Family & Relationships - 19 December 2007

2007-12-19 13:00:30 · 22 answers · asked by jaie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so i know i just asked thisi need better answers:
0k i just need an opinion or advice r w/e. so im dating this guy hes a sophmore and im a freshmen[high school]. http://i167.photobucket.com/albums/u123/nboyce14/Picture002.jpg
well heres the dilemma, we were in the mall, and then this guy who i didnt know asks for my number and then my bf starts getting pissed, and then tells the guy to like backk off[ i know hes so lame] but the guy starts laughing and walkks away. so then we see the guy in some store called holister?? i thinkk, w/e but then my bf starts trying to like make-out with me[in front of the guy]! [in front of everybody] keep in mind were in a store and im the only blackk person in there. ppl r staring and whispering or w.e, and he got mad at me! for pulling away!! Did i do something wrong?? this is me btw-http://i167.photobucket.com/albums/u123/nboyce14/mmkay.jpg
[[but before u put ur 2 cents in put urself in my shoes]]

2007-12-19 12:59:55 · 7 answers · asked by Juicy Girl.♥♪ 4 in Singles & Dating

We spent thanksgiving together.
Been dating just over a month.

2007-12-19 12:57:33 · 30 answers · asked by ♥Ashley K. 5 in Singles & Dating

we married one year, before that we dated one year. some times i felt love her but now i don't. during that time, i said "I love you" few times but She never said anything. I just confronted her, i asked "do you love me?" after few seconds she said "yes, don't you see that!". she didn't say directly she loved me.

I doubt she doesn't love me. but beside that, she's so jealous, she's so selfish, she just want me around her all the time.

i really want to know she love me or not?

2007-12-19 12:57:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so my ex broke up withh me in like july b/c i supposidly cheated on him by kissing another guy... well w.e it wasnt true his jealous friends just made it up but there was some truth in the fact that i hung out with other people b/c he was always preoccupied with his video games , like hard core obessed. Besides that he desides he dosent want a gf cus i interfer with his gaming and such, but i still really liked him up until recent and i still do ALOT i ignore him tho completly ignore i aviod him b.c being around him is to hard, and he does the exact same to me ignores me and such anyways i though hes moved on dosent care whatever and than his friend was all like last week "you still love so and so" and i was wtf and hes all "at least he still gets hard when he sees you" like so i dont understand.. cus he still ignores me ? i realli like him what should i do talk to him or continue ignoring him.

2007-12-19 12:55:33 · 4 answers · asked by sixxss 5 in Singles & Dating

So for those of you that didn't see my last question theres this guy in one of classes i want to give a card to before christmas break, and i have a giftcard and i wrote merry christmas and stuff like that, do you think i should give him my email to if he wants to talk? I don't really know him all that well, and i don't know if that would be to awkward or to much, should i just leave it at the gift card? thanks!

2007-12-19 12:55:02 · 35 answers · asked by Midnight-Expressman 2 in Singles & Dating

someone whos liked you for 4 years wrote you a letter expressing their feelings but had your sister give it to you?

2007-12-19 12:53:40 · 12 answers · asked by Baby<3Britt 4 in Singles & Dating

she think i am a stalker when i am not...wat should i do?

i don't follow her anywhere, all i wrote was one poem that said the following:

hair of gold, eyes of blue
please forgive me, cuz i love you

i know this gurl from school and i directly gave it to her and asked "wat do you think" and now she calls me a stalker

2007-12-19 12:53:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you can't get a person out of your head....they are there for a reason???

2007-12-19 12:51:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my freaking brother is going on one of his 'alone and unloved' rampages. how can i convince a 11-year-old, freckled, red haired, ah-dorable(he doesnt agree) kid that there is hope in life and he WILL get a girlfriend?

2007-12-19 12:50:47 · 5 answers · asked by blackfaerieprincess 1 in Family

I dnt no wht to do!!!!! im in love with my ex and he is in love with me. we are really good friends with benifts... but we just dont date because when we are together all we do is argue. me and him broke up in april and im still not completly over him. but over the summer i met this one boy an we have been talkin 4 a while. im starting to like him a lot but im still in love with my ex.. I dnt no wht to do.he really likes me an we are always together!!! i love him but im not in love with him!! he knows that im still in love with my ex...but doesnt care!! im really confused because my heart is telling me to be with him but my fait is still with my ex!! wht should i do?? i mean he really treats me right...he's sexy as HELL... my mom likes him..i like him lol!!! its just my ex holding me back 4rm fallin in love with him!!! so i need some advise on wht i should do thanks!!!

2007-12-19 12:48:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, so we've been dating for a couple of months.
He goes partying alot with his older friends and gets drunk nearly every weekend.
Which i already hate, but you know. it's his life kind of thing.
But today he told me that a few weeks ago he smoked marijuana.
Then he said that he really regrets it but he was drunk at the time.
like that was an excuse or something.
i don't know what to do, please. any advice would be really appreciated, cos i'm seeing him tonight and i don't even know what to say, or avoid it or something. i'm confused...

2007-12-19 12:47:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a girlfriend and she is still married. we don't have a child but we're planning to if things go smoothly. i mean if there's no more circumstances!

2007-12-19 12:47:41 · 13 answers · asked by shipmeks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for nearly four years now... a few weeks back he admitted to me that he's attracted to a close friend of ours... but nothing has ever happened or will happen... but that admission broke my heart... I offered to bow out gracefully... but he begged me to stay with him... said that he loves me... and the attraction to the friend is mostly physical... he wants to be with me... I know he can't really help the physical attraction... but I'm still hurt and am still upset about it... and I don't know how to make myself feel better... I know that he's not cheating on me... I know the friend would never allow it... she has a rule about married people in general... so that's not a problem... but I keep finding myself sniping at him... because I'm still really hurt... how do I make this thing go away? He feels I'm pushing him away... and I don't want to do that... but I can't seem to help myself... What should I do?

2007-12-19 12:47:21 · 10 answers · asked by dj.hatchytt 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Me n my mother we live in different town..we have jut got seperated because she has to help with some family work,,,
and Today is her birthday.. she called me in the morning while i was walking into the office.. Firstly, i have disappointed her on the phone by telling her that i will be taking a shorter period of vacation leave..which means.. she'll have to wait a little longer to get to meet me..and then.. after telling her about the vacation leave.. i told her... okie mom, i'll talk to you later... she was surprised and asked me do you remember what day it is today...i said..wait let me check the date...and then it clicked that its her birthday.. i am feeling soo sad.. i've been thinking about my friends, parties..and some other things that i forget her birthday..im sure, she was also feeling very sad but she didnt show it.
i can't meet her today..what do you i can do for her birthday when we are in different town? i am feeling so sad.i always end up hurting her..even on her b'day

2007-12-19 12:46:22 · 9 answers · asked by Bruu 2 in Family

2007-12-19 12:41:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 12:41:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it feels like my mother goes out of her way to not follow any rules i set for my 3 yr old daughter. i dont know what her problem is, other than being a passive-aggressive control freak, but i'm ready to tell her off, again. help?

2007-12-19 12:41:52 · 5 answers · asked by herbmom 2 in Family

Ok, my now ex-best friend I think is telling my crush horrible things about me! Ok, me and her had a HUGE fight. And it was on Friday, so back on Monday. She acted like nothing happened. But then during the ONLY class I have with my crush. He completly ignored me. It just so happened right before then, he had a class with my ex-friend. And Ever since then my crush has been almost completly ignoring me! We are in Middle School, and my ex-friend knows I like my crush, but my crush has no idea . And if I go to the Guidance Conslur about my ex-friend (yes, we've been to her MANY MANY times trying to work this out). And she says that if this happens again she will talk about swithing teams! Bu I don't want to, I love my team. Would you think my ex-friend caused this? What could she be saying? How do I fix things with my crush?

2007-12-19 12:41:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v241/Roses_Butterfly/HeadShot-1.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v241/Roses_Butterfly/Me1.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v241/Roses_Butterfly/Formal3.jpg

What do you think?? Out of 10... any advice??

2007-12-19 12:36:57 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad lovveesss internet poker, and loves internet billiards.
It used to be that he would win, lose, win lose, and he wouldn't care *too much* about it. However, this past year it's been getting worse and worse with his temper.
For example, if someone wins a hand where he thought he was sure to, he'd burst out cussing and hit the table with his hand. This is getting more frequent, and once he even punched the laptop, causing the screen to crack in half and had to get a new one.
Sometimes I'm terrified that he's gonna accidentally hit one of us if we talk to him right after he loses a hand. I asked him once about a college i was considering and he starting swearing off a line of colorful words, telling me to leave him alone.

Idk. This isn't really a question. More like a rant. So just bear with me. Ha.

2007-12-19 12:36:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

there's this guy i'm seeing....he's very nice, sweet, and very very talkative....lol....anyways, i'm a very shy, quiet kind of a gal...i don't talk much...anyways, he always want to talk to me and stuff.....and my response is always a dorky smile...lol.....i feel so shy when i'm with him....i feel like i can't open up to him....what should i do ???

my life is boring as hell....nothing really to know about me....

help!!!

2007-12-19 12:35:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy. ive only talked to him once but im already hooked. i sent him an email and am waiting for a reply. i want to hang out with him or go to the movies in a couple weeks. do you think if i kissed him during the movie it'd be "too soon" since i would only have been talking to him for a few weeks?

2007-12-19 12:35:37 · 7 answers · asked by Lexasaur 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 12:34:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They call each other bi(ches and are more critical/judgemental of each other. When the guy cheats, the woman automatically blames the other woman. What if the women didnt know? If you didnt notice, guys like to lie to get sex.
Many women dress don't even dress for men, they dress to compete with each other. You know who you are.
If women dont respect each other then how can we expect respect from men? Is this an example of divide and conquer?

2007-12-19 12:31:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ever since i had my second child my body is not the same-i love my man and we have a good marriage however-where physical connections are concerned, i can not "get there" like I did in the past. (but I can when Im solo) Afew times we tried to discuss it but it was akward and it didnt help. So, for the past 2 yrs Ive just been faking it. I still like it and i still want it but, I guess I dont want to go the rest of my life this way, but on the other hand, I'd rather just deal with it than have it become a problem. What should I do? Fess up or let sleeping dogs lie?

2007-12-19 12:31:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey. So, obviously its Christmas time. And last year, in my first year of middle school, I made a bunch of unforgettable friends. I wanted to get them all small presents, like earrings, hair bands, candy canes, and lip-gloss. Just to show I care (major sale on the earrings, they weren’t expensive) and my moms being so horrible about it!! I’ve saved up more than a couple thousand dollars in birthday, Christmas, Easter, etc. money. Its ALL MINE but she’s acting like such a, dare I say it, *****. I just wanted to get them small things. They're my friends! I wouldn’t be here without them; I would have run away by now. And my mom shook her head and I was like "What?" and she's like "Well, you're turning out like Sheila (my aunt, her sister) she used to spend a fortune (what I’m spending isn’t a fortune!) on other people." Normally, I would find that a compliment, seeing as it says I’m generous, but my aunt lived with her mom for like 45 years, got fired from a crappy job, and can’t quit smoking. And I was like “Thanks mom, you’re telling me I’m going to grow up like her ( I mentioned all the stuff about the job, smoking, etc.) and my mom was like “Well you are.” She’s so horrible. I just want to be nice to people, make them happy. Its MY money I want to spend, NOT HERS. That money is from all the years of birthdays I gave up my presents by saving money in the bank. I don’t understand. I just want to make this holiday special for the people I care about.

2007-12-19 12:24:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He's into cars, motorbikes (motoX), BMX etc... Last year we got him a selection of 'Hot Wheels' cars. I can spend up to ?10 at the very most. Any suggestions welcome, Thanks, Bev

2007-12-19 12:23:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when my dad is at work i take care of my lil bro and sis (Im 17 in a month and a half)....but there's this guy that stays with us right now cuz his mom is away and there's no1 at his house (so theres no food or whatever right nw)...hes like 18/19 and he works but all he ever does is sit around the house and eat THEN SLEEP and its like the place is SO dirty and he never even THINKS 2 clean up..he leaves his dishes anywhere in the house and sits on the couch and play ps2 and watch tv ALL day!!....he hasnt been goin 2 work lately so hes been in the house like 3 days STRAIGHT now...and the house ALWAYS as i left it cuz i have college and i come late and i have homework, have to take care of my siblings AND keep the place clean..but he's not helping...hes just EATING OUR FOOD!! and sleeping....and he eats SO MUCH!!!!...and its irritating to see him eat cuz he doesnt do ANYTHING around here....what should i do?

2007-12-19 12:18:54 · 10 answers · asked by Heaven 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

explain.
-for me, i can say that i did have an easier time growing up. my parents had to raise their own food, such as chicken and vegetables. also, they didn't have a lot of money.

2007-12-19 12:18:17 · 30 answers · asked by kaycee 3 in Family