UGH! I HATE Mary.
Who is Mary?
She's my mother, that's who she is.
I hate my dad the same amount but he's not important now.
Well, I've had to take her crap every day.
Every day for fourteen years.
Today was the end of the line.
I had a project to do.
I leave it for a moment.
I come back, she's doing it.
She says, "whats your problem im doing all the work."
I didn't even ask for help!
I finish it
she tells me im too dumb, it wont work
IT WORKS
she's like "yea, watever." and gets into the usual
"i hate you"
"you were a mistake"
"why cant you be like jane and sam (my siblings) they're so much better than you are"
"you're a f#$%king idiot."
etcetera.
and then she calls my dad and whines that i said those things
my dad calls me a liar cause i said she was being reverse
and i hate them both
this is every day for me
i cant take it anymore
what can i do?!
2007-01-15 08:34:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i know this might sound like the last thing that you want to do.
but just sit them down in a room lock the door and talk it out with them
i had the same situation that you were in a couple of days ago
and i ran away and just went for a walk.
then when i came back they didn't even notice that i was gone
so i barged into their room and locked the door.
and i started to talk calmly with them like i was their age
i gave them time to speak and if they tried to talk while i was talking i just told them to wait their turn and be quiet
it all worked for the best
now they understand how i feel and i get why they treated me like they did
just talk to them
even if rigth now you hate their guts
2007-01-15 08:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by bomgirl4eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are things you can do. One would be to call child protective services and talk with a professional about the situation. There are resources available that might help you and your parents make peace. If nothing else, talk with a school counselor, minister, or priest and see if you can find counseling help.
BTW, you sound as though you are a great kid.
2007-01-15 08:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to someone about whats going on. Sitting back and hating them wont resolve anything but guilt if one of them was to get in a car accident or something bad and die. I am not wishing that on them but they love you and you have to realize that. They care about you weather they show it or not they do. Just try to talk it out. If it dont work go stay with ur grandparents or aunt or someone. Thats what i did and it worked.
2007-01-15 08:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by Caraaa. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a school counselor, and start saving money to move out when you turn 18.
2007-01-15 08:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anne-Arky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, that's child abuse. Ask your grandparents or any other family members for help or talk to school counselor. Are you her daughter? I'm wondering.
xoxoxo
2007-01-15 09:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey how old are you? no one should speak to anyone like that, get some help, is there any other family you can live with? friends? talk to a councellor or someone
2007-01-15 08:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a guidence coluncilar to help. Thats what those people are there for.
2007-01-15 09:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to calm her down and just talk to her. about anything you don't like about her or how she acts. and tell your dad you weren't lying at all.
2007-01-15 08:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋