Why are people so emotionally attached to their mothers, even though we get mad at them so much?

Answer 1

They are the ones who nurture the newly formed life over its first 9 months .. give birth, take care of all the baby's needs ..

Then they become the ones that teenagers scream at, throw things at, are embarassed to be seen with, treat as if they are invisible (at best) or the slaves of the teen (at worst), constantly complain about and just forget that they are a person ...

Then the cycle of life returns when those rude, selfish teens/young adults become parents ... and have to deal with the growing human life themselves .. MOTHER becomes someone to talk to .. there to help with the grandchildren ... "MOM -- I NEED YOU!" is what they then hear ...

Answer 2

Getting mad is an emotion.....and women are usually very nurturing and the main caregivers in the family....not always

Why are you so mad at your mother.....is she setting rules you dislike......more involved in your life than u like......getting mad at someone is about power and control in a relationship

many people get mad at President Bush...cause they feel powerless to stop or change him......they feel that only their way is correct...so Bush must be wrong..........so they feel powerless and get very angry

most adult realize your not going to agree 100 percent with anyone....so you take the whole relationship into account

do think your mother enjoys having or see you mad.....have a sit down with her to discuss rationally about the things that make you mad.......find out your mothers side of the story.


every been around a small baby or kid....they cry when they want something....don't care about others, only what they want... coo and show off to get attention......insist their toys and things are theirs only....adults spend great time in teaching the young to share....and to manage relationship.....so they can be successful in the world as adults

so you get mad.....have you thought why things upset you.....does the same thing upset others or just you........nobody wants people or kids mad at them......it is painful to deal with constant fights and fits....but a parent will set rules and boundaries....calmly ask your mother about things that upset you....ask her to supply the reasoning...........listen to her side.....see if they seem logical....it might not be what you want to hear when she tells you...but her respect for you will go up....because you gave her a chance to explian the situation......................

Adults ask what is wrong andseek a solution to the problem...children get mad.....pout off....i think your changing into an adult by your question.....show adult logic to your mom.....she would love a new friend.....and see her child mature before he eyes

Answer 3

On the day people were born they were literally attached to their mothers.