my feelings have gone for my partner but we are expecting our second child?

Question

my feeling of love have gone for my partner but we are expecting our second child is it because im depressed that i have no feelings what should i do about situation please help!

Answer 1

Get help. You seem to be suffering from some form of depression which is a chemical imbalance and probably needs to be corrected with medication. Once your brain is balanced, you will know your feelings much better and will be able to hopefully try to make things work for the sake of the children.

Answer 2

this is a difficult question. you may not feel as much for your partner at the moment because of your pregnancy, your hormone levels are all over the place. depression can be treated by a medical professional, you may well feel much better after this has been done. if after you have had the child you still feel this way, you and your partner need to sit down a nd talk, this will be very difficult, but needs to be done. if you feel you have no future together, it is probably better to seperate. children need a happy stable mother rather than one who is depressed and in the wrong situation for her. best of luck xx

Answer 3

Your depression probably has a lot to do with it. When you're depressed nothing seems to matter anymore. But, you have a new baby on the way...what could be more exciting than that? You really should have thought this through before you got pregnant again. I think you need to work on getting through this depression...(see a Dr) so you will have a family for the 2 children you've brought into this world. You owe them that much.

Answer 4

Its probably hormonal. I didn't much care for my childrens father when I was pregnant with my 2nd child either... actually we were in the midst of breaking up when I found out I was pregnant.

Once the baby was born and the hormones died down, I realized that I did love him and I wanted us as a family unit.

That lasted for about 4 more years - till I discovered that I truely didn't like the person that he was, and I left.

Take your time. Unless he is abusive - give it a chance - they say not to make any large financial decisions or life changing decisions when you are pregnant, because your hormones are so strong it is like PMS every single day for 9 months for some women.

Good luck to you and your new baby.

Answer 5

Hey sweetie, it is aint true that your feeling is lost after the 2nd child...You will not bear him any love crystals if you dont love him..come on, there's more for you and him to go through...Maybe have some private dates once in a while...Find the lost time and sweet moments you pple being through in the past...

Answer 6

thats a hard one i would wait till after u have the baby and if u still feel the same way i would move on lifes short why be with someone if your not happy with them anymore and dont stay with him for the kids its better to have just a mother then a dad and mom thats always fighting

Answer 7

Well there are many single moms out there today...or you can give your child up for adoption or you can work at getting your relationship back on track

Answer 8

Your feelings are with your b/f. As you are having second child, it means that you are completing the family structure. good luck.

Answer 9

think i answered a question of yours before... get yourself checked out by a doctor , your hormones are probably causing this..u think u may be depressed and your probably right, and you partner is probably none the wiser, men don't look beyond the big picture most of the time. and they go into defense mode.. they are so dumb..lol but please get checked out, be positive.

Answer 10

with dead feelings, hoe come u expect,a child...it is not that, u hav no feelings...but bcoz of busy life schedule, may b u both r nt getting enough consideration.......better u together sort it out