I really like this girl who is my friend soooo much!!!
we call each other a lot on the phone and can talk for hours..we IM each other for hours, and text a lot throughout the day. We hang out together (rarely alone) in school, but NEVER outside of school. i feel like a like her a lot more than she likes me. she says "i love u" in texts..but never in person. sometimes i get angry when she doesnt answer my texts or IM me..and I get really mad when she flirts with other guys. we arent going out..so is this weird?
how can i fix this???
2007-12-19 14:31:16 · 10 answers · asked by LT21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
comunication. talk to her let her know whats bugging you
2007-12-19 14:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no it's not weird. its possible she just doesn't want to go out with you in that way. don't take offense to it though. it takes a lot for a girl to like a guy as a friend as much as she likes you as a friend. i mean, as a girl, its nice having a guy friend i don't have to worry about hitting on me or having to look good for. maybe she's afraid that if you two became more than just friends and then you guys broke up she would be loosing one of her best friends at the same time and doesn't want to risk it. there's only one way to find out though & if you're not comfortable with talking about it in person maybe slyly bring it up online. (but only when you know shes def there) if the convo. turns awkward you could try to laugh it off.
2007-12-19 22:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by juliet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that the only reason she isnt saying how she feels right to you like the I love you thing is because 1 she doesnt want to come on too strong and scare you away 2 she doesnt want it to be wierd 3 she isnt sure how you feel about it / how you would react and 4 (only if she doesnt like you in that way) she doesnt want to come on too strong.
Take it up a notch and show her that you really care and be the charming guy you are and she really will love you, but let it take time! yay! :) good luck! she sounds like a lucky
2007-12-19 22:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Taytay 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think my friend Chris had that happen to him...well, anyway, all I can say is to look around and check out what else is there. Don't make her your final choice. I'm wanting this girl really bad, but I just recently started to "look" around and I noticed that other girls give me attention like she does. Besides I think your over reacting. Alot of girls are like that, just make freinds with a LOT of girls. Their freinds could even be something to look into...
2007-12-19 22:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by John K 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her ask her out.... She may be trying to make you jealous by flirting with the other guys.... Its time for you to make a move...
2007-12-19 22:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by jossieray 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal. Ask her out, straight out, dont pussy out. Whats the worst that can happen? Who cares if she flirts with others, tell her you don't like it, but don't be "controlling" her.
2007-12-19 22:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by burrito 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's not sure about you and exploring other options you should be romantic and win her over if you like her so much tell her how you feel in person or ask her how she feels about and no your not messed up
2007-12-19 22:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a guy aren't you? Ask her for a date, all she can do is say yes or no, that should tell you where you stand.
2007-12-19 22:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to hang out just you two, and see where it goes.....you won't know how she feels unless you ask!
2007-12-19 22:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by Kathi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE TO LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, IN ORDER TO KNOW IF THE RELATIONSHIP CAN GO FURTHER. SHE MAY ONLY WANT TO BE FRIENDS
2007-12-19 22:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋