Mom can't like dad. Dad can't like Mom. What i can do ? And I want to my dad and mom likes each other. plz help me.............
2007-01-01 10:26:50 · 10 answers · asked by Shivam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ask mom what attracted her to dad when she first met, do the same to your father. Bring that up to the other once in a while. There was something there once..... Say like "mom thought you were a hotty". Good luck!
2007-01-01 10:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here are some things to do. Tell them separately how much their fighting bothers and upsets you. You MUST realize that you have nothing to do with the fact that they fight. You are NOT responsible for their juvenile behavior. You might also tell them that you think they need counseling to find better ways of settling their differences. Unfortunately, they are, in fact, abusing you by fighting in front of you. It is not your fault and other than these things, there may not be much you can do. Resolve that you won't do that when you are an adult.
If you need to do so, talk with a school counselor, minister or priest.
2007-01-01 18:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have they told you specifically that they don't like each other? If not, you truly don't know if they don't like each other. If they really don't like each other, I'm sorry, but you can't make them like each other. This doesn't mean you can't help. Try this: When you're talking to both of them at the same time, bring up a memory when the three of you were very happy together. Perhaps remind them of them you had on a family vacation?
I hope this helps.
2007-01-01 18:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is not a lot you can do, this is your mom & dad's issue. However you can tell your folks how you feel when they fight. How it hurts you and scares you terribly. You can alos ask them to set you up with a counselor. Perhaps they will seek help also as a family. Good luck my friend.
2007-01-01 18:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Bullwinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything anything about how they feel about each other but you can do something about your spelling and grammar.
Why do you say didn't like each other?
Can't like each other? And I want to my day and mom likes each other. Plz help me....
All improper grammar.
2007-01-01 18:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried to fix my parents' relationship myself and I do not think it was a good idea. When I tried to do something they tried only to make me feel better not because it was something they felt like doing. You do want them to be happy, right? Maybe it is better for them just to go separate ways, my parents did and I think it was for better. We all are much happier now. When all of us meet at least we can have normal conversation without yelling. Good luck anyway!
2007-01-01 18:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by olkaplan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UNFORTUNATELY YOU CANNOT MAKE PEOPLE LIKE EACHOTHER..THEY EITHER DO OR THEY DON'T! IF THEY ARE STAYING TOGETHER AND MAKING YOUR LIFE DIFFICULT, YOU NEED TO TELL THEM TO HELP YOU FIND ANOTHER PLACE TO LIVE IN PEACE. THAT MIGHT MAKE THEM WAKE UP!!!!!!
2007-01-01 19:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu can't do a thing about it. Leave them be.
2007-01-02 03:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something special (romantic dinner) for their anniversary or any special occasion.
2007-01-01 18:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by 2nice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need counseling for you.
2007-01-01 18:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋