Don't get me wrong I love my brother in law. He is the little brother I always wanted. Ever since my husband and I got married and moved into our place he has visited at least 5 days a week. I just need some alone time with my husband. How do I tell my brother in law (nicely) to give us some time to settle down. He doesn't seem to take hints and my husband thinks it is funny. Help he takes showers, watches tv, and downloads porn....He is such a brat.
2007-01-03 06:25:23 · 9 answers · asked by redheaded GINGER 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would be honest with him and tell him how you feel. You are now part of the family and do not have to put up with his childish ways. If he doesn't listen I just would not let him into your apartment. You need to lay ground rules and tell him that you would prefer to see a little less of him. Do not let him take advantage of your kidness.
2007-01-03 06:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by ?Erroneous? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Block her If that would not artwork tell the fb crew i'm not quite particular what you may do after that...possibly have someone verify which includes her head to head (not your brother in regulation though) Getting the courtroom in contact is a procedures too a lot of a hardship and too a lot funds. Has she actual come to his domicile? if she has which may make for a reliable harassment case EDIT: if so, print up all the messages, and record a police record. This man or woman is loopy....
2016-10-16 23:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You teach people how to treat you. Your husband thinks it's cute, and baby brother is a free-loader. Why be nice to someone who is taking advantage of you? Tell him he must wait to be invited before coming over. I suspect the problem is more your husband's though- he thinks this is funny???
2007-01-03 06:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sabine É 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the problem is that you are only giving hints, so the next step is to have you and Husband to tell him that he needs to stop comming over so much, to give you both some space, and ect... Good Luck !
2007-01-03 06:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by madman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just pull him to the side and tell him that you and your husband need some time to spend alone. but dont forget to say that you love havin him around, but make sure that he knows that he needs to cut his visiting time short and not as often.
2007-01-03 06:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by smthomas306 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would put a stop to the porn business right now and you didn't say how old the brother in law was
2007-01-03 06:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a nasty email or letter and then cut off the head of a rat and put it in his bed.
2007-01-03 06:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your husband deal with him.
2007-01-03 06:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to find a girl,,she'll take up most of that free time ;O)
2007-01-03 06:28:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋