why is that when i was younger n i had my 1st boyf i told my mum n dad about him but then they asked so many questions especially my dad that now i just don't tell them about my other boyfriends. whenever i go out with guy friends he's always asking me which one is my boyfriend and i just roll my eyes n go none of them. today i told my mum n dad im going out tomorrow with my friends (guys and girls) and again he asked which one is your boyfriend and again i said none of them, then he rudely said to me 'well its about time you had a boyfriend'. im 16 its not like i want a serious relationship y is my dad such a git. hes said mean stuff to me before too. even if i ever took a guy to meet my mum n dad he'd probably be all intrusive and protective. does anyone have these kinda problems.
2006-11-30 04:34:23 · 12 answers · asked by just a girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yer im the only child and girl if u hadnt guessed lol
its just so annoying its like he thinks im a loser cos im 16 and dont have a boyfriend atm
2006-11-30 04:42:04 · update #1
Hmm..thats weird that he says its time for you to have a boyfriend, yet hes still protective and intrusive....my dad wants my brother to have a gf really bad and he's protective of me with my boyfriend...so i guess I kinda can empathize with you.
You are only 16 though, live your life and just have fun right now and be friends. Trust me, it's so much easier doing it that way than having a boyfriend....you'll enjoy HS a lot more that way! Don't listen to your dad on this one!
2006-11-30 04:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the only girl if so been there done that when I was younger my dad was very overprotected of me. I was the oldest and the only girl so I couldnt do anything without one of my little brothers tagging along. So when I did get my first boyfriend my dad of couse didnt approve of it . But now im grown and I have an 11 year old sister and my dad is the same way about her. Its a father thing...............
2006-11-30 12:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by huddlestony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, my dad wasn't like that, but my friend's dad was! I don't know what your dad is like exactly, but her dad was SO sarcastic that people didn't know when he was joking or serious. So, he'd say stuff to her like "Why don't you have a boyfriend yet?" in a very sarcastic way. I'd say that your dad is intrusive and protective because he loves you and doesn't want you to date a jerk. That's my best guess.
2006-11-30 12:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by Princess Purple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what a "git" is but as an older brother I never liked my little sisters guy friends. You are always worrying about them taking advantage of her. Even if she is entirely capable of taking care of herself. Your father is most likely just worried about you and doesn't know how to show it.
2006-11-30 12:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Johnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's your dad showing love in a weird way us old folks kinda stick our noses in our kids business just because we want to protect you think of all the kids who don't have parents to care for them and get beat just for saying they are hungry really your loved and lucky second you could have had my dad he pulled out guns and started twirling them loading and unloading while asking weird question i didn't even want to bring friends home but now he is dead and i would give anything for is mean behavior otherwise known as love
2006-11-30 12:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by theessenceofrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem.. i guess they are just trying to watch out for you or something? tell your dad that u do have a boyfriend and stuff like that.. then he wont be able to ask "which one is your boyfriend"
2006-11-30 12:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by itz just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur dad must want u to be luved by some one other than ur family & friends & wants u to move in with a protective loving man that can take care of u
2006-11-30 12:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by ur butiful but ill never b wit u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dad probably just cares about u i know ur wonderin how he cares bout me if i have a bf its probably cause if u have a bf then he will think that u have protection from guy strangers on the street and stuff
2006-11-30 12:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never had a boyfriend as of yet but If I did it would be a secret from them. If they gave me crap I would just ignore it.
2006-11-30 12:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most dads are like this. trust me i know my dad was the same way. and just wait it out. he will eventually understand that your gonna date and that your gonna get married and do all of that good stuff. so just keep your head up and good luck!
2006-11-30 12:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by mylovexoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋