Family & Relationships - 19 December 2007

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Link explains situation. After all that and really trying to just be over it i cant seem to stop thinking about it. Is it normal to still want to run back and be with her even after what she did. I know i should just be over it because its completly wrong what she did to me and i understand that, it really hurt.. its just i still dont understand why she would do that to me and i feel maybe, just maybe she will change and not hurt me again. despite that at the same time i feel if she really loved me she wouldnt have done that to me.. especially after the past few years we have been together we havnt had many problems. I miss her but think maybe its just going to take time and i will realize eventually that it is not in my best interest to be with her..I guess my question is, is it normal to want to run back and try again?

2007-12-19 10:16:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you become what you wanted?

2007-12-19 10:15:55 · 52 answers · asked by gods_beauty1978 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife asked me, I said ten was a good number?!?!?!?!?

2007-12-19 10:14:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have two best friends, which I can now see isn't the best thing in the world. My one friend, Let's call her Maggie, and I have been friends for about four years. In fifth grade me and "Maggie" met my other best friend, let's call her Julie. Well ever since last year "Maggie" has been almost obsessed with "Julie" every single day it's, "do you know where julie is? were you talking to her last night?" and on and on. one day me and julie were out sick and i was texting my friend and maggie was with her so she takes the phone and says "is julie ok?" closely followed by "are you with her?" she's constantly thinking i'm with julie instead of her. and recently it's been annoying. she doesn't seem to care about me at all and she makes me feel like crap. she's an airhead so you cant just not talk to her and expect her to know what she did like other people, she needs you to spell it out for her. what should i do?

2007-12-19 10:13:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A few weeks ago my mum said she does not know what she is doing for xmas, Usually she goes out to dinner with my nan and grandad But for some unknown reason they have not planned anything and not spoken atall about it, I said If its ok with my hubby maybe they could all come round mine for xmas dinner as long as I speak to him first, Well hubby said no as he would like time with his family Ie me and kids(As he works very hard) So would like time with us, All of a sudden my mother had found somewhere for her to go and could not give two hoots about my nan and grandad even though they have been going out to dinner as long as I can remember, My husband this week then really felt sorry for my grandparents who are 87 years old and have now invited them which I did not no I told my mum she got nasty on phone 3 days ago I told her to F off I know I shouldnt of and we slammed phone down on each other, So now we have not spoken in 3 days, Am I in wrong

2007-12-19 10:11:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-19 10:05:14 · 42 answers · asked by leo 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend and he likes me but he knows i have a bf the thing is that he came to my college and he came an visited me and well hes like how u been well i was in the car with him we catched up with things and out of the blue he kissed me and well i pushed him an i told him why i have a bf and hes like i like you and you know that. So now i feel bad because i dont feel comfortable because i havent told my bf and i just feel like a mess my question to you is do i or do i not tell my boyfriend that my friend kissed me? Do you think it is the right thing to do or not?

2007-12-19 10:05:14 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently bought a house. My boyfriend is Married. He's been separated for 25 year though. The house is totally in my name. He has no credit. but he did give some money as a "down payment" and has done some work fixing up the place. He has told his family that he just bought a house. my question is do u think his family has any recourse if my boyfriend were to pass away or anything? Maybe this is a dumb question, but it is a concern of mine! My boyfriend has already sucked the life out of me and I want out of the relationship now. I wonder what recourses he himself has if his name isn't on the house?

2007-12-19 10:04:23 · 11 answers · asked by cammi159 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so my husband has problems with his temper and I don't know what to do. I got in a car accident about 6 months ago and haven't been able to work since then. He has a good job but we have more bills then we can pay. He has told me that I don't have to get a job yet and I even tried to a few times and he told me NO! I was not to get a job yet and to wait until after Christmas. His temper gets the best of him most of the time. I don't do anything wrong I clean the house and cook for him everyday. I'm trying to get a job now. I went a few days ago and filled out 3 job applications and I have a appointment with a lady to help me get a job tomorrow but for the past few days he's been really angry with me. He wakes up and starts yelling. He calls me names and makes me feel like I'm worthless. I cant take it anymore I cant stand crying all the time. Getting mad fun of ridculed and called worthless, pathetic, whore, *****, lazy, fat, slobb. I'm so confused.

2007-12-19 10:04:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 14 and my gurl is 13 and we have a 9 month old son together and throughout the week we each take turns watching him so well for the past 2 and a half weeks i been watching him more than usual i already gave the little speech that hes both of ours but nothings getting through i told her that she needs to start acting like hes both of ours and for maybe about a day or two she was taking care of him more but now shes gone back to leaving him with me most of the week, like now hes at my house and she is at her house im getting real frustrated what else can i tell her so she can be more involved.

2007-12-19 10:02:34 · 1 answers · asked by BSL Fighter 3 in Singles & Dating

When your talking to a guy you like, and you approve of him, do you take out your cellphone, to give him a sign to ask you for your number, or to exchange information?...eventhough your both still engaged in the conversation?

So your both talking, great conversation, blah blah blah, you take out your phone, place it really high at your eye level, act like your doing something on it, but still chatting it up with him, and interested to do so.

And if so, what are hoping for him to say: "lets exchange numbers", "here take my number", or "hey let me get your number"?

2007-12-19 10:00:46 · 16 answers · asked by Mr.Riches 2 in Singles & Dating

I liked this guy fo so long,and finally my friend asked him out for me,He does not know, should i be brave and just ask him out?

2007-12-19 10:00:42 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i am nearly 19 and i am not really enjoing life are there things to do just for a bit of change

2007-12-19 09:57:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My x girlfriend and I have a 8 month old son and another on the way. She recently filed for full custody even though she has him all the time. I asked her why she would do that even though she has him all the time and she said its for security. She never wants me to see him. I really believe she has some kind of motivation for doing this. Whats the reason a woman would want to do this even though she has him all the time anyway?Whats the benifits for her? She said she wasnt gonna go for child support at the time but things are changing about that right now. I think shes really trying to screw me. Any advice?

2007-12-19 09:56:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok... so i jus got a new bf like on dec 12. i love him sooo.... much and everything but i am moving. he told me that he wasnt going to break up with me. and i said i wont break up with you either. but now that i am thinking about it i wont get to see him anymore and i will barely ever get to talk to him so i dont know wether or not to break up with him..... WAT SHOULD I DO??????

2007-12-19 09:52:37 · 33 answers · asked by Kaitlyn A 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is using meth,she has two children and doesnt take care of them.My parents that care of her daughter and her son stays with his father,they both have different fathers.Anyways My family and I have tryed everything to try and get her help.She never goes through with anything.We tryed putting her in treatment but she just sighs herself out. Anyone know what else we could try.Please help before it's too late!

2007-12-19 09:52:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok hers a question for guys. why are guys so fickle? i like this guy alot and he liked me alot to but yesterday he was like i dont like you anymore i like some of your friends???? whats goin on do you think

2007-12-19 09:50:56 · 1 answers · asked by Grace 1 in Singles & Dating

He's not shy arouund me, he seems interested in me when we're together in person but not over the phone. Today he was supposed to meet me sumwhere and when i got there he wasnt there. I called him and he said he was sick and at home. I just hung up. what do i do? all his friends are "attached" to their girlfriends. But he doesnt show the same interest in me as i do to him. It feels like im the only one trying to communicate.

2007-12-19 09:50:47 · 1 answers · asked by kwconk 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so my really good guy friend told me a longg time ago that he liked me i didnt feel the same at first but now i do. and i like him alot. but i dont know how to tell him.. like do i just come out and say it? or do i hint around it? or do i start a random convo and lead up to it? or what?!?! help?!

2007-12-19 09:48:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 09:48:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems to me that the spouse that is with-holding sex is creating the potential for their spouse to look else where.
It seems only logical that eventually the neglected spouse would look else where.
So by causing the problem does the same spouse deserve the outcome?

2007-12-19 09:44:42 · 26 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

does it matter what letters are used when MSG can be understood? Tks any ....will get back to all friendly answers soon

2007-12-19 09:43:32 · 13 answers · asked by London.G. boy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mum moved in with her boyfriend properly over a year ago.
She's with him everyday, they're always going on holiday's and spending time with HIS family.
Im never invited.
This year my mum, her boyfriend, his parents and his son went to spain.
I wasn't invited.
I got my own little holiday with my mum but she said i couldnt go with them because im too much 'trouble'.

Anywayz she said that she's going to come home for christmas. She's going to come on christmas eve and leave at 2 on christmas day to spend time with her boyfriends family because he's her partner and they do things together.
I said to her that shes going to come here then go there for a proper christmas, and she said that its not a proper christmas coz they're jewish.
And i said, so stay with us (me and my dad) coz we're catholic and do celebrate it..and she just mumbled stuff and walked out of the room.
She's always said if i want her to come home ask but ive asked and she hasnt.
She has a new life now.

2007-12-19 09:39:48 · 6 answers · asked by nemo! 1 in Family

I've been with my bf for 5 months now,we are meant to be spending xmas together,but i cant get over the fact he dumped me for 5 days then he got back together with me like nothing happened and it didnt matter,he said he was confused and it wont happen again but i cant forget this,if he was so happy why dump me to begin with?i also feel he's playing mind games with me,it's the worst thing you can do to someone,my ex did this,one minute he talks about our future plans and the next about his job abroad(wont see him for months at a time),i feel like he's just hanging on to me so he can have as much sex as he can before he goes away,should i get revenge and dump him on xmas?he is also possessive and controlling,is this any indocation that he 'might' love me?

2007-12-19 09:39:01 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. Jamie Claytor: A gorgeous 16 year old with green eyes and a great smile. He makes B's in most of his classes, has a new car, but is BISEXUAL.

2. Trey Holtclow: An equally gorgeous boy who is 17, has clear blue eyes and black hair. He is very funny but really country and is known for wanting to have sex with as many girls as possible.

Of these two, who should I date? I like them equally but they both have a HUGE flaw?

2007-12-19 09:37:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i apologize for this?
i'm in deep crap right now.

2007-12-19 09:36:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

sometimes i feel like having another woman on the side because of my sex life. me and my wife dont have sex like we use too. she dont let me do the things i love to do to her anymore is that normal

2007-12-19 09:36:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got engaged 9 months ago and my family (with the exception of my mom) doesn't even know it yet. The reason I've chosen not to announce this is that my sister hates my fiancee. I've discussed this with her and she simply gets fuming mad and says it's because I love her (my fiancee) more than my family and that she causes me to miss family functions. Before this tension arose I never did miss a family function but there were a couple times that I left ealry with my fiancee because she was getting very homesick and felt like she was going to cry, she was embarrassed. Her family lives almost 1500 miles away and she gets homesick, especially when she's around another family enjoying their time together. Since my sister and I have "talked" I have skipped some family events to avoid the discomfort but I'm really in a lose-lose situation here. If I skip a family funtion my family gets a little offended (and my sister get's ammunition) and my fiancee also gets upset because she feels she's

2007-12-19 09:34:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So I'm at a bar with a few friends, and I decide to go hit on a chick, she's a little heavy and not the most attractive thing, but I had a nice buzz going and I figured what the heck. Anyway she was digging me and agreed to take me back to her place but my female friend from work talked me out of leaving with her. She told me that I was too good for that girl and basically told me that I would regret it in the morning. She made me feel like I was doing something wrong so I didn't go home with the heavy girl. Why did my friend do this? There were no other cute chicks in the bar. None of my guy friends would ever talk me out of nailing a chick regardless of her condition.

2007-12-19 09:32:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i told him i liked her, and he just started talking to her and now hes hitting on her. hes the "player" type thats always chasing sex, and olny wants to "get some" of this girl. but i just want her as a girlfriend and a long lasting realtionship and take things slow. but cause hes the player type he knows what to do and what to say.im just shy and hes telling her lies about me so she wont like me, and i think she belives them too!!so now what do i do? and about her? about my stupid friend? (i hate player all they are r c*cblockers

2007-12-19 09:31:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating