How do you deal with a brother who is kinda crazy?

Question

My brother is ten i am 14 he calls me every profanity he can think of, he is venomous and anything can set him off. He dissapears for hours and we find him at parks etc. He punches walls when he doesnt get what he wants he threatens to hurt us or my dog. No one can control him, not consellors, teachers, not my parents no one. He causes fights and disturbances in my family and i keep imagining him dead or gone. But what scares me is everytime i imagine that i feel less guilty. I hate him, i have tried befriending him, but nothing works i want to know is there anything i can do to make him stop hurting us all and being so angry?

Well interesting answers but notes i am 14 i am not gonna move out @_@ lol and i cant tell him how he behaves is wrong that makes it worse. So far kicking his *** or bootcamp sounds best :)

And to the guy who called my family non-loving how dare you. The only time we are not loving is when he says he wants to hurt us all kicks my little dog and storms off. OVER A TENNIS BALL when he was playing with my other brother. Jealousy/favoritism doesnt sound farfetched though

Answer 1

Move out and start your own life without that jerk.

Answer 2

If your parents can not control him, then you try to control him but don't do it by yourself get some other girls to help you control him. The next time you have girls over at your house and he hurts your dog then when he is hurting the dog have two girls quietly go up to him behind his back. Then have both of the girls get him away from the dog by having the girls get him down on the floor. Once he is down on the floor, have one girl take his hands and another girl take his ankles and carry him to his room and tie him to a chair. Once he is tied to the chair, have all the girls give him a makeover by making him wear girls clothes and also put makeup on him. Once he is dressed like a girl and has makeup on, take pictures of him and threaten to show some of his friends. Also, have him stay tied in the chir dressed like a girl until he stops threatening to hurt you.

this should work because since he is a boy and you are his sister and you dress him like a girl, he will probably stop hurting your family because if you tell him that he will stay tied in the chair dressed like a girl until he stops.

select this answer for 10 points because it is the most logical solution to stop this behavior.

Answer 3

Your brother has some serious issues. It is normal for you to want him to just disapear. Your coping skills at 14 are limited. There is nothing you can do to control your brothers behavior only your own. Your parents really need some help or he has a future behind bars.

Answer 4

I am the crazy brother just go along with it cause some day you will need a crazy brother believe me it will be good to know people like that

Answer 5

he doesnt do all of that for nothing and you know it

something's not right with the way you behave towards him, your whole family. someone wh's brought up in a loving home doesnt do that

shame on you for not figuring it out

Answer 6

Ever tried telling him what you think his behavior?Don't try to accuse him of anything,show him you care (well,even if you don't).If it's too difficult to sit him down and talk to him,write him a note,put it where he's sure to see it.

Answer 7

I think he's jealous. It's not your fault, it's your parents. They might show favouritism and treat you differently. Try to get him to see it this way.

Answer 8

Have your parents send him to boot camp as soon as possible.

Answer 9

yeah stoop down to his level, your older than him, kick his a.ss when he gets out of line, that always worked with my brother.

Answer 10

Maybe act the same way and soon he will realize what he has done or if your a christian you should pray to god to make your brother stop................