Family - November 2006

Real world!


Lmao, jesus I live in reality that is reality for me as for the whole yahoo questions thing I just wanted to post a response to see what sort of response it generates from people.

As for some of the responses I got its quite weird isn't in relation to starting one of my previous threads about family it totally distorts in to a full scale warfare in how much money you make and what your earnings are and stuff as for the dude that makes more than 30k that responded to my previous thread if that is the case then well respond to this how much do engineers make??! 44k on a starting salary lawyers aswell!? oh wait 55k and database administrators to the test I took that gave me an indication on where I could possibly pursue my career. As for the real world well I use public transport and wait in the freezing cold and the rain for a bus, and have lived and worked hard for everything in my life but thats not the real world.... the term the real world what does it mean ??

2006-11-30 11:07:04 · 3 answers · asked by Matthew B 2

2006-11-30 11:06:07 · 2 answers · asked by evelynshaver 1

okay i live with my mom i'm 19 i dont have a regular job but my mom at times drives me up a wall all around it to the point i want to bang my head into a wall...the little work i do, do is baby sit my niece during the week...and so at night i want to go out and do stuff well half to most of the time i cant bc the only car we have is my moms car and she doesnt want me to use her car to go visit my boyfriend that lives about 45 minutes away from me...its little stuff like that, that adds up...i'm tired of being under her thumb so to speak...i want to be able to do what i want to do when i want to do it...but not having a full time job makes it harder...well my boyfriend has his own company and offered me a job driving his dad around to sell the merchandise but i dont have a car to drive his dad around in...so he said i could use his car when he gets it registered...so i'm debating on just moving in with him for a while till i find my own place...so i'm not sure...what do you guys think?

2006-11-30 11:02:24 · 13 answers · asked by ali 1

My kids were SOOO hungry yet when I put the food in front of them they weren't so hungry anymore! UGGG

2006-11-30 10:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by Me 6

First off, I want to say that I love my mother-in-law. Anyway, It is my daughter's 4th birthday this coming Sunday and my mother-in-law decided to plan a babyshower for my sister in law for the same weekend we had planned our daughters birthday. I thought this was very rude as the baby isn't due until late February. Couldn't they have had this shower after Christmas, since they have the time still? I bit the bullet and decided to have her party on a Sunday at noon. Now my mother-in-law has planned on being in a parade that day and time. I told my husband that I thought this was just to spite me for telling her how I felt about the babyshower. He told me to proceed as planned and let his mother know that it was her business to decide which event she would like to attend, but that we would not change the time, date or place of our daughters birthday to accomadate her, as it is our daughter's birthday.
Am I out of line for feeling this way, or proceeding without her?

2006-11-30 10:52:57 · 18 answers · asked by Mrs. Wizard 3

I work form home, and my fiance works graveyards. my cousin calls me at all hours wanting me to feel bad for her because her baby daddy is using drugs and taking all their money. She has a 5 yr old and a baby on the way. The thing is I dont feel sorry for her. She chose to stay with him even after he spent her rent money. she tries to make me feel bad because we have a house and a nice life, and my man spoils me when he can. All i get is it must be nice to ...(fill in the blank). We use to help her out when he was in jail, but we started hurting so I cut her off. I dont say how i feel because i dont want her to blame me if she loses her baby, yes she would do that. what can i do if i dont pick up my phone she calls my man, and while he is at work, or the rest of our family and we are all sick of the world owes me attitude. I cant cut her out completely because i am her child's godmother. what can i do, and pls no stupid dont pick up your phone. I am losing my mind

2006-11-30 10:49:44 · 10 answers · asked by sparklesevilcarebear 2

my dad he chews.(tobacco)and about last year he was trying really hard to stop chewing but he just whent back to it. when ever i see him chewing i say he going to end out geting mouth cancer. he always says he knows that and hes trying. do any of u know away to get im top stop.

2006-11-30 10:49:14 · 11 answers · asked by tina 1

look i have a friend that i like and her name is kristen and i am going out with kristens friend karli but i dont feel warm in side when i talk to her or hug her like i do with kristen and we like each other but then i have my ex named alexis which has feelings for me agian and so do i a little but i like kristen more but if i go with kristen i will hurt alexis and karlis so i need help plz

2006-11-30 10:44:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband's ex has been sending him emails that he didn't want me knowing about. I found out and now he's mad. he says he just don't want her pissed (he's got a 15yr. old kid with her) they haven't wanted nothing to do with him until recently after he settled on child support. I think they just want more money. btw she is a homewrecker the man she's with was married when they started going out.

2006-11-30 10:43:09 · 24 answers · asked by kimmycat 4

MY DAD KEEPS ME AWAY FROM ANY ONE I HAVE TO STAY BY HIS SIDE

2006-11-30 10:37:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-30 10:30:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met my birth mother about 6 years ago, who turned out to be Julia Negron, ex-wife of Chuck Negron of Three Dog Night. She was also married to John Densmore (drummer of the DOORS) and Barry Oakley (bassist of the Allman Bros).
I was born on January 14, 1968 in
Los Angeles. Julia dated a man named MICHEAL SCOTT whom she met while waitressing at a diner. MY birthname was Jennifer Alexis Scott. Anyway, she lost contact with Michael Scott.. hopefully he will pop up some day.. such a common name is hard to find.. I would love to know him and more about my genetics from HIS side. If there are any siblings from his side, etc. If anyone has any info or can help please contact me.

2006-11-30 10:29:35 · 6 answers · asked by NMBC Fan 1

ok, 2 days after my sons birthday i want to get him christianed, but the god parent i have in mind doesnt live where im from, one can make it to get the baby christianed, but the other one is in the army, and they rarely let you leave, so now everyone is saying that i can pick my sister and her husband, but that doesnt make any sense to me because thats my sons aunt and uncle, is that corney or what?????

2006-11-30 10:27:05 · 5 answers · asked by ARMY KID 2

Hello i am a girl who is 12 year of age. I had been with friends after school and one of them had some cigaretes she got from her mother. Well i know its not good to be smoking but both my friends did and so i did too and it was very gross and i not want to do it again. My friends never before have smoked i know either. But bad thing was my friend big sister find out and told on her and on us and we all get our parents called. My mother very antismokeing and she got very mad and my father did too and i told them all what happend and that id never do it again and i mean that! But still they mad and say i needed be punishing so i got spanked and that hurt ALOT and they say i may not ever play again with my friends who get me to do that. Is that fair? I am not so popular in school and my friends important to me and i dont want not ever see them again! How can i get parents to change they mind? I know i did bad thing but is it fair spank me and take my friends from me too!?!

2006-11-30 10:25:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-30 10:21:42 · 17 answers · asked by LadyRebecca 6

my sister has always been the one who ruins the holidays for everyone, i live in so. california and my family lives in louisiana, my sister still lives at home. shes a year and half older than i am. well she doesnt like my bf that i have been with for 4 and half years. i am now here for the holidays and he will be here sunday. and we are staying till the 27th. she mentioned last night to my older sister and mom that she is going to give him hell when he gets here and no one better tell her anything. let me say this. she gets whatever she wants and my mom listens to everything she says and does whatever she wants. no one in the family has a problem with him. but because she has always treated me wrong he doesnt like her. she came to california to visit and while i was at work, my bf brought her into LA and EVERYWHERE he thought she might like, her last day was hell and basically tried to jump outta my car, thats when my bf had enough and yelled at her. so now we have problems. shes 22.

2006-11-30 10:17:19 · 12 answers · asked by scion_xb_girly 3

My dad fell at work and had surgery, the job had no ins. he has an atny but not sure if he will get anything. that does not help now. he has lost that income. They are losing their home of 30 years. they do not have much educ. and my mom is diabetic and can only get 45.00 a mo disab. They are very depressed. daddy is 70 and momma is 60 cant get ssi yet. DHS is not much help they are on waiting list everywhere. How do we get people help like this. they wont be on the streets I will let them live with me but I do not have a lot. Where do you get emergency help. The churches seem to be no help but just very temp. They are very proud people, who have worked all their lives that are now unable to work. They only have a 6th grade education. so labor is all that is avaliabe to them. momma can not work she has neuropathay and daddy with just having surgery. These employers really did a number on him by not having insurance. The sad part is loosing the home we all lived in for 30 years. SAD!!

2006-11-30 09:55:34 · 10 answers · asked by lyzard 2

2006-11-30 09:54:35 · 15 answers · asked by fahnechia 1

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2006-11-30 09:48:20 · 16 answers · asked by music 2

my mom told me to move out when im ready. and that she can't take my crap anymore. i wish she was mad while saying this because then i would just think shes saying such thing because shes mad at the moment. but she wasn't. she means it.

2006-11-30 09:48:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just want to impress them so they will be like, oh wow!! im very proud of you!! or sumthin like that.. what do i do?! it's not that i do everything wrong, it's just i want them to be impressed by me!!!any suggestions are welcome,[[as long as they ain't rude!!]] oh and im 13

2006-11-30 09:47:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello their, I address this message to people that are observing the message and given that people seem to like responding to these messages with an abusive content becuase they have nothing better to do, I posted another message about family issues which isn't really relevant as the header on the message isn't correct and the body of the message isn't relevant to the area I posted it under.


Firstly the addressing of all means to acknowledge my greatness and your rubbed up by my superiority in respect to some of the statements I have made judging by your shallow response you must not have the same ambitions as me, well at the end of the day if I am earning 35k by the time I am 25 and driving and stuff well I don't assume thats a fault that I have been employed through constant hard work and dedication and being motivated also helps and being intellgient is a key element to that aswell oh well...

2006-11-30 09:44:45 · 8 answers · asked by Matthew B 2

Effective communicators can express words like this need I justfiy myself to someone at a pc thats jealous and bitter about how I conduct a relevant conversation by resolution that must near a concensus of genius levels of intellect to use words appropiately, now someone that responds like such.


I happenly can say that I expressed issues defering to jobs and employment related issues in a different sub directory on the message frame domain and can say only one thing 30,000 pounds a year, I have my own home and can buy my morgage buy the time I am 25, rightfully, and I have such ambitions, therefore I must have good skills if I have lived on my own and I am not in any debts, and have a good future to look forward.to..


Need I justify this any more, as for the responses this thread generates it can only be jealousy from passive observers that live in a non ambitious way and can't handle it when people like me can aspire to better than they can I rest my case......

2006-11-30 09:37:38 · 6 answers · asked by Matthew B 2

2006-11-30 09:34:18 · 40 answers · asked by dokata4ever 1

I never complain or ask anyone when I'm struggling, what's up with that

2006-11-30 09:25:42 · 9 answers · asked by Mrs. Honey Vibe 2

I am the middle child in my family and the only girl. I have an older brother and a younger brother.
Both are geniuses! My older brother is so skilled and talented at everything, particularly at History and Philosophy and all that deep jazz. People come up to me at school (people I do not know at all!) and tell me he's a genius. He thinks of literally amazing theories. They ask me how he does it.
My little brother is a perfectionist and has A+s in every single subject. He just received the high honors and got 1st place in our city and 3rd place in the country for a mathematics competition. All that and he is a brilliant artist.
Ok, so my brothers are freaking GENIUSES. I KNOW it's hard to believe but PLEASE trust me on this.
And I.....am nothing. I try so hard. Honestly. But I am never as good as them. I feel so outshined and depressed, especially lately.
My brothers are often emotionally unstable, and have horrible tantrums. I read up on it, and gifted people do act like this.

2006-11-30 09:21:02 · 29 answers · asked by [A] 2

A WHILE AGO, I GOT IN A FIGHT WITH MY GRANDMOTHER. SHE CALLED ME A LIER, TOLD ME I WAS RAISED WRONG, AND BLAMED ME FOR EVERYTHING WRONG WITH MY FAMILY. SHE HASN'T SPOKEN TO ME SINCE. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-11-30 08:58:21 · 12 answers · asked by shleyay10192 2

Just wondering

2006-11-30 08:58:02 · 11 answers · asked by koolman 2

she is nearly 15 yrs old but wont open up t me , she is a middle child and i think she feels it, her sister is nearly 17 and her younger brother is nearly 11 help

2006-11-30 08:57:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister and I have really been having trouble lately (just read my past ?'s! LOL!) It occured to me today -- she's had a past problem with prescription drugs--and I see the same pattern now. Last time I helped her go cold turkey (tho as a health care person I did advise her against it!) What do I do now? Do I just let her move in with Dad since she's lost everything, do I keep a watchful eye, or just walk away and let the chips fall where they might? She's angry, I'm angry--there's no communication at this point. My son tells me I'm expending to much energy on this whole thing (I kind of agree). So what do ya'll think??

2006-11-30 08:37:42 · 4 answers · asked by fallingstar 4