Okay here is my problem, my bestfriend is a boy, but i've known him since i was born! Okay, i have a crush on him, but i don't want to tell him because i'm affraid of what he will think of me! I don't want him to never speak to me again and i don't want to be all akward around him! What if i tell him i love him but he doesn't love me back?! OMG i need help!
2007-12-19 12:06:04 · 4 answers · asked by Dev:) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, i've read your emails and the truth is, that i can't wait any longer, ive known him since be4 i was born! I really like him, and i don't want to scare him off! I like to hear oppinions, but i'm confused on what he will think of me later!
2007-12-19 13:01:47 · update #1
Well, don't tell him you "love" him right off the bat - that is a very strong word, and it increases the potential for awkwardness if he doesn't like you the same way. You can approach the issue by saying that you think you are developing stronger feelings for him than just friendship - and see how he reacts. If it's not reciprocated, then you haven't said too much, and you could better retain the friendship. Good luck!
2007-12-19 12:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say you love him, it will scare him off. Just say your kinda sweet on him but still need his friendship & see what happens. Your life doesnt end if your rejected, dont worry just do it like your pullin off a band-aid.
2007-12-19 20:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by Robert T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really is your best friend,then it wont change things.If things take a turn for the worst then you don't need a friend like him,anyways.
2007-12-19 20:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by CC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was your true best friend, then it won't change, but if he wasn't, then he was a wrong guy to choose as a best friend.
-JakeR'sGirl4Eever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-19 20:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋