We spent thanksgiving together.
Been dating just over a month.
2007-12-19 12:57:33 · 30 answers · asked by ♥Ashley K. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanksgiving is not that big of a deal when you compare it to Christmas. Spending christmas together is what couples who have been together for years do.
If you ask him to spend Christmas together, you are going to scare him. Save the Christmas bonding time for when you have been dating for a long time.
2007-12-19 13:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by revernance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you know someone who is familiar with Venezuela and have them take you about, you should be fine. But do not where any jewelry or expensive tennis shoes those are a hot commodity out there and you could end up being a target for a thief. if you speak Spanish that will be a plus. If you go be careful and make sure you try not to show any wealth. but do be fashionably dressed and always watch your back. Otherwise I really think you should not go. And also December months are very rainy in Venezuela. There are possibly resorts that you can go to that are safe but take caution and find a friend from there who can show you the safe places to go. I hope you do have a great time there if you go but do not where any jewelry at all. That and or designer shoes.
2016-05-25 02:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by julieta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just been dating a month?
Sweetie, don't worry about it!!!!
Maybe he just figures it's christmas time and you want time to spend with your family,
It's only been a month!!! Don't stress too much. Worrying about small things like this are use-less to be plain about it.
Try suggesting something like going out Christmas Eve together, having a nice dinner, or even the day after Christmas.. or talking to him about it.
But in my opinion it's not worth worrying about. Me and my BF were dating for 2yrs before we spent holidays together, Mainly because on holidays we both wanted to be with our family. But on Christmas Eve we were together that whole day/night.
2007-12-19 13:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by butterflygirl12392 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worried about what? This may be a sign that he is losing interest in the relationship; but that is not a bad thing. You should not try to prolong it if he really is not interested. However, being a male, he probably has not thought very far ahead - so he could be interested but just not proactive; or he could be very interested but just doesn't want to appear to eager. Maybe he is trying to plan something really special but just has not gotten it all arranged yet and he needs to get it arranged before asking. Maybe he has plans with his mom and doesn't want to bring you into a situation that would be embarrassing to him. And maybe it is something totally different, or maybe it is all the above.
2007-12-19 13:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by Math Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont be too worried. Bring up Christmas in a converstation and see where it gets you from there. Its only a little over a month and Christmas i a big holiday.
2007-12-19 13:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by LexiSexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you spent thanksgiving together -you just started dating maybe he doesn't celebrate Christmas. Chill.
2007-12-19 13:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be worried at all... I was dating my bf for over 2 years before we spent christmas together... we got each other presents and stuff but we didn't invite each other to family stuff... our second christmas we spent together and he got me a ring... this will be our 5th christmas together :D
2007-12-19 13:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by Tano A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've just started dating him and he already invited you to thanksgiving, which is fine. you don't to be smothered or smothering him if you spent christmas together. enjoy christmas day with your family and then CALL him, but don't go to him, to wish him merry christmas. Organise something for new years', maybe, and take things phone call by phone call. you got to ease into the relationship, not just go smack-bang into a full-blown rollercoaster relationship, ok?
2007-12-19 13:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by fire_mage21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are FEMALE...If so:
Ask him if he wants to chill with you for christmas.
Q: He hasn't asked me to spend Christmas with him--should I be worried?
A: No, men are less...asking in what they do and ask their christmas plans. if they are doing something as "Going to relatives" say Ok i was wondering if i could hang out with you on christmas because it would be the first christmas together!
=P go on their E_Strings(emotions)
2007-12-19 13:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how the relationship is going, maybe he is just scared, a month is still a really short time. if you haven't met his family yet that is a pretty big jump in a relationship so he might still be thinking it over. but if you have met his parents and he still hasn't asked you then you should pack your bags or ask him yourself!
2007-12-19 13:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋