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ok, i'll try to make this short. my sister (20) has a 3 month old baby and is living with the baby and her bf at my mothers 2 bedroom apartment. my sis works 20 hr a week and her bf works about 15. they both recieve checks from govt. hers 450 and his 300 a month. my mom is living on ssi of 700 a month (about 150 after all bills are paid). they do not give her a penny to help out and she is struggling. her car is broke down and its 600 to fix. she's been without one for 2 weeks now. she needed some pop from the store thats not too far away and my sis made her give her 2 dollars to go there for her. next time my mom wanted something from the store my sis wouldnt go get it and my mom had to walk in the rain. on top of it my mom suffers from severe depression. now tonight my sis's baby is in the hospital and she needed me to go get her bf from work and take him home, wait for him to shower, and take him to hospital. i was so angry cause she wont barely do for others. my fiance is takin hi

2007-01-15 15:17:39 · 4 answers · asked by notsurehere 2 in Family & Relationships Family

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Its discusting and your sister does not have the right to make your poor mother use all of her money for rent and utilities when she only should 1/4 its not her responsibility to pay for there child and the 2 of them when they are getting money for their baby. When they decided to have a baby they decided to be responsible adults and that means your mommy doesnt pay their rent. They should have to give their checks to pay for rent food bills or they can stop getting one. You can ask her and her man to quit trying use the grandmother of their baby to foot the bill, They dont get a free ride they dont want to sacrifice anything for their child then they dont need to get any check, Try to be nice and shame them especially the father who should get off his *** and work 2 fulltime jobs. If they dont want to cooporate they can get out and Ibet they will change their mind or act like you want your mother to move in with you or a cheaper apt . They will get the message but under no circumstances are you going to watch your mother walk to store or pay for 4 people when her check isnt enuf for one. I dont blame you thats horrible, your mother is probably so stressed and worried while they have a life of a 16 yr old who leaves the baby at home and goes to prom. and you will be the one taking the high road by protecting your mothers best interest.

2007-01-15 16:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Zane S 2 · 0 0

Your mom is a willing participant in this situation, so don't feel sorry for her. And don't make things easier for any of them. Don't pick up the bf from work, don't drive him around, don't drive your mom around as long as she has these two living with her who could do this for her. Tell your mom she needs to go to the doctor and get her depression treated.

2007-01-15 23:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0 1

I fell really sorry for your mom.
Your sister isn't very cooperative. Since she is living with your mom, she should also care for her.
Let your sister know how you feel

2007-01-15 23:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dancer101 4 · 0 0

mann., i would be so mad lol. well i understand feeling bad for your mom because shes just trying to do best for her child. but you gotta talk to your sister and set some **** straight because she cant just keep taking advantage of you and your mom !

2007-01-15 23:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by nicole t 2 · 0 0

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