I'm sort of having problems at home and really stressed lately. My bf's mom told me that anytime i just want to get away from life i can go with them anywhere or just go to their house. Should I tell my mom this even though she's the problem?
2007-01-01 05:34:55 · 6 answers · asked by tadpole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm 15 but my bf's mom was serious. I mean of course i would ask her before i go, but do i just tell her now that they said anytime?
2007-01-01 05:42:24 · update #1
when i say go to their house i mean for a day
2007-01-01 05:48:31 · update #2
I don't want to tell her yet
2007-01-01 06:56:39 · update #3
It is always better to use communication to resolve concerns. Ignoring your mother may only serve to heighten the issues between you and her.
Inform her with calm, non blaming language that you desire to spend some time with a friend and family. If you state it in a non threatening way against your mother, it can increase the probably that she will understand what you are needing.
It would also be important for your friend's parents to communicate to your mother what their plans are and what will be happening to alleviate any concerns or questions your mother may have. But also understand that your mother is your parent and if she does not agress with the plan to go with your friend's family, that you should respect that.
2007-01-01 05:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never leave home unless you are being abused. tell your mom, that the stress is making you sick. ask her if there are any options or changes that can occur to make life better. tell her. it will make a difference. your mom may have a lot of stress on her. you will regret leaving home without discussing this with your mom. i am so sorry. please learn from this. don't repeat this behavior when you are a mom. God bless you. don't forget to say a prayer. God already knows, it wouldn't' hurt to talk to him about it.
2007-01-01 13:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you - u didnt say.
Dont stir more than what you need to .
If you upset your mom it could make it worse on you.
I find at my house the best thing is to avoid everyone....sometimes.
Find some hobbys tell her to drop you off at the library or something just to get away.
2007-01-01 13:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right thing to do is tell your mom and just ask her if you can go and hang out with your friend....im sure she would under stand
2007-01-01 13:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by Paigibee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with ur mother, and if u dont want to tell her find a hobby. like my ball practice is 2 hours long. goodluck.'
2007-01-01 13:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mennat E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only person you should ask this is yourself. Do what you want to do and dont listen to what other people think or say. its your life.
2007-01-01 14:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by GINA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋