Family - January 2007

OK so my dad and mom got divorced when i was a year n a half old. He disapeared on us, and so my mom raised me alone for all that ime until just after i turned 14. I was doing really well in everythign and she wanted him to know it, to feel bad for losing out on so much i guess.
i went and met him this summer and he is now a big part of my life. it is just so wierd thoguh, having a father figure around now after so much time without... also, he lives 12 hours away, so not like he's around that much anyway, but we talk on the phone and stuff. i just don't know though. i still resent him for leaving me and my mom so long ago... and i don't know if i can totally forgive him, even after now that we are so close. is this right? should i still hate him for that, even thoguh i now love him like an actual father instead of hatin him completaly??

2007-01-01 11:41:43 · 7 answers · asked by Doz 3

My mum wants me to be a doctor but i wanna be a cop.

2007-01-01 11:41:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son got in a fight at school. It's really unusuall for my son to do things like that. He is usually really sweet. Well now he has a broken nose! I want to make sure he dosn't get into another fight! I have tooken away his cell phone, laptop. Believe me, he uses his laptop and cell phone all the time! I'm sure he wont do it again. Do you think thats enough punishment? Well he has to go to work with me while hes home........yeah. he is going to be bored. Well i dont know if i am being to harsh on him.........
My sons never get in alot of trouble!

2007-01-01 11:38:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well my father is a drug addict he has been for as long as I can remember i have never known him any other way but my older brother has my brother and i are 11 years apart and i love him more than life itself my brother is my everything he's my world i'd give every pleasure of life up for him he recently got caught cheating on his wife and he says that i shouldnt worry about him but i cant stop today he came home and he was acting weird he didn't stay in the house more than 5 minutes i went outside and i found him in his car asleep i figured he was just tired because he works for the railroad but then i saw an open empty beer container in his car so i came inside and called my mom to inform her that i thought something was going on he lost his cell phone last night as so he says he hasnt been home since he left about 4 or 5 hours ago i love him and im scared that he's turning into my father only instead of drugs its alcohol how do i let go i spend every moment of my life worrying!!!

2007-01-01 11:38:04 · 9 answers · asked by PrInCeSs 2

All my life it's been my mom and I. Now, I'm 19. I'd never been away from home, but now I'm away at college! I have a boyfriend in the same town as my mom. I come home about two or three times a month. And I do spend a lot of time with him ( we planning on marriage after school) and she keeps sending messages that I'm ignoring her or being mean towards her... I don't understand.

I don't know if it's because I really don't need her as much as I did when I was a child ..or what. Can you help?

2007-01-01 11:35:24 · 11 answers · asked by Queen 4

I didn't really see her much. I live with my dad. She got cancer when I was 7. She was supposed to die 2 months later, but lived for another 4 years. She had 11 tumors when she died. I can't get over the fact that she's gone. My brothers act like she never existed. I can't talk to my dad about it. I really don't talk to anybody about it. People dont understand. I need help!

2007-01-01 11:32:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-01 11:14:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I'm 16 years old and I'm starting to think my dad may infact not be my real dad. At first it was the little things, like I didn't really have any of his features, we didn't have much in common and I didn't feel connected to him. My suspicions have increasingly grown however in the last few months. One of the biggest reasons I think he may not be my father is that both my parents are white and I'm black. Should I confront them? Is it possible for 2 white people to have a black child? Or should I just pretend to think nothing of it and play dumb? We use to live in Florida when I was a baby, is it possible im just darker because my skin was so fair as a baby and the sun darkened it? I'm feeling confused about myself, someone please help me out.

2007-01-01 10:53:51 · 12 answers · asked by Always Worried 1

Okay, everytime I get my hands on alot of money I save it, but when I save it I'm the only one that has money out of all my brothers, so when I save my money, everybody wants to borrow money, (even my mom!) and they never pay me back! so right now I just got a bunch of money ($389) and I wanna save it or get bunk-beds, I don't really want bink beds but I'd rather spend my money on something I want then see it go away and never come back so I never benifit from it in the first place, so now what should I do spend it on the bunk beds or save it and try to see if I can keep anyone away from it.
plz give me serious advice only!

2007-01-01 10:47:16 · 13 answers · asked by Unknown Artist~ 4

2007-01-01 10:46:54 · 4 answers · asked by Sweetie28 1

Ok A 2 days ago me and my family came back after going to dinner. My Dad Went to sleep but me and my mom sat on the sofa and talked. After a while I noticed several (5-6) bruises on her legs. I asked her what it was and she said that for some reason she never got hurt their but those bruises just appeared. I was a little suspious but I waited for another day. The next day everthing was fine. But today morning i noticed another (pretty big) bruise on her arm. I remember from a couple of years ago that one of the bruises on her leg were their. My Family has always been a loving family and we have always been together. But Now I am Very Scared That My Dad May Be hitting her. i know he has not done anything to me. I am just suspious so should i worry, or what should i do? Please help. Thanks

2007-01-01 10:38:20 · 9 answers · asked by Guarga R. 1

well I do wanna have more children but everytime my husband and I talk about it she always say that we are notready and it's driving me crazy.No matter waht my husband and I decide to do in life it's never good enough. Im always biting my tongue when Im around her. And when my husband gets around her he becomes this little kid all over again. I love her but how should I confront her, adn what if she gets upset?

2007-01-01 10:27:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mom can't like dad. Dad can't like Mom. What i can do ? And I want to my dad and mom likes each other. plz help me.............

2007-01-01 10:26:50 · 10 answers · asked by Shivam 1

a little bit ago me and my mom where getting seconds And I was getting a peace of ham. getting a second piece I say the word 2. in meaning two piece is the limit. my mom tells me to only get one more. I try to say thats what I was going to do. but then my mom tells me that I was going to get two more. then it turn into a fight that 10 year olds are to old two have. my mom keep tell me I was lying. this isn't the only fight like that. not saying that I and my mom don't get along. we get along 99.9 percent of the time. but throw my mom inpatients with people lying to her and my inability to let people act like they know more about what I said then me and you get an endless argument. there is no way out. it's like that episode of futurama where fry get the robot girl friend of napster. where they where going. "no I love you. "shes stuck in an endless lope and he's an idiot". thats basically the argument. an endless lope and a vicious circle. how do I get out of it. please tell me.

2007-01-01 10:20:32 · 12 answers · asked by fay v 2

mostly disagree about curfews, friends, goals, etc

2007-01-01 10:11:55 · 24 answers · asked by Rox 2

I am 15 years old which means I can't drive yet. I was wondering how to keep my little brother busy when both my parents work, and I'm stuck watching him!! I try taking him to the park but he wants me to take him places that aren't walking distance! anyone got any ideas?

2007-01-01 10:10:18 · 1 answers · asked by fallenangelchick100 1

How do you tell her to mind her own business?

2007-01-01 10:06:25 · 17 answers · asked by Isabelle 3

my sis calls me a brat,hooker,loser,ugly am i really all these things she says i am ? should i get revenge? she is older than me

2007-01-01 09:42:49 · 10 answers · asked by hawain_girl 2

For instance, they might say something like "When I was your age, we didn't have all these fancy toys. All we had was dirt, sticks and rocks to play with, and we were HAPPY!"

2007-01-01 09:42:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Baby Brando was born with Skeletal dysplasia, also known as dwarfism. The baby will only grow up to 3 to 4 feet max, even as an adult. The family tried talking her out of giving him up for adoption, but she was sooo devasted to hear the news. I was happy that nothing happened to my sister while giving birth and the baby was good and healthy. He is good, but not as healthy as we thought. My sister is DETERMINED and this has given me the blues. I WANT TO ADOPT baby Brando. I told my husband about this and he said that would be good since we are the family. But he pointed out 2 things to me: 1. How are you going to tell your sister your plans? 2. Its obvious we will get attached and love him, what happens if she decides she wants the baby back when he is a little older, like 2 or 3. Or sooner.
Here's my question: Has any1 been thru this? How can I break the news? I think she will be furious. She says she never wants 2 c the baby nor have another 1.

2007-01-01 09:42:03 · 14 answers · asked by Justme 2

MY 20 year old sister is a stripper, a groupie for some dumb band, and is involved in the pornography industry. She has no problem with what she is doing, and almsot rubs it in everyones face. What she does to her own life is her choice, but she is having adverse effects on my 17 year old brother. She has him come out to visit her and subjects him to her life of promiscuity, drug and alcohol abuse. He is even present at the concerts where she is stripping. He used to be such a good, kind, caring kid, and now he is just like her. Selfish, stupid and arrogant. I almost cant stand him. I do not choose to associate myself with people like her and I most certainly will not make an exception for a family member. How can I be a good influence on my brother? She lives in PA, we live in OH, but I live 3 hours from my brother. And also am I right to cease communication with her? Every time we speak she is condescending, calls me fat, *****, etc and I dont wish to deal with her.

2007-01-01 09:35:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok A 2 days ago me and my family came back after going to dinner. My Dad Went to sleep but me and my mom sat on the sofa and talked. After a while I noticed several (5-6) bruises on her legs. I asked her what it was and she said that for some reason she never got hurt their but those bruises just appeared. I was a little suspious but I waited for another day. The next day everthing was fine. But today morning i noticed another (pretty big) bruise on her arm. I remember from a couple of years ago that one of the bruises on her leg were their. My Family has always been a loving family and we have always been together. But Now I am Very Scared That My Dad May Be hitting her. i know he has not done anything to me. I am just suspious so should i worry, or what should i do? Please help. Thanks

PS - Knowing my family this sounds like its my imagination

2007-01-01 09:12:19 · 30 answers · asked by Guarga R. 1

Just curious to know if anyone knows of any Asian male/white female couples who've had a child together. What does the child look like? I know white guys who have kids with Asian women tend to have a kid who looks very Asian.

2007-01-01 09:11:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad used to abuse my mother. He broke my grandmothers jaw. he beat my oldest brother when he was little. my grandmother has pictures of bruises on my oldest brother. he has stopped with the frequent abuse. im 17 i want to do something about it now. can i still get him in jail even though it has been years ago?

2007-01-01 08:56:28 · 15 answers · asked by doodley 1

After my 90 secs. he "lost signal" He was at a party w/dad 15 miles from my house. (dad lives 45 miles from my town) he didn't call or invite me. I wouldn't have gone. I forbid my kids from seeing those people. Mom's a drunk, son's on drugs & daughter's town 'ho. Dad never says "no" I called this morning & as usual he picked a fight, I hung up. My friends, therapist & several family members said to give up on him. I will always love my son. But what else can I do?

2007-01-01 08:54:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

How old were you when your parents let you go out with just yours friends, and no adults? Its just really irritating for my cause all of my friends are allowed to, but im not.

2007-01-01 08:39:49 · 29 answers · asked by calitexscgal 2

2007-01-01 08:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by superstar 15 1

he/she is on your mother side and if s/he is on your father's side?

2007-01-01 08:30:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-01 08:27:42 · 2 answers · asked by let it b 1

My family is crazy. My mom dresses like a teenager and doesn't like a lot of stuff in the house. Our house is almost empty. We sit on lawn chairs. We only have one tv. me and my sister sleep in sleeping bags, my mom gets to sleep in a bed. We're not poor, my mom has a lot of money. She owns a nice car and a boat. She also made one of the bedrooms into her own closet. She must own like a thousand outfits. I'm 18 and my sister is 17. My mom says she doesn't have to provide for us. If we want to sleep in a bed we have to buy it ourselves. Is this weird?

2007-01-01 08:25:00 · 17 answers · asked by J 2