my dad is in the military the navy hes a ship inspector and he's always gon were not close so say ''it must be hard being away from ur dad cuz it's not'' it's just he work 23 hr shifts and he never teach me how to drive i got a permit but i wanna drive somore. i dont have no family to teach me i dont have no mom sh'e states away and has never driven me anywhere but claims she can drive she takes the bus all the time. she dont send me nothing basicallly i just dont have a mom i have no one to go shooping with i have no one to do my hair,talk to or anything i have no one to guide me. i should have a boyfriend but dont i just hate this stag i wanna go to college and be out on my own i hate my life as it is but i dont want to kill myself i want to decorate my kids room and be a mom to them i already got their names sorted out gabrianna and ishisha the man in the bible. i want to be very sucessful in advertisment and have a nice car just after all this bad i want a great life a be a good mo
2007-01-03 07:50:12 · 8 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I didnt read what anyone else wrote back to you but heres where I stand. While I was growing up in my parents home my father worked at least 18hours everyday. Would come home eat and go to sleep. My mother worked alot of dead end jobs and always slept really late in the day and never cooked. While I saw my parents it was more like I lived with roommates. Untill I would do something wrong then they would try to dicipline me more. I also had dreams of college and kids. Now I have a baby and I am also enrolled in college currently going for my MBA but there is still a void. The feeling that you feel of nobody bieng there and not having anybody to turn to wont go away. It may subside and you may learn to trust and you may learn to forgive but in your head your childhood remains. Just remember fight the good fight and dont let history repeat itself. Go to school. Educate yourself so you can have that nice car. Then when your ready go find a man that there for you 100%. WHen you two are ready and you find that shoulder to lean start your family. Trust me waiting will be so much better for your heart, I speak from personal experience.
2007-01-03 08:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by mama going crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, in order to be successful you need to start with your basic education and this includes grammar. I hope that you do not speak the way you write, as this would be another area you need to perfect.
Why don't you seek the help of your high school counselor and work on your diploma first. Then work on getting through a junior college, followed by a state college or university.
Hold off on having children even if you have picked names. You need to get your education, followed by a relationship where you both are ready to commit and then have children. Remember though, a marriage takes lots of work and may not leave room for you to become a career woman.
Success can be achieved in many forms and you must believe that you are successful. Whether in a career in the business world or at home as a mom success is what you determine it is.
2007-01-03 08:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter that ur dad is in the military u r gonna be successful as long as u try. Do u have any aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters, grandparents, friends? I know that there is someone that can help u to get more practice with driving. U r not the only 1 that has ever been at this stage I have been there also, but don't worry about it. Keep doing what ur doing and continue striving for a better life u will get it.
2007-01-03 08:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a sweet girl stuck in a bad time right now. It will get better. But, seriously, if you REALLY do want to "be successful," go to college, have a career and a good car, you REALLY REALLY REALLY need to work on your spelling. How you speak and how you write are big parts of how successful you are in life.
Do you know any teachers, youth leaders or ministers? Do you have any friends with moms? Tell an adult in your life what you told us, and see if they will help you learn to drive. Are you on a military base? The military usually has lots of chaplains and programs to help people. And lots of military wives whose husbands are far away, so they're lonely and need a friend. And some of those wives probably aren't much older than you. :)
2007-01-03 08:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by Torchbug 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In order to be successful you need a good education, which you obviously have not gotten, otherwise you would know how to spell or you would be smart enough to use the spell check. So you go from being an unhappy kid to a mother? First, stay away from the boys. Next start concentrating in school and get an education. Yes you can go to college and I would suggest that you do that. You can be anything you set your mind out to be, so stop feeling sorry for yourself and do it.
I was a high school drop out. I went to college when I was in my 40's. Now I'm 53 and working on a master's degree in college. If I can do it, so can you.
2007-01-03 08:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lola 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Answer what? There's no question here. You don't want to hear about spelling or grammar, but if you fill out an application like this there's no chance you're going to be hired and therefore no chance at success.
2007-01-03 07:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I just can't answer this question without commenting on the spelling and grammar. Sorry!
2007-01-03 07:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jane 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be successful, do it. When you set your mind to something, you can do anything.
2007-01-03 07:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋