personality. Thanksssss a lot!

P.D: sorry for the english errors i'm not american.. and if u have Msn.. leave ur mail.. i'll add ya

2006-11-30 18:51:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does anyone not have a father? Mother? Where do you live? How did you grow up? How did you cope with it? How DO you live and cope with it? How did this happen? Don't mean to be nosy, I'm just curious.

2006-11-30 18:41:26 · 12 answers · asked by sally b 4

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2006-11-30 18:40:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has NEVER lived on her own. Her mom died Nov.13th of last yr. When she was growing up her parents were foster parents,they adopted 1 foster child. Then when she was 11 they stopped doing that because her mom took on the responsiblity of her mentally handicapped uncle. To make it short, there are12 ppl living in a 3 bedroom house,becuase after her mom died her brother(who is on his 3rd marriage and his new wife who has 2 kids) decided to move back home.And so did the foster brother.The questions is,Is it right for her teen age kids 17yr old(girl) and 15 yr old(boy) to be sharing rooms? And she lets them have friends over to stay at night.Her dad,uncle and foster brother share a room,She shares a room with her husband and 3 yr old son,the brother and wife and her 2 kids sleep in the living room. ALSO she complains about them moving in,I've
asked her why don't she move out,she says I was here first,So do you think next time she complains that I should just listen,even if she asks?

2006-11-30 18:34:31 · 5 answers · asked by Mother of 2 girls 3

If you're not financially and mentally prepared to give the kid what he/she needs....then don't have one. Also, if both parents need to work, why do you need to live in a big house...why not get an apartment so a parent can stay home with the kid and provide the right care as opposed to strangers stepping in so you could compete with the Joneses?

2006-11-30 18:21:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is eighteen and his girlfriend is 16. They just had a daughter on November 8, 2006. Neither one of them have a clue about taking care of a baby. The baby lives with the mother and the maternal grandmother in a home with no heat and no hot water. They are using kerosene heaters to heat up the house. I confronted them about this situation and they got upset. Now they no longer allow my son or myself to see the baby. I have called child protective services, but so far nothing has been done. They also threatened to have my son locked for statutory rape if he continued to try to see the baby. How do I go about getting custody or should I even pursue it knowing my son may go to jail? Only serious answers please.

2006-11-30 17:56:03 · 8 answers · asked by Itsy 2

I live with my grandma and my grandpa and my brother and my brother got hit for no reason five times in the eye with a book becasue my gandpa said he wasnt supposed to be reading... what should I do? should i talk to my g-ma?

2006-11-30 17:51:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, my grandson has been through hell and back - rape, abuse, you name it, he's experienced it. Not to mention the abuse my own husband put him through when he was in the house. The guy is in jail now, but the police are saying I'm an unfit gaurdian.

I mean, I know he tried to commit suicide, but I have helped him in every way possible. I've gotten him coucling and other help, and they just yanked him out and put him in foster care!

What should I do?

2006-11-30 17:35:22 · 7 answers · asked by CandyCorn 1