I never complain or ask anyone when I'm struggling, what's up with that
2006-11-30 09:25:42 · 9 answers · asked by Mrs. Honey Vibe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You must be an easy touch. As long as you make the money available, they'll take it, apparently, from what you said.
Put your money where it is not available. Then give them the legit answer as to why the money isn't available
No one enjoys being used, and it never helps those who are using us. They need to stand on their own two feet.
2006-11-30 10:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first: Remember that you should never lend money to any friend or family member unless you would be willing to give it to them without them paying it back.
This is the only way to keep your dignity later if you don't get it back.
If you give of your money when your relatives ask, and you never ask them for money, I would say that they think you are in better financial shape than they are.
If you need help, don't be afraid to ask your family, especially if you are generous to them in their need.
2006-11-30 17:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably like me--you pay your bills, save for what you want, go without when you have to. For some reason, if you're not armpit deep in debt people think you have money (never mind that you ate generic mac and cheese for a month!) Ignore them!
2006-11-30 17:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by fallingstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I am now broke. I'm owed over $1000. I'd say it's okay to borrow a little money or borrow some if you know you'll get it back. Sooner or later it may get out of hand though.
2006-11-30 17:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just explain to them that you aren't made of money the way they think you are. Talking could probably solve 90% of the worlds problems these days. :-)
2006-11-30 17:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by love_n_hate84 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When they ask for money tell them no. They get upset that's their problem not yours.
2006-11-30 17:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well tell them to get a job so they will have their own money.
2006-11-30 17:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by daytona_girl18 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have given my brother so much money...did I see it back...ah...HELL NO! I need to call judge judy!!!!!!!
2006-11-30 17:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell them to get a job !
2006-11-30 17:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Barbie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋