Problemed individuals with deep rooted pain who are also very gifted and talented.
2007-12-19 14:43:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I should think they must be suffering from bpd too +-+
2007-12-21 18:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by minefelloff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are so many reasons a woman might choose a man like you describe:
She is kind-hearted and feels a great empathy for him.
She is naive enough to believe he'll change.
She has a need to "fix" people, probably to gain self-esteem.
She is immature and focused on the talent, not even considering the pain the other problems will cause her.
She has a need to control those around her, and he is controllable because of his difficulties.
Whatever the reasons, it's a very bad road to travel. Unfortunately, the road is well worn, because a large proportion of women have had a relationship like this at one time or another.
2007-12-19 14:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some woman are attracted to men like that because they hoping to help them and be the one that man can't live without but then they learn a hard lesson of life when the man cheats on them or don't love them back. Good luck
2007-12-19 14:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women like to feel like tehy are taking care of their boyfriends or spouse or whatever it mayb be. It makes the man seems like he has his own life, and is a little rough around the edges, which i think a lot o girl go after...so to answer your question, i think , actually, tht mosstt girls go after that kind of guy.
2007-12-19 14:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by OverTheRainbow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like men who are a gentlemen. I am a gentlemen who hold the door for ladies. I show respect to ladies. I am very nice to ladies. Ladies always go first in life. Look for a lady who has the same traits like you. Jared out
2007-12-19 14:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that a big part of it is that people like that go into relationships hoping to keep those problems hidden and so when you meet men like that you're basically meeting their "representative" and not their actual self so you fall in love with what you think are great people and by the time you start to see all the problems it's too late to simply walk away because you're already attached to their good side.....
2007-12-19 14:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maternal instinct. Save the needy poor baby.
2007-12-19 14:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Ed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like to have someone to comfort. It's very distracting :)
Besides, talented is good. So is gifted.
2007-12-19 14:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by Sonatina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that they feel that they can "change" this person...it's all in the mentality...women are fairer individuals,so they feel that it is their duty to do this for the guy at hand...it also gives them some kind of emotional rush
2007-12-19 14:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by coolio02 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rock stars. (Guess I should have learned the guitar instead of wasting my youth at Harvard Law School.)
2007-12-19 14:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by afreeman20035252 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For the same reason that we are attracted more to dumb girls more than smart ones! right?
2007-12-19 16:19:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋