help, my mom gave up on me....?

Question

my mom told me to move out when im ready. and that she can't take my crap anymore. i wish she was mad while saying this because then i would just think shes saying such thing because shes mad at the moment. but she wasn't. she means it.

Answer 1

SO? STOP treating your mother like garbage, stop abusing her and what she is doing, and START RESPECTING her and helping with everything around the home ... and that also means the rules in the home ...

OTHERWISE -- get a job, and MOVE OUT if you do NOT want to RESPECT the hard-working parent that is providing for you and caring for you and HAS to PUT UP with the ABUSE you are heaping on her!

Answer 2

I read through all your questions and some answers. You don't sound like a bad kid, just not motivated. You probably never did well in school and was more concerned with your clothes than your homework assignments. You don't seem highly sexually motivated, which is a good thing, since you probably won't get pregnant. I assume you come from a broken home. If you are 18 or older, your mom does have the right to kick you out. But legally I don't think the police will come in and drag you away. Throw her a few bucks ($50 maybe) a week and she will probably let you stay awhile longer and start saving your pennies so you can find a roommate and move out.

Answer 3

first of all... how old r u? if u feel ready to move out on ur own go for it... im 19 and moved out.... i am so tired all the time and don't have a life! i work more then 40 hours a week and actually have a good paying job... all i do is work, clean, go to school and sleep... My mom and i in high school didn't get along, partly because i liked being independent... but now i get along great with her... try giving each other space and just talk to her when and if u really need to.. that is what i did and it seemed to work when i was living with her. I saved up just about 4 grand and moved out being comfortable after buying everything i needed for my apartment.... just try and stick it out and be thankful u have a worried mother that just is trying to look out for u and doesn't want to let u go! good luck! :)

Answer 4

It sounds like it's time to try your wings!

Children who are of age should move out. Their parents should have to ask them to move out. They should be willing to take on the responsibility of their own livelihood.

Parents do their children no favor by allowing them to stay, unless they are helping them get their college education or some other extenuating circumstance.

Answer 5

So move out. Get a job. Stop giving your mother crap. Do something with yourself. You're on your own now. Enjoy it.

Answer 6

If you can't talk to her then there's no use trying. Maybe you treat her poorly or you're mature enough to be out on your own. Hopefully you're old enough and have enough money to be out on your own. Once you've moved out she'll realize a thing or two and maybe even try talking with you.

Answer 7

Doesn't mean she gave up on you....maybe its time.
If you're over 18, start planning for you.

I know what you mean about wishing she was mad...however if it was disappointment you heard....start looking to your heart...you may have your answer closer then you think.

Best wishes

Answer 8

you should get down on your hands and knees and thank god you have your mother. i lost my mother when i was 6 and grew up without her and now i am married and have a child of my own and i wish i had my mother here instead of taking my daughter to see her at a cemetary

Answer 9

this is a complicated question with too many variables you need to talk to a professional like a guidance councilor.... the good news is she probably doesn't mean it i think its Natal for a mom to love her child

Answer 10

so get out and find out the grass ain't greener on the other side of the fence