I always thought that my husband and his mom were just a little too close. They way that they stared at each other. The way that they held hands while she fed him dinner. The way that she caressed him while giving him his nightly baths. Now today I find out that she is pregnant from him. I don't know what to do. I am besides myself with grief. When I asked him how could he let this happen, he just told me that he loves his mother in a special way that no other woman could match. What am I supposed to do now? Should I leave my husband or just help raise their baby?? Help please
2006-11-30 03:33:58 · 49 answers · asked by flushing06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm onto you, I've seen the all the other questions you've been asking around here.
It's pretty funny, keep it up, it gives me some good laughs.
2006-11-30 12:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by LadySingsTheBlues 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He AND you both let this happen. If you saw the signs b4, you shouldve confronted them both. This is disgusting and you dont need to be in it. Let these 2 F-birds figure it on their own because you are not responsible for it. You will not be happy with him and you know it! So let these 2 be happy with their own irrseponsible act. You obviously know right fr wrong, so do the right thing and choose to be with a responsible real man who will take care of you and you only. Best wishes to you.
2006-11-30 03:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by element_op 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave because he is involved in a very sick, incestuous triangle. To be "triangulated" means a person is emotionally dependent on someone or something else while trying to develop another relationship. He hasn't separated from his mother is the classic example. The person caught in a triangle can not be fully emotionally available to his spouse. You will not be his number one. And that's no basis for marriage. "Many tears that are in the heart never reach the eye". Move on girlfriend
2006-11-30 04:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by fiveftelevenqt 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What are you? Crazy?
If a Marriage age Male is being fed by his mother, and given baths, you were stupid to MARRY him. The fact that you stuck around for the courtship and agreed to the marriage speaks volumes for your weak characted. The fact that you are even considering raising the child speaks even larger and more indepth volumes for your insecurity and weak character and unstable mind.
You should leave. Not simply because your husband cheated, nor because it was with his mother, nor because of the fact that his "mother" is a sexual partner in his life. But because you had NO business getting into this sick and twisted relationship.
Where are your parents? Family? and friends? Isn't there anyone around saying "I told you so."
You'd deserve it, I must say.
2006-11-30 03:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well if you knew something was strange b4 u should of confronted them about so that way this possibly wouldn't have happende. I would leave him because that is SICK and he did his mother for crying out loud. Get a lawyer, change the locks on the door, and make sure that you never have to see him again. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-30 04:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First get your brother who has 90 kids and who wants to marry your grandma to kick his butt then tell your 75 year old grandma who is also sleeping with your husband about your hubby getting his mom pregnant and I'm sure she'll take care of his momma for you. Problem solved! Oh and while you're at it maybe you should include in additional details on this question that mommy wanted to have your hubby's child because she went to a fertility clinic to be able to conceive because of how old she is. Give me a break!! Does anyone else on here know how to click on the report for abuse icon at the top???
2006-11-30 03:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by slinkster 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Excuse me for saying this about you but are you an Idiot. WHen she feeds him, batheshim and carress him in front of you and you dont ask him why they are doing this. WOW you should leave hima nd call the cops cause that's incest and it's against the law. You can sue him for anything you want if he wants his MOM good. By the way you a blonde. Just get your stuff and if you have children take them with you and call the cops. MAn that's sick. And divorce his *** quick and don't forgive him ever.
2006-11-30 03:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
YIKES!!!!!! First of all thats soooo gross i think you should run away as fast as you can and never never look back. GET OUT while you can. what in the world is wrong with those people. THAT IS INSEST you shouldnt think twice about leaving. There is someting seriously mentally wrong with both of them if they think anything about that is right. YOU need to leave or whatever if you think its ok stay but its nasty
2006-11-30 03:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i´m so sorry that you are living that situation, just leave him, he sheeted on you !!!! with his mother!!!! and she´s pregnant!!!!........take a dip breath and get a divorce, is not going to be easy, but i assure you that when you get divorce and with time you find a person that really loves you, is going to be worth it. If they´re having sex that means that they have good health, so they can race their child, Not you.And be care full if they suggest a trio, say no!!!!!
2006-11-30 03:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite the twisted imagination you have there. Is this actually a deep rooted fantasy of yours? Thats usually the case when questions like this surface. What other kind of incestuous fantasies have you up your sleeve hmmmmmm?
2006-11-30 03:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋