My 13 year old daughter is on her 3rd pregnancy. I have tried talking to her about the dangers of unprotected sex but she will not listen to me. She tells me that it is her body and she can have as many babies as she wants. My husband is happy with her behavior. He says that she is old enough to do what she wants and if she wants to keep having babies than its on her. Is their anything that I can do to stop her or should I just accept having all of these grandkids?? Help please!!
2006-11-30 23:54:24 · 37 answers · asked by mamabag06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
divorce the husband since moma still bathes him, put your son in jail for rape'n your daughter and put your sluty daughter in boot camp!
2006-12-01 00:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 10⤊ 3⤋
Well first get some child support from all the daddys if different..and second it seems like you cant stop her from having sex but have you looked into Birth Control or having her get a IUD in then so wont be having babies. Maybe you should call an OBGYN and talk to them about the IUD and i think that will be your best bet. I am sorry that is horrible. As long as the babies are well taken care of and healthy that is really all that matters but it seems like she will be living off wel fare for a very long time. I would just look into the IUD the doctor puts it in and it lasts up to ten year and then you can have the doc take it out whenever.
2006-12-01 06:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this age it's not a good idea to have sex. But if she wants to do so, she should be using rubbers. If that doesn't work then you MUST put your foot down! Start threatning to give the kids to an orphinarium if she doesn't stop! This **** has to stop! At 13 she's not even deloped yet. Girls are not fully developed until 18! If she has to have a C-section it may kill her! You could force her to go to teenage pregnacy center. Force her to stay home from school and take care of them for 1 day! She won't like it then. Make her feed, bath, change, and put the babbies to sleep! Make her take complete care of all of them! Make the little slut get a damn job anywhere she can. As soon as she turns 14 legally she can work to support the kids. Now she'll most likely have to drop from school. Work **** jobs all her life and end up living in a small *** trailer because that's all she can afford. She'll be lucky to have a running car without school! This is serious you need to take charge! Even if it means grounding her, looking all the doors and windows with heavy chains and pad locks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-01 00:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by yetterbadassdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is getting old. Put your daughter up for adoption. And the 14 year old that your husband is pimping out to his friends. Get yourself sterilized because you are clueless aboout kids. As for the real world: third pregnancy by a minor is automatic sterilization to the child, and removal from the home with severing of parental rights.
2006-12-01 00:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yep..I would #1 get rid of the husband..what kind of a father is he to think that it is okay for his 13 yr old to be involved with any guys at her age?? #2 I would start going after these guys that she is sleeping with...for crying out loud, she is only 13.. If she sees that you are going to do that to everyone that she is with, she will get the idea.. #3 Get your daughter counseling..fast..
2006-12-01 00:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by Termite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can not believe that a 13 year old is even thinking about babies .Much less having them!! With all the ways to protect yourself there is no excuse for it !!I pray she des not end up with a deadly disease for being so careless.Your husband may not think everything she is is O.K. when you all end up raising the grand-children!!All i can say is god bless the children!!!!!
2006-12-01 00:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by linda bug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with something like tjis i thin k you need help its not like she is threating that she wants to get pregnant she has 2 times before here is a website that may help you and as far as your husband agreeing i think he needs to geet some help or counseling for himself who is taking her and the babies to the store or doctors because obviously she cant drive or work so who is supporting her maybe you need to put all of that on your husband and he will think twice about saying shes old enough good luck.
2006-12-01 00:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by sensitive22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a mother!!!!! She sounds like a little slut but what can you do. I heard that kids grow up faster nowadays. If she's gonna ho around, give her some birthcontrol shots. But mostly, send her to a camp where she'll learn some decipline cause she sounds like she's out of control.
2006-12-01 00:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit back and enjoy the grandkids - oh if she has had 3 then shemust have been pregnant at 11. lol you are much too busy raising the kids to be wasting time sitting on here asking stupid questions.
2006-12-01 00:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by nidan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her to help plan her funeral. It's only a matter a time before she catches something nasty and possibly fatal. Too bad you can't have her sterilized. Your husband is a NUTJOB. Your the parent not her, YOU set the rules not her.
2006-12-01 00:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you baby loves to F#@K find out who the fathers are press charges against them.seek help from the atthorites as to your daughters actions. leave that scum bag of a husband with his grand kids.
2006-12-01 00:03:59 · answer #11 · answered by DASH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋