My mother has run off to spain with her lover. She is bleeding my dad dry, (he is letting her, still loves her) She has started phoning him, and me, drunk, and verbally abusive, she said i should not talk to him. He did not do anything but pamper her all her life, 47 yrs, he is too soft, now he is paying. I am going mad here, i do not answer the phone to her anymore, so she leaves abusive messages. When i call on dad, every day, he is so stressed out, cause she is saying he has to give her everything, gonna take him for every penny, im scared he`ll have a heart attack, he is 69. I HATE my mother, she abused me all my life, my brother is at the end of his tether, he gets no where near the crap i am dealing with, i have a lovely life now, this is spoiling it, but i cannot ignore my dad, i love him, and worry so much. I think this will end in tragedy, any tips, to make dad see sense? He won`t go for councelling, it is all getting far too much for all of us, yet she still rings, abusive.
2007-01-03
08:19:08
·
16 answers
·
asked by
Anonymous