Family - January 2007

My parents are divorced and both are remarried, but my mom talks to me about court and says bad things about my step mom and my father, my mom always asks me why I don't want to go live wit her (I'm fine wit my father I have a wonderful life wit him) I feel like saying to her "shut the hell up, don't you get it, all you do is push me farther away from you.". What do I do? Advice please!

2007-01-03 05:43:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother widowed mother lives here in India -where we too live with our two teens. As the eldest son - the onus fell on me to take care of her. I have tried to convince her to sell all assets and move to either UK, Spain, Aust. or The US,where my brother and sister reside respectively. She, is adamant about living in India.She is very sentimental about the house as my Dad built it with a lot of grit and hurdles. Things at that time the financial situation was at its lowest ebb.Things got better as we grew up.The problem is my wife and I are not comfortable living in India. I am proud of India& being an Indian but having lived so many years abroad my thinking has changed and hard as I try I cant seem to adjust with the red tape, corruption here& am sorry to say we cant even speak our langauge Hindi. I cant leave my mother alone and return to Europe? I have a fantastic job with one of the most reputed Companies in the world and can posted to Spain. Any suggestions?

2007-01-03 05:37:25 · 4 answers · asked by livingonthinice 3

Was told by a counselor one time that I had built walls around myself after so many years of heartache...family, marriage...and that should let a few cracks begin to let the good come in....easier said than done. How is it done?

2007-01-03 05:33:03 · 3 answers · asked by Gypsygrl 5

Do you have a ghetto family Member that gets on your last nerves????!!!!???? If so put them on blast and tell why they are ghetto


O, and check this "GHETTO HOT MESS" OUT!!!

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2007-01-03 05:28:30 · 10 answers · asked by TruDiva 3

Sometimes, I get these random spontaneous thoughts of my parents dying. Like they would go somewhere and I would just think to myself, "What if this is the last time I see them??" It's AWFUL!! I can't even IMAGINE the pain I would endure to go through losing my parents so young (I'm in my early 20s). It hurts just to think that...

Like when my dad goes to work, I wonder if that's the last time I see him... so I make sure I give him a hug and say "I love you" and smile at him before he leaves.

And with my mom today... she had to drop her friend off. I rode in the car with her so she wouldn't be by herself on the way back home. And if something happens to HER, something would happen to me too... and I would atleast suffer with her and she wouldn't be alone...

My mind is twisted. I hate thinking these things. Do you guys have these random thoughts?! And how do you make them stop... : (

2007-01-03 04:46:02 · 8 answers · asked by Rita 3

2007-01-03 04:04:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyone has a right for freedom, but what if freedom is misused? Is it okay if family members are stupid to the point that they dont mind posting their stupidity in their blogs while believing they are "cool" in doing so? Its embarassing.

2007-01-03 03:48:50 · 10 answers · asked by oneworld 1

I love my man very much and he too. but he is two months younger than me... Normally People dont accept to marry a guy younger than a girl. it is in practice.. is it right?? I feel that true love never mind about age, status and all.... am i right.... what u people think abt it??

2007-01-03 03:42:46 · 33 answers · asked by apple 2

My male friend is a bit of a charmer and womaniser (He has a lovely girlfriend who has a 10 year old daughter). He started chatting up a friend of mine who has told me she is HIV positive. Then they left together to go for dinner. He and his girlfriend were fighting at the time and I know from a previous argument he slept with another woman. I was so worried he would sleep with my HIV positive friend and then go back to his girlfriend, that I told him she was HIV. I feel terrible about it, but my concern was for the mother and daughter. He got a shock when I told him, and has been behaving himself since. This was a month ago, and I cant stop thinking I broke my HIV positive friends trust. She doesnt know yet.

2007-01-03 03:23:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Normally poison ivy is a very hard and bitter thing.
But perhaps you have a funny experience though?!
E.g. in your childhood ....

2007-01-03 03:17:25 · 6 answers · asked by Rafffael M 3

lying, cheating them out of something, take advantage.. I have seen so many families ruined because of how they treat and are treated by family. Like a son who borrows some tools and never brings them back so you tell them you will build a storage building for them and they say great thanks. Then when they ask why are you being so nice to offer to build a storage building and then you say so you can keep my tools and everything else you borrowed in a safe place. They are clueless !!

2007-01-03 03:13:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my wife have been togather since the fall of 2005. She was in college so i moved 5 hours from my boys for a year so she could finish college. i asked her to get a siter for her daughter for a night so we could do something and she told me it was ok for me to ask her to get a siter but unreasonable for me to exspect her to ever get a sitter. things like this happen alot. shes even went as far as telling me she thought marring me ment she could live her life with me in it. I really do love her. Did i make a mistake marrying her ?

2007-01-03 03:08:33 · 10 answers · asked by ryanm283 1

Me and my son are coming to CA in May (he is going to study there) but we don't have any friends there and need somebody to help us while we settle down. We would like to meet somebody who will allow us to stay in his/her place for a few days while we rent an apartment or maybe somebody who will rent out two rooms to us. We are nice normal people, healthy and optimistic, my son is 17, we don't smoke. Thank you. Larisa

2007-01-03 02:57:08 · 4 answers · asked by Larisa G 1

Then she actually said my husband loves his business more than me. Oh and lets not forget that she said me and my family are nothing but an excuse!! And why did she say all this? B/c I told her that I didnt want to be a part of her business. My own opinion, and she blows up, but she was drinking........my question is, should i forgive her? we have been around each other after that happened but it was soo awkward..she wont apoligize....but how should I and really should I be the one to say sorry??

Sorry so long!! Any help would be great!
Oh and of course my husbands on his moms side, and he thinks I am at fault b/c she was drinking and I wasnt, so I should have "been the bigger person"

2007-01-03 02:44:55 · 30 answers · asked by ♥ AnimalLover ♥ 2

My mother is showing signs of neurological problems. Her doctor feels she may be having mini-strokes and ordered a cat scan and other tests. She flat out refuses to take these tests. Nothing I say makes a difference. My siblings also have had no luck convincing her either. She also suffers from kidney problems, high blood pressure, and diabetes. She does not take care of her health at all. Its like she has a death wish. Her house is total mess, clutter and junk everywhere and from the smell of things we don't think she has bathed in weeks. We try to help out but she becomes angry and tells us to stay out of her business. How can we get her to take these tests?

2007-01-03 02:27:42 · 8 answers · asked by Kimmy 4

I'm 14, love swimming, but I had a problem with my nose and my dr tolld me to avoid swimming until I get better. I'm a wise boy, goy good grades, follow the rules, but I broke this medical rule, I love swimming. My mom is wonderful and we get along but after breaking that rule for the 4th she gave a punishment. She took me to the kitchen, made me put on a sweet frilly full apron and for 1 hour I had to do some chores wearing it. I got embarrassed, asked her to let me take it off but she said No, hun, I love ya but you have to learn to respect medical orders, for your best. And didn't back off. And told me if I disrespecr medical orders again I'll put on that frilly apron again. I know it was out of love but I got kinda embarrassed, though only my mom saw me in that apron. Ok, now I'm following strictly what my dr told me to do, but I think that punishment was embarrassing and unfair, after all Im a good boy, didnt do anything bad to anyone,

2007-01-03 02:10:41 · 23 answers · asked by Liza 1

i'm only 21 and i'm about to get married and i want to know if i should have a baby, me and my wife are making over 200k a year so money is not an issue to us and everything is going great but is it too early for me to be a dad? please give me your opinion

2007-01-03 01:55:36 · 11 answers · asked by Hong T 1

how can i convince him that im not?
what can ido please tell me....i dont want my father thinking that about me. he almost took away my pc.

2007-01-03 01:53:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister has always been a very aggressive person, rude, insulting and violent with no respect for me, or anyone in the family. We all felt released when she moved to her bf`s appt. (I wonder how do people like this make relationships with the opposite characters, I mean her bf is an angel, such a kind man!) She has been always poisoning my and my mother`s life, so my tactic the last years was to just ignore her when she behaves or talks badly. 2 months ago she offended me as badly as ever, I couldn`t believe it. So I cried, thought again and again and I took my decision: to not talk to her ever again ,end of this story, I don`t want to know her anymore. She didn`t seem to realise it in the beginning, but my mum told me that yesterday she was asked by my sister why don`t I talk to her. When my mother explained her why, she refused the whole thing. anyway I don`t care about this. The thing is that she announced to mum that she is getting married. What if i don`t want to be there?

2007-01-03 01:29:47 · 11 answers · asked by EMBELL 1

She controls me and my brothers like a dictator and tells us it's for our own good. We got into an argument after i told her she is too controlling. At first she tried to cut me off by walking away or saying that she's busy but then it got heated and she started saying things about like what she could do instead of caring for us, but it was ridiculous because i know that she wont / dislikes / cant ever do those things (eg gambling and stuff). I told her that's crazy and stuff, and that it was possible for her but she's just confined to society's norms and its because of the way she was brought up. I've been feeling like this since i was in primary school, that i came this far with my own effort. I wasnt made to believe this, i didnt get encouragement when i needed it, i didnt get the emotional support needed, only tears. To me my parents are the people who feed me and house me, but that's about as far as it goes. I do have respect for them, i do wish them well, i do appreciate them,

2007-01-03 01:16:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I lived with my parents, my father was a firm believer in discipline, a very strict dad. When I was a teen I made some mistakes, bad crowds, those things, and he didn't understand me, was extremely harsh. My mom was not so harsh but didn't want to go against him. This broke up our relationship. I could never see him as a loving father. That time I agreed I had made mistakes and changed, but never made up with him. Anyway, I turned up to become a girl even my father was proud of. But since 13 I've hardly talked to him. Today I'm 24, graduated in Chemistry, have a job, but avoid my parents. Well, my father had some problems, actually he made some mistakes, and asked for my help and support, though he knows I'm still extremely resentful of him. I know he wants my moral support in this difficult moment, but why will I be supportive if he was the bad guy and didn't act as a father? He wants me to understand he can make mistakes but never understood I could make some when I was a teen

2007-01-03 00:37:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anabela 1

ok so heres how it goes. in school a few months ago a girl comes up to me and asks me if i want to join the basketball, i was really not interested but i told her i'll get back to her. when i went back home and told my parents they were delighted and asked me to join. i was not interested but i thought i'll give it a try. now after a month i'm not at all happy and want to quit, but my parents already bought me all the gear and the outfit and all and they seem so happy that i'm going for practice. so i don't want to let down their expectations and even because they bought me everything. but i really want to quit. what do i do? please help this is serious.

2007-01-03 00:36:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

apology? My son or my daughter-in-law? Thanks.

2007-01-03 00:25:59 · 19 answers · asked by helen_cooper24 2

I am going on an eating disorder.I have already told my mom.My mom said i'm going to be the in the hospital.

2007-01-03 00:16:28 · 14 answers · asked by ♠Whoa!♠ 2

2007-01-03 00:10:19 · 9 answers · asked by manish j 1

Im sick of my brothers sissy voice , his 14 and im just curious around what age there voice's start to crack because when he talks , it sounds like high pitched and very gurly lol

2007-01-03 00:00:23 · 5 answers · asked by Stelle S 1

I don't wanna go to school this morning because something really bad happened yesterday there and I can't get it out of my head What can I or tell my mom?She isn't going to believe me if I just say i'm sick.

2007-01-02 23:54:43 · 19 answers · asked by ♠Whoa!♠ 2

when a guy gets a cold they act like they have pneumonia and whinge about it like they are dying, and go on about it like it's the worst thing in the world...but when us women get a cold or flu, we still have to carry on regardless and get no sympathy or help, the reason why i ask is...my partner has sneezed a few times this morning and now he's acting like he's on his death bed, but when i get a cold, he just takes no notice, why do men act like babies while us women still strive on and get on with things....

2007-01-02 23:41:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-02 23:29:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

period ............. 9 months between

2007-01-02 23:07:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous