what do you think about ex-husbands who call on their happily separated ex-wives(making up lies!)?...or even, family members who have such a need to "be the better person" and try to control everything and one around them(when they are actually sh*tty parents themselves - as if,tricking off makes them any better!)? ... then, they take the kids cuz mama smoked weed........that's my situation and i really need help making sense of this is my own head; i've made sense in "their"(DCFS) heads: treatment, counseling,etc........oh and check this out....then they place my kids w/ my known pothead mother!!!!!!!!!! now, why isn't sister tricking off?...oh, i'm unhappy and thats misery loving company...plus mama pays her slutty 4 kid having @ss at the age of 22 non-hygienic, dirty kid keeping bills.......that's okay though....they will never have any part of my kid's lives again cuz they will be home @ the larest March!..........i guess this question comes down to HATERS - jealousy of who i was?
2006-11-30 05:08:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your question is incoherent. Perhaps due to drug use?... You sound a bit angry and immature to be raising children. Maybe you just needed to vent, but if this is how you communicate on a regular basis, honestly, I'd be worried for your children as well.
Regardless of how much the people in your life want to be involved in drama, YOU don't have to participate.
Don't give them something to latch on to to cause you trouble! Don't use drugs! Be a good and honest person.
Focusing on other people isn't going to get you anywhere "haters" or not. Have you thought about your CHILDREN in this situation? What they must be going through getting caught up in all this mess? Do you care for their well being?... Or are they just a pawn for you in a weird and twisted drama you carry out with your "family" to prove that you are a better person than them?
Some quotes for you to think on:
When we see a man of virtue, we should strive to be like him. When we see a wicked man, we should look inward at ourselves. ~Chinese Proverb
When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you. ~African Proverb
2006-11-30 07:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by It'sme! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I HAVE SEEN THE CPS DO GOOD AND I HAVE SEEN THEM DO VERY BAD. THEY ARE DEFINITELY FALLIBLE, AND HAVE A LOT OF ROOM FOR IMPROVEMENT.
THEY REMOVED MY BROTHER IN-LAWS CHILDREN FOR THE SAME REASON, THEY ALSO TRIED TO LIE AND SAY THEY FOUND METH. NOT THE CASE. THEY GOT THEIR KIDS BACK THE NEXT DAY. FOUGHT AND WON IN COURT.
BIL IS A MEDICAL MARIJUANA PATIENT AND KEPT HIS DRUGS IN A SAFE WHERE THEY FOUND THEM. THE DRUG ENFORCEMENT TOLD MY HUSBAND AND I THAT THEY DID NOT FIND METH, BUT CPS REMOVED THE KIDS ANYWAY. IN OUR SMALL COMMUNITY CPS GETS AWAY WITH A LOT. BUT ARE NOT HELD RESPONSIBLE FOR NOTHING.
2006-11-30 05:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off, them taking your kids because you "smoke weed" wouldnt be grounds to take the kids away unless you already had an open case with DCF, inwhich case they would have to investigate the report FIRST. atleast this is how it is done in NC. my personal opinion is if you are taking care of your kids and they are not abused, it shouldnt matter if you are smoking weed. i have watched one of my friends when we were still kids report her mother for it, they didnt do anything about it because she was being taken care of. if you didnt have an open case to begin with and/or they didnt launch an investigation, i would contact your case worker about it. you still have rights.
2006-11-30 05:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by :*:epiphany:*: 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋