My sister has always been a very aggressive person, rude, insulting and violent with no respect for me, or anyone in the family. We all felt released when she moved to her bf`s appt. (I wonder how do people like this make relationships with the opposite characters, I mean her bf is an angel, such a kind man!) She has been always poisoning my and my mother`s life, so my tactic the last years was to just ignore her when she behaves or talks badly. 2 months ago she offended me as badly as ever, I couldn`t believe it. So I cried, thought again and again and I took my decision: to not talk to her ever again ,end of this story, I don`t want to know her anymore. She didn`t seem to realise it in the beginning, but my mum told me that yesterday she was asked by my sister why don`t I talk to her. When my mother explained her why, she refused the whole thing. anyway I don`t care about this. The thing is that she announced to mum that she is getting married. What if i don`t want to be there?
2007-01-03 01:29:47 · 11 answers · asked by EMBELL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The problem of "not attending my sisters wedding" is that my mum will not be able to get over it, and that everybody will ask where am I, on that day, so what will be the answer to this??? You cannot say to people that "the sisters don`t talk -even on wedding day". I would feel sorry to dissappoint my family and my sisters husband - but not my sister. I cannot pretend for her anymore, she has made me feel so bad.
2007-01-03 01:46:18 · update #1
if you really dont want to go then dont but think about it very well cuz this may be something that can hunt you as well for the rest of your life....everyone deserves a one last chance me and my sis had a relationship sort of what you have just described but when she moved away i guess w/ both realize how much we mean to each other and have been good friends since...im not saying that all cases are the same and that she will change but you never know dont let this be something you will later regret
2007-01-03 01:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by starlight♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did it ever occur to you that she is jealous of you? She is your only sister and you should start some type of communication. You should be in her wedding if she ask you or you should attend if you are not asked to be a part of the wedding. You are only a part of a family unit and you should not do something tht will hurt your mother ( that is being totally childish). Think about this, what if something was to happen to your sister tomorrow, how would you feel then? It is never too late to open communication with love ones while you can. She probably shows her soft side to her bf.
2007-01-03 01:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. No one should be treated that way. She makes you miserable just thinking about her. She is an abusive person and she has found her victims she can bully. I wouldn't go to the wedding because she will make you miserable and probably embarrass you on purpose. I had to move away from my family because they were so drastically complicated, I had to go or join in. When I was little I was bullied by some family members and when I turned 16 I was punched in the mouth and I reflexed and hit back that time got her in the nose and she (28) never touched me again. Her verbal abuse came to a halt also. I took off not long after that cause they were just too much drama it was driving me crazy. I'm not saying for you to fight her, I'm just giving a small example of a bully getting a taste of their own flavor. Just leave her, maybe one day she will realize what she is missing out on and come to you. I support you and your decision as long as you are happy in life.
2007-01-03 02:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have a sister that has probably done way worse things than you can even think of. she also is an "outlaw" with our family. i still love her, she's my baby sister, the only one i have left. but i do not make any effort to contact her,(she just causes too much trouble) but i miss my neice and nephew. if you don't want to go to the wedding, don't go.(especially if you think sis will cause a big scene with you)
2007-01-03 01:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she makes such an alful mistake, go along with it. In the future she will regret this decision and when she has kids of her own, she will look for you for advise. She is probably just jelious of you
2007-01-03 01:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Sheila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, just go and have a good time. Do it for your mother, and the kind man she's marrying. One day this will all pass.
2007-01-03 01:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE TWO SISTERS ONE THAT IS A B##CH AND THE OTHER I LOVE TO DEATH.I WOULD NOT ATTEND ANYTHING MY B##CH SISTER INVITED ME TO IM SORRY BUT IT WOULD BE WORSE FOR ME TO GO .ALL WE DO IS ARGUE SHE IS ALWAYS RIGHT SO SHE THINKS.ITS JUST BEST NOT TO GO
2007-01-03 04:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by karasbearas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being a little selfish. Don't go for your sister, go for your brother-in-law and your mom.
2007-01-03 02:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well looks like she hasn't invited you yet... so don't hold your breath about it. she prolly want
2007-01-03 01:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its you choice if you do not want to be there then don't
2007-01-03 01:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋