Family - January 2007

Is there anything else i could do to help people?? I'm 15 and i love to help others...i am known to be very helpful and put others ahead of my life...my sister is handicapped and cant walk at all...I help my father out with her since my mother walked out when i was 8....At that time my mother had another child and when she walked out i raised my sister...ive been a mother....well to her at least.....my little sister is now almost 8....and looks up to me joyfully....i volunteer my time on saterdays to a special needs program...I LOVE IT...ok now to my question....what do you think would be the best job for me when im out of high school...i have 2 more years of high school and i want to help special needs... what do you prefer?

2007-01-02 12:26:56 · 14 answers · asked by *Hello* 3

I heard that before, and am assuming it's true. Anyone?

2007-01-02 12:10:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-02 12:09:18 · 8 answers · asked by kay 1

so my mom and step-dad have been haveing fights alot, and he got a job offer in las vegas...but we live on the other side of the country...so he left thins mourning and i dont know if i should forgive him or not....my mom and him have been married since i was 5 and he just left! he didnt leave us with any money so we might loose our house....I am only 15 and i have to help raise my 10 year old brother and my 13 year old sister, because my big sister is leaveing for collage soon....I also have to get a job and take care of my pets and the house and keep up on skool work!
we have to cut back on things like movies and shopping......so you tell me should i forgive him if he comes back or not?

2007-01-02 12:08:46 · 10 answers · asked by blair 2

2007-01-02 12:06:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to compromise about us living together and makeing our 2 families one. He gets his kids every other week-end and 2 week- day eveings for a couple hours. I have agreed not to smoke in our new home. His one child has a daughter that has a small dog, that at her mothers home is in and outside, he smells and has fleas. I don't want this dog in our new house. I don't care for animals and I almost have an anxiety attack over animal hair on furniture. I am willing to compromise things, and plus his children will be getting a lot better life then what they r used to once we move in together. I don't want the dog in our new house. Am I wrong?? he says he can't say no to the dog because of a woman in his life.....I say it doesn't have to be about me....we can say the dog can't be in the new house. Help !!

2007-01-02 11:53:37 · 6 answers · asked by carla 1

My parents have always been so abusive, and i am in my twenty years old now, and i have no children yet but I have 2 little sister, 5 and 9 yrs old. they didnt feel well so they didnt finish their HW and my mother came home and hit them many times and screamed. i told her to stop, and she said that they were her kids and i have no right in telling her what to do. my sisters and thin and fragile, and they are very sensitive. . . i dont understand why my parents want to hurt them. my mom told me that i have to shuttup and not get involved and that i wasnt her daughter anymore just because i told her to stop. when i was young, they used to beat me so badly(sticks, rollers, rulers, belt...you name it), mostly cuz i was a average student and they wanted me to be a genius. i dont understand and i feel so hurt.

2007-01-02 11:32:11 · 18 answers · asked by Hopekins 2

Ok, my daughter is 16 and I caught her having sex with her boyfriend. At first, I gave her a 3-month grounding, but after 3 weeks I found out she was pregnant. I decided to teach her some responsibility. I kicked her out and she moved in with her 18 year old boyfriend. I told her she cant have an abortion and I will not help with financial needs and she must stay in school.

Do you think I was too harsh?

2007-01-02 11:29:46 · 37 answers · asked by Larry Johnson 1

if you won a lot of cash life changin cash what would be the first thing you would do .........would you still be with the person you with .......

2007-01-02 11:29:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've seen fireworks fights with people geting blasted then just stand right up without pain. They also hit a lot of trees. Why don't these fireworks cause damage.

2007-01-02 11:29:00 · 3 answers · asked by Dude101 2

2007-01-02 11:23:42 · 11 answers · asked by 32 1

There's a law about grandparents getting involved in a parents decsion. I'm a mother of a three year old boy. My mother is very close to my son. But every time I want something with my son. she's always getting involved. When I say something to my son. She gets between him and I. I want my son to go to Head Start, so he may play with other children, get some education, and be like a 3 year old. Mom and I are not getting along, because she does want him to go to head-satrt. I called to check if there were any openings two blocks away. Mom started yelling...WHY??..why does he have to go to head-start. I become feeling so bad, thinking I'm not a good mother..because I'm sending my son to school. What sould I tell mom? What could I do?.. Help needed..ASAP!

2007-01-02 11:21:08 · 8 answers · asked by latinapr1229 2

I loan my youngest money and she gets mad at paying it back.My oldest is belowpoverty level but still finds the mmoney to pay me back how do I get across to the youngest she still needs to pay me back I dont owe her.

2007-01-02 11:11:23 · 8 answers · asked by furby_lost 5

I was with my ex (Nick) for 4 years, we share a 2yo son, but we broke up 7 months ago because i couldnt trust him, because of cheating and lies. I'm currently seeing another guy (Adam) and im in early pregnancy with Adam's child. I dunno if its just nerves about being pregnant again or moodswings or what... I feel loopy cos I care about Adam and i dont wanna hurt him but i can help but feel like Adam was just meant to be a rebound... Lately because of the holidays i have seen more of Nick because of our son and i cant help but wander that if i have this baby will i regret messing up my chances of ever getting back with Nick or what... I know that the grass definitly isnt greener on the other side, but i still love Nick, Are these emotions normal? Am i doing the wrong thing? How can i overcome these feelings for Nick? I dont wanna hurt Adam or my son who is attached to both males... and Adam treats me great... I dont think i could ever succeed in a relationship with nick but i love him.

2007-01-02 11:03:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to help so i've babysat and prayed but, i want to do MORE!I don't have a job but, I STILL want to help!How can I????

2007-01-02 10:59:54 · 9 answers · asked by curious george 1

Convincing parents...?
how do i convince my parents that i should get a car on my sweet 16?!

2007-01-02 10:57:19 · 17 answers · asked by sweetheart--xo 2

I was told that my blood type was not compatable with my brother.
Is this possible if we had the same parents?

2007-01-02 10:57:12 · 20 answers · asked by RICHARD C 1

plz help my sis gets in and leaves my room a mess plz help me

2007-01-02 10:52:57 · 5 answers · asked by Jassataz Rules 1

how do i convince my parents that i should get a car on my sweet 16?!

2007-01-02 10:49:13 · 8 answers · asked by sweetheart--xo 2

2007-01-02 10:26:41 · 10 answers · asked by 32 1

They all 3 lived with us at one time- one was asked to leave (daughter 23) and now she absolutely hates me- called me the nastiest names she could in front of my three young daughters- the oldest boy (24) is being asked to leave this Friday because he just mooches off of us for free living and food- is very disrespectful, too. The youngest (18) just has attitude and we can not have him leave because of his schooling-I am tired of dealing with these kids and do not know what to do anymore.
It is making my daily life miserable and ruining my beautiful relationship with their father.

Thier Dad is feeling guilty because they are all mad at him and I see him questioning the decisions he has made- I am scared the kids will win and we will end. I have been very very good and kind to all of these kids and still lose...

2007-01-02 10:14:29 · 11 answers · asked by Becky 1

If yes, what stopped you from killing yourself?

2007-01-02 10:08:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do any of You guys live out there?I am trying to find my brother whom I have never met.what would be4 the best way to go around it?i have already tried to look at the census site,to no avail.HELP!!!!!!!

2007-01-02 10:08:02 · 4 answers · asked by snuffylover4 2

Her New Year Resolution was to stop and she did for a little while but, then started again.

2007-01-02 10:04:00 · 9 answers · asked by curious george 1

2007-01-02 09:58:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am pregnant. Adam (my fiance).. well, his sister is really mean. the other day i was at his mom's and she was talking about how Adam never really moved out because mom and dad still give him money. Which pissed me off but I didn't say anything. Then we were in the living room and she was talking about people on welfare. She thinks that everyone on welfare abuses the system and that they are just too lazy to find a ****** job and support their kids. THAT PISSED ME OFF SO BAD. she has said mean **** like this to me before, so do you think I should invite her to my baby shower? I really don't want to, and adam's mom will have a fit, but I don't think she deserves to be a part of this child's life. I'm not on welfare because I want to be. I'm on welfare because Adam got laid off and I couldn't keep up with all the bills myself. So, what should I do?

2007-01-02 09:56:25 · 22 answers · asked by NSeni 1

I have been divorced from "J" for over 7 years and for 5 of those 7 I wanted her back until I got into another relationship. I was not the ideal husband I must admit. She had every right to divorce me after 10 years but, she always tries to keep me away from our two sons (12&13) who love me to death and I love them deeply too. She has re-married and at first I didn't want to accept it but, I have found out that the man she married is a stand up guy and I am comfortable with it all except she still will not let my kids contact me whether by phone,mail or e-mail. I don't have there phone # because she has gotten it changed everytime I had it. She tells my kids they can't call me because, "their # is private,or I'm long distance". There is no way I would get the number if it is private, it will not show up on an i.d. and she knows this but, let her tell it she isn't trying to keep them from me, she's a devout Christian.
She won't let them use her computer to e-mail me either. what going?

2007-01-02 09:55:37 · 17 answers · asked by saturn man 3

My fiance and I invited my family over for lunch and dinner for xmas which was planned a few weeks before hand and was confirmed that was going to be definate. The day of xmas my family calls me and tells me that they will not be coming over because the parents are arguing. They expected me to drop off my brother and sister (whom slept over) back home and bring the rest of the gifts with them for them to open.

We spent a lot of money buying food and preparing for the day that will keep over 10 people entertained.

After dropping off my brother and sister and dropping off the other gifts for everyone else, I never got a call back saying thank you for the gifts or at least an apology that we went through so much preperation.

2007-01-02 09:49:01 · 6 answers · asked by bjperez07 3

2007-01-02 09:43:57 · 34 answers · asked by Female O ♥ 4

What would you say/do if all that someone did was be negative, rude, critical, and made fun of people because of their education? My step-father is drives me insane with his rude comments every time I visit my mother at his place! What would you do? (Rude comments will be ignored).

2007-01-02 09:42:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous