Her husband is cool, but they have kids. But there is a spare room and my friends are from out of town and will only be here for three days. It's like my house also, so do I ask her?
2006-11-30 14:18:44 · 23 answers · asked by ming 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes, IT'S RUDE!! They are already putting up with you, no need to bring more people into the house. Find your friends an inexpensive hotel in the area.
2006-11-30 14:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by marisanj 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I found in a similar situation was that the guests were very disrespectful of my home and family. Playing loud music (even though I told them to turn it down) eating all the food, making a mess. One friend would have been okay - not two or three. You can only ask and if your sister agrees make sure your friends do the right thing by her.
2006-11-30 14:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by auntynoall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You look an extremely sensible and first rate individual. You already comprehend she is married and has infants, so which you recognize that regulations and admire are so as though she facilitates. i think of considering you're feeling like that's your place additionally and there's a spare room, you're able to experience comfortable asking your sister and her husband. i think of you're able to clarify to her which you be responsive to the regulations in the homestead and which you will make constructive that there is no noise, swearing or eating in the homestead. Take your buddies out so your sis and hus. have some privateness with thier infants. solid luck.
2016-12-13 17:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a guest in the sister's home and if you want to be correct and respectful you and the stay over should go and stay at a motel for three days......it's not like it is your house -----unless you pay all the bills and the mortgage.....just do the right thing and find a motel room _________ good night------------
2006-11-30 14:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by XTX 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is not your house.... it was nice of your sister and her husband invited you to stay... so do not think it is right to ask your friends to stay over unless you have asked your sister or brother in law first.. Have respect for your sister and her family while you are living in their house... And then when you have your own place then you can make up your own rules.
2006-11-30 14:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not at all. when your sister agreed to letting you live with her, unless she said so, then she knew that you would have friends that would want to come over and stay the night. Make sure to ask, just in case, but I don;t think it's rude, as long as you and your friends aren't out late and dont come home too late. Make sure to stay with the rulse (if any) that she has just for you.
2006-11-30 14:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by snowangel451 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whose house is it ?
Is it your sister's house and you rent from her?
I think you should be considerate of her feelings and ask HER what she would want you to do.
She and her husband are responsible for the welfare of their children and if she would feel uncomfortable having people in her home then you should go with her decision.
If she says, "Okay" then you are okay and make sure your friends are considerate and responsible while they stay with you.
I would ask her.
Good luck...
2006-11-30 14:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by AG959 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How's house is it???? You STAY with your sister.....That makes it HERS. Before you ask anyone to stay with you, you should ask your sister. That way you are sure that the owners of the house are alright with it.
2006-11-30 14:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask and if they say "no" respect their decision. Your friends should obey their rules and clean up after themselves. AND make sure your friends know it's just a visit not a permanent stay.
2006-11-30 19:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mother of 2 girls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not like your house/ At your house you can do anything you want. This is your sister's house. Check with your sister and ask permission.
2006-11-30 14:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by marie_roberts2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋