Family & Relationships - 19 December 2007

ok here the thing...I met this girl named kelsie and I we became friends ... we started talking like all the time and I really started to like her ... so what happened is some guy asked her out and she said yes .. Sucks... so 2 months go by and they brake up. Now we really start talking and I star likening her even more now and she’s told me she likes me a lot now too. so what happens is I start talking to one of my friends Geoff, and I told Geoff I like her like couple weeks ago, so I’m talking to him and he tells me that he really like her to and I just wanted to see if its ok with you if I ask her out. So right now i'm like wtf. and for some reason I said yaw go ahead and stuff so he asked her and she messages me and is like did you know about this ... and i’m like ya and she’s like wow I never knew he like me .... That was that last thing I heired from her because she goes to sleep. I really think I never should have said yes to my friend. Was that stupid?

2007-12-19 14:51:47 · 8 answers · asked by Zach 2 in Singles & Dating

Especially a girl.

2007-12-19 14:49:33 · 3 answers · asked by Melanie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 14:49:04 · 4 answers · asked by theotherflapper 1 in Singles & Dating

The other night I was feeling down about some things and my boyfriend tried to cheer me up by telling me how much it hurt him to see me upset. He said how he wanted to be there for me in every way possible and make me happy. Then he said that being with me made him feel like a better person. But, but yet he's amazing already. I don't understand why just being together makes him feel that way. Sometimes when I compare myself to him, I just feel inadequate. Anyways, it was the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me. If you think that you can explain where he might be coming from, I'd really appreciate it ; ) ...maybe I'm just dense.

2007-12-19 14:48:59 · 5 answers · asked by BBZTEC 2 in Singles & Dating

hi,
i was seeing a boy for about 4 months, he wos my best friend for 2 years before this and we have gone out together in the past. we broke up because he wasnt very nice to me on the last night we were together. we started seeing eachother again for 2 weeks after we broke up and it was like we were together again, then he turned 18 and started not talking to me much or seeing me, this was about a week ago. the other night i called him and asked if he minded me seeing his mates as friends on saturday night and he got really angry at me told me he didnt like me anymore. yesterday i sent him a msg saying hes lost me and he will have no one to talk to now then he replied saying he will he has a new girl. then this morning he msgd me saying he doesnt have a new girl. why did he say he did in the first place? and what do you think is going on here? does he like me or is he over me? thank you

2007-12-19 14:48:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and i aren't getting along at all and he is now living with his mother we have many problems. My mother in law is having her traditional christmas gathering this year and im thinking of not going this year because he will be their and im very unhappy with the things he has been doing to me (nothing physical) should i not go so i can make a point that im very unhappy or should i go and endure the gathering although inside im dying because of his ways. we do have children together also.

2007-12-19 14:48:13 · 14 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I really do love all who care for the good of others. So this is a way of saying I love you very much. Really I do.

2007-12-19 14:47:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so i was talking to this guy on myspace who i really like and he gave me his number and told me to call him later tonight. But, at the same time, my bf told me to call him once he gets offline. I dont know who i should call, the guy that i like, or my bf... =/

2007-12-19 14:47:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WONDERING!!!

2007-12-19 14:47:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is a 10th grader. Im a 9th grader. I play varsity football and run track. She plays all sports and is a varsity cheerleader. She is talking to somebody from another school. She says she is just texting him and they are friends but about 4 months ago they broke up because he could not drive to come see her. Well, a few weeks ago they started talking and he just got his license. Im really worried because she almost left me for him and now she is still talking to him. I told him off but he still texts her and she texts him. He constantly hits on her over texts. I cant tell her to stop talking to him but it hurts me to know that she COULD be "talking" to him.

2007-12-19 14:46:56 · 45 answers · asked by ashtondude 1 in Singles & Dating

i have two kids and there dads wife thinks he should not hve to pay chlid support for them ,,, i have allready droped $40,000 in backpay that was owed to me to give him a new chance

2007-12-19 14:46:55 · 16 answers · asked by jennifer a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Harrison,

Give me 24 hours knowing that this is in your hands,and Ill regret this. I already feel sick to my stomach. =/
I want you to know that I think your amazing,and that out of all the guys in band,that your my favorite.Your my favorite for many different reasons,and the list could go on and on,but I wont do that.
Yea,today was a year since your car wreck =/ And Im really thankful to God that your still here.
2008's coming up soon.Really soon actually.And my 2008 resolution was to tell the guy who Ive liked since 6th grade that I like him.So,I like you.
Your graduating soon,and I dont want you to leave without knowing how I feel.Im guessing its pretty useless to tell you,but I had to let you know.
Now since you know how I feel,I hope you fail.Haha,no,but I hope you come back in July and help out with the marching band.I had trouble dealing with you leaving Middle School to go to High School,so I know Im not going to take it well once your off to college,so... =[
Well,you know I like you.And I hope you dont tell all your friends about the loser whos liked you since 6th grade.
But please Harrison,once May comes,and your no longer considered a Senior,come back. =[ I dont want you to leave.

-Me.


Does it sound alright?
Should I make any changes?
[Im having his little sister give it to him by the way.This makes it a bad idea huh?]

2007-12-19 14:46:37 · 34 answers · asked by Baby<3Britt 4 in Singles & Dating

I just got my first boyfriend and i'm in middle school. Here are just some sweet things hes done:

1. said i love you, but then he heard from someone it freaked me out a little so he hasnt said it since
2. made me a tiara out of paper hole re-enforcers and said i was a princess
3. said i was "cute when im angry" right in front of his friends after they said i was a freak for growling at them.
4. made me rings out of tin foil after he kept getting in trouble for it in class
5. keeps staring at me in all the classes we have together exept art where hes too busy showing off
6. let me decorate his hand with glitter pens and walked around school with it
7. kissed my hand when someone said i have ugly fingers (long story)
The point is, all ive responded to this with is being all sweet and smiling at him and stuff, flirting kinda all that but im shy.
i want to go ahead and kiss him already but im not sure what the right time would be or a good way to do it. & did i say i was shy?

2007-12-19 14:46:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always believed that when true love came into my life I was going to know. How? Simply by looking into that person’s eyes and feeling that tingly feeling in your stomach or simply by noticing that when you see that person nothing else matters. My whole life I lived with the idea that someday I would feel that way for somebody that someday I would have the urge to love someone and give them all of my heart. I went through middle school, high school thinking that by the time I graduated I would have at least found one person that would have swept me away and made me feel all that for him. Unfortunately, I am now in college and now that I have found someone who means everything to me, someone who makes my life so much more better and makes me feel butterflys just by thinking when I will see him again, is the person who doesn’t show me that he loves me, is the person that although he tells me that he loves me never seems to have enough time for me, is the person that makes me feel like

2007-12-19 14:45:20 · 13 answers · asked by tapatia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend of mine introduced me to a boy she knows because we have some of the same interests, and so he got my cell phone number from her. We live pretty far away from eachother so he texts me a lot, and recently he has started saying he likes how I'm "energetic," and even more recently said I remind him of a girl he is in love with. He's said "I love u" a few times...and I just don't know what to make of it...he said he loves that other girl, and he's not saying he likes me...yet he says he loves me...I'm not incredibly interested in him, but I want to know what to make of this whole thing....does he like me or what?

2007-12-19 14:45:20 · 8 answers · asked by Rinster 2 in Singles & Dating

My boss is going to write me and my co-worker up, we are the only ones on this shift, well today during first shift she went and told all of our other co-workers who work on first shift that she is going to write us up and continued to tell them what we did. Can she go around telling everyone what we did and that she is writing us up, i thought it was only supposed to be between the supervisor and the co-worker? What can i do?

2007-12-19 14:44:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has broken up with me because he "wants me to be happy" we were pretty good up till now and i knwo he wouldnt cheat. im not the omg he couldnt have dont that ....i jsut know he wouldnt :P thoughts and comments about the reason he broke up with me?

2007-12-19 14:43:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Problemed individuals with deep rooted pain who are also very gifted and talented.

2007-12-19 14:43:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've noticed in my church and society generally that men prefer blondes and not us brunnettes. And they aren't necessarily all that pretty. They are skinny but not pretty. What's with the ugly blonde skinny syndrome?

2007-12-19 14:41:56 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I invited a grade older girl to lunch with some friends a couple days ago. I like this girl and want her to go. She said she wanted to go but hasnt asked when and where. We were supposed to go tomorrow. Should i ask her again if she would like to go or just see if she responds.

Thanks

2007-12-19 14:41:48 · 4 answers · asked by ! 1 in Singles & Dating

im 17 years old and i see all my friends with their girlfriends and i want to experience what they experience i just want someone to love. And they do the same in return why and i wish that a doctor or something could tell me why i so damn obssessed with love.

2007-12-19 14:40:40 · 9 answers · asked by monroeg90 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to lots of women here. Happily married, Unhappily married, separated, divorced, widowed, single moms, independents women, single women and new weds. I personaly think that it is greener on the other side for some lucky people out there. The greener on the other side does not apply to everyone-everybody only certain people out there. I guess, its just the pure luck for some people. Some people have all the luck in the world and some don't have any luck at all in the marriage department. I guess this is just the way life is for certain people. So my question is "Is it greener for some people only!" -(Not eveyone!) Thanks guys.

2007-12-19 14:33:09 · 10 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 14:31:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this girl who is my friend soooo much!!!
we call each other a lot on the phone and can talk for hours..we IM each other for hours, and text a lot throughout the day. We hang out together (rarely alone) in school, but NEVER outside of school. i feel like a like her a lot more than she likes me. she says "i love u" in texts..but never in person. sometimes i get angry when she doesnt answer my texts or IM me..and I get really mad when she flirts with other guys. we arent going out..so is this weird?
how can i fix this???

2007-12-19 14:31:16 · 10 answers · asked by LT21 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad sucks, he wants nothing to do with me. I thought me not talking to him for a year would change him and make him want to see me, but ignoring is only making me upset. So what should i get him for xmas? Something not so nice, but legal, any suggestions? lol

2007-12-19 14:30:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok me & my ex broke up a week ago & i rele miss him & his friends say that he says he misses me & i rele want him back & i went over to his house yesterday & talked to him about it & he said he wanted to get back together but he just needs a little time to get his life in perspective & thne today on the bus he started saying all this stuff about how 3 of my best friends were the hottest girls in school & i think he just did it to make me mad because yesterday he told me i was the hottest girl in school & i rele dont know what to do now so plzzzzzz help!!!!!!!!i rele do love him & i miss him & need him back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-19 14:29:29 · 29 answers · asked by cheer_chic_12_22 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my partner for nearly five years. he previously worked nights while i worked days so we didn't get to spend a whole lot of time together. he has never had a solid job and he is now struggling to get enough work, but he dosn't go out looking for it either. i think i got really used to having a lot more time to myself and now he's home all the time it's driving me mad. i've been thinking about ending our relationship, but i really dont want to hurt him and i am scared that i would be making a mistake. i know he loves me and i do care for him deeply - but the spark is gone. any advise would be greatly appreciated.

2007-12-19 14:28:34 · 6 answers · asked by ktren 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 14:28:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been havin lots of problems with him hes is getting out of controll he is very disrespectful wit his teachers, one day he ran away i even had to call the police on him i have 2 other son one 13 year old and a 17 year old i really cant take it any more im not sure if by him being 10 yrs old he can go to boot camp
please help me
thank you

2007-12-19 14:28:02 · 3 answers · asked by Ana... 1 in Family

2007-12-19 14:27:10 · 10 answers · asked by bolinger81380 4 in Singles & Dating