Family - November 2006

2006-11-30 06:06:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother pretty much messed up my life completely growing up, as well as my sisters, brothers and moms. i still have many issues thanks to him, as far my self-confidense is concerned. growing up we all dealt with constant physical as well as mental abuse from him.

he got out of jail a few months ago(he was in there for breaking into his girlfriends apartment then threatening to killher). the problem is he is still in his old ways. hes constantly putting everyone around him down or fighting with them or threatening them if not actually hurting them physically. he's so negative about everything, it just brings us all down. last week he even stole money from my mom and sister, another thing thats not out of the regular for him. he refuses to get a job and when he does he wont work and refuses to be "bossed"around. when he finds himself homeles again, which is gonna happen...should we feel responsible for having to take him in when he abuses us, steals from us and tears us down?

2006-11-30 06:04:29 · 11 answers · asked by Tiffany 2

Could you guys be so kind to go in my pofile and look at my last question, same name.. i need a few other opinions and it's kinda long so i didnt retype it.. thanks

2006-11-30 06:00:28 · 2 answers · asked by smokingstonersweetheart 4

there was a time in my life when i new what i wanted and needed, for many months now i've lived in confusion, he seems to love me only if i shut up about certain subjects, for me i can't or refuse to live like that. To my way of thinking, to get married is to be open and honest about everything, hence the recipe for a strong lasting foundation for love..which nothing and no one can break...didn't work out that way...now i need to move on somehow.
''Anger your dark, with words you hurt, no trust, no faith, no want or worth''like ice with spice the cold you slice, an art that comes with ease, your words inflict, blame, correct...for now you have no one to put down.^*^

2006-11-30 05:58:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 30. Dad died 8 mos ago. I quit job,left my home + moved n with mother to help.She's unable to work-health (illnesses r not life threatening) I'm not complaining that she can't work.(she gets disability)I'm unable to work because she had a lot of appointments. No one would offer me set hours of employment. So, all i've done's take care of her, who's able to take care of herself. She is unable to drive. Thats the worst of her illness. I take her everywhere. We r together 24/7!The only escape is taking a shower. She won't let me go off with ONLY FRIEND I HAVE LEFT! shs wants me with her. I thought it was a fear of being alone, but it is beyond that now. I cook,clean,do yard,drive,etc. I do everyhting for her except bathe+wipe her. NOw i'm clinically depressed + i cant take it anymore.We argue everyday.Just finished fussing. She+friend wanted to go shop, i did not.she demanded i go. I nicely said i would rather stay home and relax. NO! I LOVE HER SO MUCH! I CANT LEAVE HER-CANT STAY!

2006-11-30 05:55:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am i going to be an eternal student? I got into grad school and start next year again for 2 years? It sucks that I still live at home, and own nothing except my car. All my friends have a life going for them, a Job, Family, a nice house. Here I am still doing homework. Im really getting hopeless with my life.

2006-11-30 05:31:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I responsible for Anna's mom. There is no power of attorney. Nothing that makes me her care giver. I have no legal authority over her. For two years, I've done the best (with state's help) that I can. Her great niece wants to have me investigate for elderly abuse. I welcome this. I don't want to take care of my wife's mom anymore. The home -- we share is mine.

2006-11-30 05:26:32 · 8 answers · asked by grydavis 1

Here is the scenario: Could you do it and keep a straight face as little Rastas Buckwheat the "black monster with curly hair" is trying to figure out what you are saying, then when you say it again in a firmer voice - his little lip starts to quiver and tears run down the little "mugwamps" face as he cries..."momma, momma da white man u tryan to hurtz ma"......and THEN YOU REALIZE THAT IS THE CHILD OF ZAQUWEESHA THE BLACK COOK THAT YOU DATED A FEW YEARS AGO...AND NOW YOU REALIZE YOU HAVE A LITTLE "MIXED" RACIAL CHILD????

SO, WHAT DO YOU DO?

2006-11-30 05:14:04 · 16 answers · asked by Wallaforadolla 1

My nephew is part of our daily lives, he and my son are very close now. My son enjoys his company. This incident happened about 10 years ago. My son is now 15 and nephew is 20. Our families are extremely close. My sister and nephew know nothing about CPS evaluating my son. They dont even know that I know this happened. This is extremely difficult because our families are so close. Please give me your input on this.

2006-11-30 05:10:39 · 12 answers · asked by Mel 1

what do you think about ex-husbands who call on their happily separated ex-wives(making up lies!)?...or even, family members who have such a need to "be the better person" and try to control everything and one around them(when they are actually sh*tty parents themselves - as if,tricking off makes them any better!)? ... then, they take the kids cuz mama smoked weed........that's my situation and i really need help making sense of this is my own head; i've made sense in "their"(DCFS) heads: treatment, counseling,etc........oh and check this out....then they place my kids w/ my known pothead mother!!!!!!!!!! now, why isn't sister tricking off?...oh, i'm unhappy and thats misery loving company...plus mama pays her slutty 4 kid having @ss at the age of 22 non-hygienic, dirty kid keeping bills.......that's okay though....they will never have any part of my kid's lives again cuz they will be home @ the larest March!..........i guess this question comes down to HATERS - jealousy of who i was?

2006-11-30 05:08:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i grew up with out father :( well, i like the way i grew up, but the more i read books the more they telling me it has a lot of affect in life. what do u think?

2006-11-30 05:00:57 · 11 answers · asked by lilly 2

well its driving me crazy im pregnant and my bf is missing and i need to find him coz welli cant tell the police its just not a obtion and well im nervous and i went to the doctor he said anymore of this stress and the baby will t survive his phone is switch off and im on my own please help

2006-11-30 05:00:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad is insisting that I WRITE down a Life plan, and figure out ways of getting to where I want to be. I think its pretty stupid to write it down. I have my goals, and know what I need to get there. He wants all the details of acheieving a goal. I mean isnt that ridiculous, I might be dead tommorrow, things change all the time. Plans are just that plans, cant really do anything about the reality. Im really pissed off over this. he's threatening to kick me out the house, if dont have it soon. I dont really know where to begin, I dont have life experience, I am asking for his help in making one, but he refuses he says its my responsibility. How do people in their 20 figure out what they do in life? I want to do a lot!

2006-11-30 04:56:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really want a phone and i am in middle school without a phone i explained to my mom and she said yes but my dad says i dont needd one so i said i need it for safty reasongs and he said that im ether at home or at schoool so i said soething could happen walking home he said then be careful he refuses and its not about the money cuz we can get the family plan wat should i do prepaid phones are a lot and he dosnt let me i just need a good agrument wat shyould i say?

2006-11-30 04:44:36 · 12 answers · asked by Angela b 2

Its been 6years when my husband went to abroad..for 6years, he only got 1 vacation for us but only 3 weeks..very short time together..my youngest son is only 10months when he left now my son is allof with his father..maybe he is ashamed, i dont understand why my son acted like that..i always explain to my son that his father workhard for them...my eldest and 2nd child understand the situation..but sometimes i fell pity to my children especially during b-days,xmas and new year..i knew that my children longing a father, even im always there for them...its defferent..me also longing for my husband not only because of myself needs..you cant call a family if one missing..family cant buy $ for me..but w/o $ you cant buy anything you want..but for me, i wont entend anything as long as my children happy because they have a father to be called...my only problem is my youngest son, until now he's not talking with his father everytime my husband called..what is the best way to do?

2006-11-30 04:43:29 · 2 answers · asked by nivea girl 1

I took care of my grandmother for a year and never left her side. She past 5 months ago. Now i have her older sister and she has started being very mean to me also. I sacrifice my own needs and desires and sit in this house without an income and get treated like a dog. My aunt has all of her senses and knows whats going on around her. I don't leave her side at all, and it's hard when she treats me bad. Sometimes i want to give up, but i could not imagine putting any of my family in a nursing home. What do i do? Ignoring it has not made it any easier. I sit here 24 hours a day and feel like i'm not doing a good job when they act the way they do.

2006-11-30 04:42:41 · 8 answers · asked by Jackie 1

why is that when i was younger n i had my 1st boyf i told my mum n dad about him but then they asked so many questions especially my dad that now i just don't tell them about my other boyfriends. whenever i go out with guy friends he's always asking me which one is my boyfriend and i just roll my eyes n go none of them. today i told my mum n dad im going out tomorrow with my friends (guys and girls) and again he asked which one is your boyfriend and again i said none of them, then he rudely said to me 'well its about time you had a boyfriend'. im 16 its not like i want a serious relationship y is my dad such a git. hes said mean stuff to me before too. even if i ever took a guy to meet my mum n dad he'd probably be all intrusive and protective. does anyone have these kinda problems.

2006-11-30 04:34:23 · 12 answers · asked by just a girl 3

2006-11-30 04:31:17 · 27 answers · asked by nashvillekat 6

We all have those psycho family members that come over on holidays. You know like sleezy uncle Norm, anorexic cousin Olivia, snobby sister in-law Mary, or slutty Aunt Barb. But what are family members saying about you when you're not around?

Which psycho family member are you most likely to be?
(This is just for fun)

2006-11-30 04:13:57 · 16 answers · asked by blazenphoenix 4

A co-worker of mine, whom is recently pregnant and has enough stress is really concerned for her daughter, she thinks she is hiding things from her. If you know what fkdjfn x means, please let me know... I would like to help her or put her mind at ease if able to.... thank you!

2006-11-30 04:08:05 · 3 answers · asked by hardworkinmama1125 2

im a 15 year old teenager that wants to tell my parents that i want to live with my boyfriend weve been together for 8 months and i really love him but i dont know how to tell them without them thinking im playing around! my parents now about my relasionship for 7months because wetalked to them at the begging of our relasionship! How do i tell them!

2006-11-30 04:05:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know this is a question i have to answer by myself but just wanted to get a little outside advise. im a young mother (20) of 2. i work and go to school. my fiance and i own are our home and everything seems to be okay (finacially--we live comfortably). well when im at work my grandma watches my kids but lately ive been struggling with the fact whether or not i should work. if i quit work to stay home with the kids we could afford the bills but would be living pay check to pay check which i refuse to do. with this in mind, we would need to sell our house and go back to an apartment. i hate the thought of having to move backwards in life but i would do anything for my kids. how crucial do you think it is to stay home with your kids? if i work just so i can have a house will it have a negative effect on my childern b/c they dont see me that much or will they be fine? just looking for some input...thanks so much

2006-11-30 03:58:25 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

my sister moved into town yesterday (moved in with my parents)...while she was driving here she called me like 4 times saying she wanted to see me as soon as she got here, etc....so as soon as she gets into town i go to my parents and after 15 minutes she gets upset (upset because i don't want to go out with her....i have serious depression and anxiety and don't leave my house very much)....so she gets upset and goes to the bar (it's 1:00 in the afternoon) and she leaves without saying a word to me....so she calls me later in the day, twice...and hangs up on me twice.........i really would like to have a relationship with her and be friends, but the situation is really, really stressing me out....and honestly if she weren't my sister i would have ended the relationship after she was so rude yesterday....i just got out of the hospital a month ago for a depression....i kind of feel like i need to protect myself emotionally right now....what do i do??

2006-11-30 03:41:52 · 11 answers · asked by SNAP! 4

I always thought that my husband and his mom were just a little too close. They way that they stared at each other. The way that they held hands while she fed him dinner. The way that she caressed him while giving him his nightly baths. Now today I find out that she is pregnant from him. I don't know what to do. I am besides myself with grief. When I asked him how could he let this happen, he just told me that he loves his mother in a special way that no other woman could match. What am I supposed to do now? Should I leave my husband or just help raise their baby?? Help please

2006-11-30 03:33:58 · 49 answers · asked by flushing06 2

2006-11-30 03:33:10 · 14 answers · asked by davidd 3

is it nt unfair for the boys mother to behave badly with a newly wed bahu who is younger than her daughter also. bahu is a working lady,hd a love marriage with her son after many years of courtship,waited for so many yrs jst to take both sides parents consent for th marriage.son wl nt leave mother and sis and walk out with his wife jst bcoz he's responsible enuf and cant behave so selfishly.bt how long wl both th husband and wife tolerate th sudden horrible behaviours from the mother in law's side and keep their mouth shut?just bcoz she's mother and she's done so much for every1 and now she's lost her husband too so whatever she'll say every1 has to hear especially the daughter in law??

2006-11-30 03:28:53 · 12 answers · asked by md 2

I have to do it for another week or so but the question is how do i stop my husband from being so mean or better yet why is he being mean?

2006-11-30 03:03:00 · 7 answers · asked by Julie 2

the house is very dirty, dusty and moldy, especially in the bathroom (carpet as floor). Everytime I stay there I feel discusting and not clean, sometimes my face breaks out.
They expect us to stay there every time we visit.
We will get married in that town next year, which means we'll have to stay at their house for at least a week before the wedding. my face will break out again! I'll look horrible on the day of my wedding!
If I tell her, she'll be insulted, because she doesn't see the dirt.

how do I get out of staying at their house?

2006-11-30 02:57:42 · 32 answers · asked by Milka 2

2006-11-30 02:51:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-30 02:45:04 · 21 answers · asked by akers_022 1