Family & Relationships - 19 December 2007

but if he was a black man it would make front page news as an unprovoked racial attack , white or black u get the same in certain circumstances , agree

2007-12-19 12:18:01 · 19 answers · asked by Blatant 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he has liked me fore like 3 years and i cant help that i dont like him in that way and he was like i need a yes or no rite now so i said no cuz i couldnt lead him on if i kinda like him but then he got really mad and our friendship is like ruined and he is like amazing and i love him as a friends sooooooo much

2007-12-19 12:13:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not the person that checks my husbands phone i trusted him and he went out and i was ok with it but things change lately, he came from work and showed me a text message it was something funny but accidentally i press the wrong buttom and i open another text message from a number with no name their conversation was about them meeting up and stuff he also wrotte in a massage if you need a stress realiver call me so when can remeber the old days dtf i dont know what those enitials mean well i ask him about those messages and he got really mad saying why are you going tru my phone i answer him sayin i was looking at the message you showed me and accidentally i open another one he told me it was hes friend a guy and that they where just messing around but i dint buy that story so i called that number and a girl answer and she told me hes been hiting on her and stuff but then my husband deconected my phone and she couldnt tell me more what do you thing

2007-12-19 12:10:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My partner and i broke up 4 weeks ago, she said she doesn't know how she feels anymore and felt she had to break up with me because she didn't want to string me along if her heart wasn't in it. We had been together for four years, she is 20 i am 24.
I found out yesterday through her mother that she out of the blue told her mother she is frightened of marriage, having children and getting old!
Could this be a possible reason why she felt she had to break up with me?
We had discused marriage but we both felt that was at least 2 to 3 years away.

2007-12-19 12:09:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is posing nude for magazines, such as Play Boy, immoral? Some believe that exposing your naked body to others is the same as prostitution, though there is no sex. Your selling yourself as a sex object, thus prostituting yourself to the public. Others would disagree and say that it is not immoral. What is everyone's opinion on this subject? Is it moral or immoral?

2007-12-19 12:08:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know what I should bring with me. My boyfriends having his family over for lunch/dinner and Im meeting his parents and a few of his aunts/uncles for the first time so Im extremely nervous, even though I know I shouldnt be. I want to know what I should bring with me that looks nice? A dessert platter? I was gonna bring wine but my boyfriend said none of them drink. :-(

Also,as dumb as this sounds,Im really nervous about conversation...Im scared Im gonna lock up and become overly shy. What can I say during conversation that can keep it moving smoothly and get them (and myself) to engage more openly?

PLEASE HELP!!!! Im stressing b/c this means a lot to me and I want them to like me. Please only offer me nice/helpful advise. Thank you.

2007-12-19 12:07:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok
im 15 and really in love with this boy.(doont say im not because 1. you d0ont know us and 2. you can fall in love at any age!)
BUT... i have no idea what to get him for his birthday, weve been goin out coming up about a year now (with breaks) and like hes been my first boyfriend that ive actually liked!. i know what he's got me for xmas. and iv already got him his xmas present. but i have no idea what to get him for his 16 birthday(its in march, i know i have tons of time. but i want to save up and know for definate). do you have any idea's? and even if we arent goin out by march il still spend the same amount because we are best friends and iv had a tough year this year and i really want to thank him (my spending limit is £150) oh and by the way. please dont say anything to do with sex, because im not losing my virginity before im at least 17.(if he really loved me then he would wait!) and i dont see that as a present anyway. so nothing kinky ok ? thankyou

2007-12-19 12:06:33 · 12 answers · asked by coralmoriarty@btinternet.com 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay here is my problem, my bestfriend is a boy, but i've known him since i was born! Okay, i have a crush on him, but i don't want to tell him because i'm affraid of what he will think of me! I don't want him to never speak to me again and i don't want to be all akward around him! What if i tell him i love him but he doesn't love me back?! OMG i need help!

2007-12-19 12:06:04 · 4 answers · asked by Dev:) 3 in Singles & Dating

say one of your sisters is 19 and is getting married to a guy who is 40 with 4 kids and the guy is a cop and he has already gotten married once and all the kids were the ex-wifes and none were hers and they are going to try to have a baby in the near futuredo you approve or disapprove??? im not sure so please answer with your best knowledge!!!

2007-12-19 12:01:54 · 24 answers · asked by SurferChick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I talked to my husband before i bought airplane tickets to go on a weekend trip to see a girlfriend for her birthday, i asked him if he wanted to go even tho i knew that he would not be able to get off work, but still wanted to ask, and now he is upset because he cant go and thinks its not fair that im going without him even tho i asked him before! am i in the wrong?

2007-12-19 11:58:51 · 26 answers · asked by ~*kjzge*~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 11:57:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She came over to our apartment to visit him while I was out for the day and later the next day he mentioned that she had watered my ficus because it was dry. I told him that I had rescued it from my mother who was overwatering it and that it has been doing just fine on my watering schedule for over a year. It's leaves fall off and the soil gets a mold on it if it gets too much water. He said that she use to have ficuses and knows what she is doing, but that was when she lived in the desert and she has now moved to a much different climate and has killed a few of her own plants I might add.
I don't mean to sound like a psycho plant owner or someone who wants to create drama but she is (in my opinion) very overbearing and tries to take over in my house. When she first moved here she turned up the chill in my fridge and everything froze. Our food hadn't been spoiling, she just always thinks she knows better than me. I need feedback, good or bad. Advice, you can even insult me just say it

2007-12-19 11:56:32 · 16 answers · asked by BLANK 4 in Family

I have been housing a family of 4 for the last 4 years. I was okay at the beginning but now I want my space. Now, they have invited a lady with a child to move in as well. They have been like a family and I have been extremely patient. They began building a house which they have mentioned it is ready for them to move in. Their problem now is that they opened a business and they are again struggling financially. They were discussing renting their new home to help themselves financially. I am about to explode.

2007-12-19 11:56:04 · 8 answers · asked by Louder than Words 1 in Family

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2007-12-19 11:55:59 · 15 answers · asked by KENNETH G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she think i am a stalker when i am not...wat should i do?

2007-12-19 11:49:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 11:47:27 · 23 answers · asked by eleni e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 11:46:03 · 20 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Weddings

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2007-12-19 11:44:34 · 21 answers · asked by import guy 4 in Singles & Dating

Should i tell my crush that i like him?
I have already asked if he had a g/f and he said no and that he decided not to date until after highschool because relationships bring drama.

2007-12-19 11:42:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy who i am kinda seeing says he really likes me, but he is going to washington to see a friend, of his he has known for a long time, to see if there is anything there(romanticaly). Is it wrong of me to be upset and worried and what do i tell him! He already asked me to marry him

2007-12-19 11:40:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ar all only children spoiled and/or selfish, or just lonely.

2007-12-19 11:37:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hello.
My ex-husband and I divorced in November of 2006. I found out He cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend from High School before and after he was deployed to Afghanistan (we were married then). That's why we divorced. He is now married to her (married her in January after our divorce).

I got a Christmas card from them this year.

They were doing it to be spiteful, I know.... and, it's got HER written all over it. She's one of those Redneck bitches that thinks she got one over on me by "stealing my man."

Has that ever happened to any of you???? Just curious if there are more braison people in the world like that.

I coulda beat the crap outta both of 'em, by the way!

Oh, p.s.... they sent one to my parents too!!! Believe that???

2007-12-19 11:36:34 · 29 answers · asked by Impavidsoul 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Or a different politicial view? I would but we could'nt talk about that stuff...

2007-12-19 11:35:23 · 25 answers · asked by Far Beyond Driven 7 in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-19 11:32:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think there is no reason to get involved or hook up with someone if you dont or cant see yourself possibly being with that person for the rest of your life?

Is there no point of doing those summer crushes, when you know it will end as soon as the summer is over? Or getting with someone just for highschool only, when you both know yall wont be together when yall graduate?

2007-12-19 11:31:50 · 8 answers · asked by bacdafuxup 3 in Singles & Dating

No one goes to jail for having an affair, so by not having punishments for having affairs aren't we as a society saying affairs are acceptable?

2007-12-19 11:30:57 · 30 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 11:29:39 · 14 answers · asked by T Belle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So, every morning (December only) my wife wakes up, takes my truck to the coffee stand, gets me coffee, and brings it home. This way, I get my morning coffee, and my truck warmed up (it's single digits where we live). This morning, as I was getting ready to leave, she told me that my truck wasn't warmed up yet. I said "You walked 2 miles to get me coffee"? Obviously, there was no coffee ready for me either, but she thinks my remark was insensitive. Any thoughts.

2007-12-19 11:29:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He said I was attractive, but then we hooked up and things changed.?
So I hooked up with a guy. A friend, not very close. and we didnt go all the way. Okay?
Lets say because he had difficulties. Now he does not try to hook up anymore, and it's all akward. What is the situation. Him or me I am still attracted to him, but dont want to ask to hook up, if he's not into it. I am going to a concert with him and our friends next week, and I dont know how to act! I feel self conscious. He is also recently divorce and 14 years older than me. I like him a lot I hope us hooking up the 1st time didn'tmake him think different of me. I told him afterwaards Im not usually like that. Which is true.

I dont know why he wouldn't want me anymore . He seems to be hooking up w/ other girls my age and posts pictures of himself on myspace with girls that look plain trashy!

2007-12-19 11:26:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-19 11:26:27 · 4 answers · asked by kelsi~ 4 in Singles & Dating