Family - November 2006

i know this is wrong but i love my mom ,does anyone know how i fix this?

2006-11-30 17:34:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

sick n tired of being told what to do...

2006-11-30 17:24:49 · 26 answers · asked by imdaman 1

I need help im so lost and confused. Lately my episodes have been getting worse, and my medication isn't working. I'm worried for the safety of my daughter. She is 6 years old. I have suffered from this disease the last 15 years of my life, but it has been getting worse. My husband died 4 years ago and we have no family near by or that I could trust my daughter to. I no longer feel like I can properly take care of my angel, and my heart is breaking, because I don't want to give her up, but I need to think of what is best for her. PLEASE HELP ME!

2006-11-30 17:18:03 · 22 answers · asked by hrrt_lucas 1

My dads always drunk every day. My families stuck with him because my mom needs him to survive. ( Like bringing home money to pay for the rent ) It's frustrating because my mom is always covering for what he does such when he trashes the house throwing things when he's mad. There were times when he beat my mom but that's very rare though... but it still happens at times. It's scary living with the guy and hard to ignore him because when he's mad he verbally attacks anyone in sight when your minding your own business.I tell my mom that they should split so many times but she just acts like nothing happens... People always tell me that he's still my dad and that i shouldn't stay stuff about him like that especially to my mom? I dunno... So whoes side am i supposed to be on?

2006-11-30 17:16:39 · 13 answers · asked by Aaron Y 1

2006-11-30 17:11:07 · 6 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4

Because lies were told, and they called you an unfit parent. what would you do?

2006-11-30 17:08:47 · 5 answers · asked by JASNJ 2

I just moved in with my Dad, who is a single parent. I am an only child and his little girl. I love my dad but he gets me sooo mad when he gets sooo over protective. I dont know what to do. How can i deal with this?

2006-11-30 16:57:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-30 16:50:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

are there any places for runaways to go to in colorado?

2006-11-30 16:50:44 · 10 answers · asked by tmhangel 1

my daughter is 17 years old and having sex with our next door neighbor; who is 35. I found out because I caught them in the house together one day when they didn't expect me. what should I do as a parent?

2006-11-30 16:24:47 · 67 answers · asked by diane p 1

i am at home and i missed school last night cuz my dad-in law [ my step sis dad] just died last night...

2006-11-30 16:14:50 · 8 answers · asked by Katelyn 1

My son was at lunch and walked past a group of kids,one kid said hey watch this.He stopped to see what was up.2 kids in the middle of the crowd were playing the choking game.Another kid
went to tell a dean.2 deans came out and stood and watched for a
couple of minutes.They waited until something happened.My son
told the kid next to him that was really stupid and started to leave
but the dean walked up at the same time.By then there were15 boys standing around.They were sent to the office and had to fill
out witness reports and then all 15 boys were suspended for 3 days.The ones that were not directly involved got suspended for not
going and telling.Even though the deans were watching before
anything happened.My son tried to explain that he had nothing to do with this and the dean yelled at him and told him he was f-ing
stupid.Many parents have phoned the school and complained about this not being right to the kids that weren't involved.What
would you do.

2006-11-30 15:56:19 · 18 answers · asked by venture1517 2

gain communication rights. Ive been clean and sober for over 5 and a half years. When i started using i gave my son to my mother who in turn placed him with my half sister. I've completed all the goals and expectations that she placed on me in order to have visitation and communication priviledges. Everytime i completed one hurtle, she would put a new stipulation on the: "when you complete this sucessfully", you-can-see- your-son deal, that was agreed upon five years ago. Everytime i find out where they live, she moves. Everytime i get a number, she changes it. And I'm ready to give up. I dont want to bring lawyers into this and put my son in the middle of a tug of war and i definately cant ask him to choose. After all, he doesnt really even know me. I know she's been a wonderful mother and a good role model because my son has grown into a responsible gentleman, or so i've heard. Should I just give up and leave well enough alone? Or fight for my son?

2006-11-30 15:54:19 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1

My mother in law has been staying with me and hubby now for a year based on her losing her home due to the katrina storm. Like a good son my husband allowed his mother to stay a little while which ended up becoming longer than expected due, to her developing health issues. I on the other hand felt very uncomfortable because, there were things about her character that I didn't like but, being sensitive towards her need to stay I allowed myself to tolerate the situation completely. Things became worse between us due to her being on various types of medications and me having my hormones jumping all over the place pregnant at the time At this point where not liking each other very much the, good news she is getting her house fix but for the mean time how to deal with this siuation?

2006-11-30 15:44:51 · 4 answers · asked by tiny tott 1

I just found out my mom was adopted and Im 32 years old. It is so crazy like a bad sope opera. My sister found out by accident we confronted her and she fessed up. It bothers me and my mom gets annoyed when I push for answers. It pisses me off that my grandfather, my angel (who was my best childhood friend and passed when I was 12) is not my blood. It doesn't change anything but I feel like it changed everything. My mom said she was never going to tell. Am I wrong to wonder? she says all records were lost in a fire. How do I get answers.She says she register when she was 19 and nobody contacted her. We are the picture perfect family you would never think there are skeletons in the closet. Im not even sure what I want to know. Or why Im upset. My questioing hurts her feelings somehow. Help

2006-11-30 15:39:29 · 9 answers · asked by Weeeee... 2

I was talking to Laura on Thursday morning when she said that her step dad yelled at her brother for not eating his crusts on his sandwhich, this kid is only 10 years old people, also he spoke about her real dad in a nasty way on the same night (Wednesday) by saying that he was alot better than he ever was, he used to beat her up, her older brother James and still hits John (the 10 year old) none of these kids are his, Laura's uncle now has custody over her and we are moving in together in 2 weeks today now I have raised the issue of him (the step dad) comming onto our property, James has already chased him in his car up the freeway in mandurah which is where we (me and Laura) are moving too, anyway I dont want him on our property and after seeing the above I am wondering whether Laura is able to get a restraining order on him or not? because I will chase him down the road if he comes onto our property, either that or slam the door in his face and get abusive...

so advice please guys?

2006-11-30 15:36:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I got pregnant, (it wasn't planned) my brother-in-law and his g/f decided to get preg. on purpose so they could get the same attention that my husband and I were getting. My brother-in-law is always asking his mom to help pay his bills but when she gives my husband and I money he gets all mad and says "they don't need help, you should have given me the money." etc.,etc.

2006-11-30 15:30:16 · 14 answers · asked by markettab1985 2

My husbands brothers wife (my sister in law I guess) Has been one of the MOST annoying people I have ever met! Ever since the first day I met her she always got on my nerves for MANY reasons. She is lazy...she hasn't been working for 4 years now because she had a baby 4 years ago which is no excuse. I feel really bad for my brother in law (my husbands brother) because he works so hard and even does over time just to support her and their kid. She doesn't have any friends so she basically stays home and does nothing, she doesn't even clean the house and it's a MESS. She goes shopping every weekend buying herself clothes and NEVER thinks of her daughter. Multiple times I have gone out with them and it's ME who ends up taking care of their daughter...

2006-11-30 15:24:17 · 3 answers · asked by Keona 2

Okay so i was talkign to my girl friend on msn and she had a guy actor display pic on and my mom said ohh who is that guy ur talking to and i was like WTF thats a guy actor. And she is like sure. but it was a guy actor it was johhny deep. Then she says why are u disrespecting us by talkign with older men??? I WAS SO PISSED OFF SHE NEEVR TRUSTS ME AND I HAVE NEVER LIED TO HER ABOUT BAD STUFF. I AM SO SICK OF HER! how can i make her stop beign so overprotectieve???????AND MY DAD IS THE SAME WAY!!!!!I dont liek them being like this it makes me cry cuz i have no freedom because of them. Nor can i go out or with my friends ever. i mean i go out once a month and they say OHHH,u skank your going out every day wht the heck is this"? SO what can i do????I cant deal 4 more years with this crap!

2006-11-30 15:23:08 · 16 answers · asked by Haley 2

FROM PEOPLE I THINK THATS WHY I AM HOMESCHOOLED AND I DONT HAVE ANY FRIENDS

2006-11-30 15:09:51 · 5 answers · asked by dokata4ever 1

My boyfriend and I live together in his home with our children. The girls are his and the boys are mine. 17 yr boy, 17 yr girl, 15 yr boy, and 14 yr girl. Yes, as you can imagine there is never a dull moment. I thought I was ready to face this. After all I have first hand experience, I too came from a broken family into a new one with kids. They have chores or did till I got fed up and now do it all myself. They have rooms of thier own and can not even manage to keep them clean. Looks like a city dump upstairs. 17 yr girl has a good cat but, the rules were his daughter was to take care of her or the cat goes. She has been told time after time. holy cow she is 17 what is so hard about taking cat? Now she has been told the cat must go. The 14yr old, 15yr old and 17 yr girl are now all grounded for disrespect. I have been told they hate me..wish I would move out and even swore at. What should I do keep them grounded til they apologize and respect? What should I expect from my bf? Help.

2006-11-30 14:58:15 · 15 answers · asked by italliansweety67 5

My sister has been acting evil since she started hanging out with her boyfriend. A big oaf who is always playing video games. She was a very sweet young lady. But she has turned against us. My mother recently married a young African man and he is living with us. The guy is very decent, smart, kind and very personable. She hates his guts for no reason. She teases my mother and calls the guy (behind his back) an African monkey. Today, I told her why she hated him so much. I suggested she may have a crush on him. She went balistic and attacked me. I love my sister dearly, but this time I had to defend myself. I restrained her so that her punches wouldn't hit my face and I threw her on the ground. She was not hurt. She went to her room and locked herself in there. What is going? She is 19 years old.

2006-11-30 14:55:07 · 20 answers · asked by R R 2

I am 14 years old and Mom is 33 years old.

2006-11-30 14:51:26 · 25 answers · asked by Linda H 1

i dont know wat to do. IM HEARTBROKEN. i just found out yesterday when i went on the history. please please help. wat should i do?

2006-11-30 14:34:10 · 19 answers · asked by serena b 2

Her husband is cool, but they have kids. But there is a spare room and my friends are from out of town and will only be here for three days. It's like my house also, so do I ask her?

2006-11-30 14:18:44 · 23 answers · asked by ming 1

My partners mother has no respect for me she has called me a B#@% and other things never to my face but to my partner.She has also said awfull things to my partner. i have told my partner that she is not seeing my son until she gains some respect for us.she called yesterday and talked him into taking my son to her house on monday and at christmas.But she said she will not appologise and that i should get over it.I have always been respectfull to her because it is his mum but ive had enough.I dont want my son to go there he is only 4 months old .I feel bad for my partner though he is really stressed because his mum keeps harassing him about it.what should i do i just want to move my family away ?

2006-11-30 13:52:35 · 17 answers · asked by ness 1

ok my sister is 20 years old and she acts LITERALLY like a 5 year old...she has temper-tantrums and like throws her self on the ground..she has been looked at when she was little and the doctors said she was normal...she freaks out when she doesnt get her own way..she stomps on the ground and everything...she has acted like this for her whole life..everynite..she is sometimes crying for like 4 hours..and i cant deal with it no more..it affects me because i just cant deal with it no more...but im not jokeing ..im being dead serious she is 20 and will be 21 in febuary...why does she act like this ..if the doctors said she was fine and normal ??

2006-11-30 13:49:49 · 11 answers · asked by Cutie101 3

Since my parents separated it appears that it's been an us and them issue my brothers live with my mum and I'm married and my dad is remarried. I moved into a new home 6 mths ago after renting out my other one around the corner and live about 45 mins from my family, not once have they visited or helped me move but I always did for them and helped them with garage sales etc, my dad helped hes visited several times. Ive just become shunned by my mums side and have no idea what I have done wrong it's my brothers birthday and I found out from my dad I hadnt been invited out for dinner with them to celebrate dad couldnt get a straight answer from my brother why my hubby and i wernt invited, i dont feeling calling them to find out what i have done and find it really hard to work out why. My mums side only seem caring when I go to see them If ive felt left out b4 i have told them and i just get something like 'don't be stupid we love you'. I dont get it!!

2006-11-30 13:36:33 · 2 answers · asked by Nicky 3

Hi.
I can not have kids.This man I have been seeing,who is now talking marriage does want kids.
I told him I can`t.
He knew this while we were only dating,and I felt I had to remind him again.
When I told him he went quiet.I suggested if he wants his own children,he should find someone else.I feel so bad I can`t give him his own.
He said we will work out something when it comes to that point.
I feel he may change his mind before the marriage,and wants a woman that can give him his own.
How can I over come this feeling.I know we do love each other,I`m just so scared.
Thankyou to all reply.

2006-11-30 13:29:20 · 10 answers · asked by sunflower2052002 2

My mother passed very suddenly three months before hurricane Katrina hit, I was seventeen when it happened. Losing her was the worst thing that has ever happened to me and I held on tight to everything she left for me, possessions, and a beautiful horse mural she painted on my room wall which I have always treasured because she and I loved horseback riding. The hurricane destroyed a great deal of what she left behind including family photographs, her jewelry and her paintings and of course, the horse mural was hardly recognizable when I returned home. I've lost so much of her and it kills me, but I feel as though without her and so much of what she left behind I'm beginning to forget her! I'm gradually forgetting things about my mother and it makes me cry to think about how I'll recall her perhaps five years from now. I love her and never want to forget her. And I feel like so much of my life has fallen apart since last year, I just want to be happy and normal, how can I be?

2006-11-30 13:25:47 · 12 answers · asked by susie q 2