I'm 21, and earlier today i was trying to call my father to wish him a happy new year but I just forgot in the moment. I was with my family members of my mother side and it completly slip my mind until today.I just go a phone call from my brother who went with my father and he told me that my pops was very angry at me because i didn't give him a phone call last night. My question is should I let my father cool down a little or just give him a call a.s.a.p. and tell him i'm sorry that i forgot to call him. This matter is very sensitive could you guys give me some wise advice I really need it thanks to all.
2007-01-01 07:34:45 · 5 answers · asked by Ayato Kamina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well it sounds like your father needs to grow up a little. no offense to your father, but if something that insignificant makes him that angry, then it sounds like more of his problem than yours.
BTW, did he call you to wish you a happy new years? if i were you i would give him a call and act like you don't know that he is mad at you. just give him a call and tell him happy new year (it is still new years anyway) casually say "sorry i didn't get you called yesterday, but have a happy new year anyhow!" and if he still acts mad at you, then tell him he's making a big deal out of nothing.
2007-01-01 07:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the SON. Fathers/older people should have more sense- not to be so sensitive. Go call your father ASAP- and say something like- I'm sorry- but I'm calling now- Better late than never. At least I AM ABLE to call- The world isn't perfect. You can let your father know that today, you are alive and able to call and speak to him. Cheer UP DAD!
2007-01-01 15:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you make a mistake....get a gift....and send a note saying your sorry.....taking the time to get the gift...(even a small one)...shows the extra effort you made
in the future when you visit one side of the family....you always call the other side before you get together with other part of the family............it shows respect for not being around that day
do it like this......"hey dad...i wanted to call and wish you a happy new year before i get together with mom........
calling before....shows respect...does not have your dad listening to you at the mom event....and hearing how it is going...
2007-01-01 15:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well today is New year day.....Just call and say you want to wish him a Happy New Year! Don,t let on like you even know hes mad,don,t tell him you forgot....A lot of folkd wait until today,so do it and Im sure he will react fine...if he says why didnt you call,Just say well Today is New Years not last night,just act like you don,t know,,,,I know it will be fine.................
2007-01-01 16:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call asap ... I am sure he will not be angry when you tell him the truth.
2007-01-01 15:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by Johny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋