Family & Relationships - 19 December 2007

on our computer while im at work. am i right to feel upset by this?

2007-12-19 15:31:53 · 10 answers · asked by zingbartwo 5 in Singles & Dating

what type of girl would you like? :D

2007-12-19 15:29:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We met a couple weeks ago at the mall, he was working and somehow weasled me into buying 3 shirts for $35 a piece! anyways. I stayed a while and we talked for quite a long time. He lives a town over from me, and we talk everyday all day long. Texting, calling, im-ing. I really do like him, and it's driving me insane because he lives kind of far. The difference between the towns in an extremely icy mountain road during the winter. Anyways, I want to know what you would do? We've both admited that we want the relationship, but it would be hard. If we both put in the effort, it can definitely be done though! Would you go into a relationship, or stay friends? He's perfect for me. It's insane.

2007-12-19 15:27:16 · 10 answers · asked by somewherelovers 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends daughter and mine were selling candy for school, well my friend asked me to cover her on the candy money until she delivered and collected the money. i wrote a check to school for the money and her portion came to 260.00 dollars which i was supposed to get that weekend. Needless to say I didnt get and I had three overdraft fees totaling 99.00!!!!!! Which brings it to 360.00!!!!!! She said she she never recieved payment for all of it, her husband slipped and said dhe did, and in the past three weeks I have gotten 80.00, 50.00 and 60.00 respectively. She keeps promising me she will have all of it the next day and avoids my calls. today she said she would cash her husbands check and pay me , I pffered to cash it for her at my bank and she said no I asked her why not and she said cause cause she already asked her mo to do it, dhe than screamed at me and said youll get money your f%^&$king money today OK!!!! and hung up on me!!!! What should I do???

2007-12-19 15:20:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He is at his bottom but, wants to hold on to some ties that will send him back to a dishonest way of life.I need this Miracle tonight.Pray and I am praying too.His name is Nathan.

2007-12-19 15:19:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what's the limit for you?

25 years too much?
(Catherine-Zeta Jonas and her husband are 25 years apart in age difference)
Some people think its disgusting....some don't

Is it alright if its TRUE love?

2007-12-19 15:19:42 · 35 answers · asked by Kristina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

on the phone. He would call or text me everyday and we finally set up a meeting. We both agreed that NO sex would be involved because we didn't want to damage our connection. Well he came up and proceeded to come on to me the entire time, I was so disgusted that when he left, I was relieved. While our phonecalls & texts have slowed way down, in fact, we hardly talk...just a lil chit chat here & there but I refuse to make the effort to contact him. I get the feeling he's sitting around waiting for me to make the effort but why should I? He has nothing to offer me and I wouldnt catergorize him as a "catch" I guess I don't understand what happened from being respectful & agreeing on no sex to being a total horndog and now no communication???? HELP

2007-12-19 15:14:42 · 7 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating

The thing is - I happily get along with attractive girls around my own age - but often they seem to lack that spark of experience.

Often I get my most intense lustful feelings for older, kind, chatty, "life experienced" ladies who are older than me - still attractive but post their prime.

Is that normal? Am I alone in this? Is it cause perverse feelings bring stir and bring out the deepest sexual emotions in me? If I followed up on one of these encounters up I fear I might regret it - my family and friends wouldn't understand if I turned up with an older women for dinner/date.

2007-12-19 15:13:28 · 5 answers · asked by Joe Bloggs 4 in Singles & Dating

have your husband told you that you needed to lose some extra weight? like more than 10 pounds? what do you think of a husband that does this? want your honest opinion, men and women. thanks.

2007-12-19 15:08:46 · 42 answers · asked by k.c. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

you liked a guy and made it clear, he hinted he felt the same way, but a ~week later he wanted to talk on the same level to make things clear, saying he just wanted to just be friends?

2007-12-19 15:08:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago and am very happy although still want to wait a bit before we get married. I want to share my life with my family but they would basically condemn me to hell. How can I approach them with this? Does any one else have family like this???

2007-12-19 15:07:31 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A 25yr old guy who has to talk to his mom everyday for 30 minutes. Doesnt work and baby talks to his mom. Some days talks to her in the morning, afternoon, and night for 30mins each time. When he wont pick up she calls about 12 times and leaves 10 voice messages telling him how worried she is. When she cant reach him that way she'll call the gf and his friends 4 times asking for him. He also has to talk to his older sister everyday and she yells at him for 30mins everytime.

2007-12-19 15:07:24 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Yummy♥ ✰ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi. One of my group's longtime friends got married last month. His new wife was someone from outside our group. They were together for about 1 year before marriage and she never hung out with us, nor wanted him too. We have invited her to join our gatherings, but she generally keeps to herself and keeps him at home too. Is there any hope for the both of them coming around to his old buddies? We're not a raucus crowd, just a couple of adults who've known eachother for many years (mostly men, some women) through high school and college, etc. Is this just a part of growing up? Have we lost him for good? Any advice on getting them both to come out and see us again?

2007-12-19 15:04:13 · 10 answers · asked by GSConsulting 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My cous is 11 and she and her friend whos a boy made out. is it right. do you think it could cause se x

2007-12-19 15:01:16 · 33 answers · asked by SweetCakes4455 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright so I am a 19 y/o guy and I would never let a woman control anything about me I do what ever I want. But I have one friend and see it all the time. I don't get it do they not have balls or something to me guys that are whipped like that arn't men but little boys. Some guys might as well be dogs, cuz it looks just like they r when there whipped like that anyways. I guess I just have lots of pride in myself and am independant, so don't get why any guy or girl would want to get contrtoled like that??? Alright so I have a friend who acts more or less like a ***** now cuz hes whipped. His girlfriend trys to instegate and get him to disrespect his friends. My whipped friend recently called one of my friends who is also his friend and tried to ***** him out about teasing his girlfriend at work. But my other friend just said it aint his problem and pretty much told my whipped friend to f**** off.

2007-12-19 15:01:09 · 12 answers · asked by One Day 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello. I met my guy 2 years ago when his daughter was 8. Him and the childs mother broke up when the child was 3 months old and have NEVER got back together. i first met her when she was 8. we got along great. we went to movies together, parks, ect. all this without her father even being there with us. im not trying to be a 2nd mother but was showing her a nice time. me and him broke up for 2 years and we got back together. now her is mother married. everything was FINE again. then one day she woke up and hated me and comes over with a bad attitude. i speak and she wont speak back. she told her dad that her and her mom and step dad FIGHT ALL THE TIME and her mother always cries. her step dad does not do anything for her. wont even pick her up from school when its raining and he's at home doing nothing. maybe she is taking her anger out on me due to whats going on at home. but why me?? i have been nothing but wonderful to her. im almost sick of her now. what should I do??

2007-12-19 15:00:33 · 6 answers · asked by melonie3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

you have 2 answer dis ion order plzz

1.what is more compatible?
carl-michelle or carl-holy?
2.why?
3.why do you think i'm getting jealous of this girl?
[guyz and gals i'm only 12]

i'm always jealous of my classmates especially 2 girls when they go near 2 my crush??
do you know whats the reason??
i always wanna see him
we're close 2geder do u see a chance that he likes me 2??

2007-12-19 15:00:08 · 3 answers · asked by _zoey1617_ 2 in Singles & Dating

so ive been going out with this amazing guy for almost 11 months, and as hard as i try, i cant seem to find what he likes about me. im not all that interesting or attractive...why does he like me so much? pic included


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2007-12-19 14:58:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for christmas we both made lists. i wanted a LV bag( aprox $700) and he asked for a laptop( $700). i just found out he bought me a $260 change purse instead and a video game. i feel slighted. he says i'm being materialistic but how is that fair?

2007-12-19 14:58:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just so you know, Im On my Dads Account, And im 13 Years Old to start off.

I slept over at my friends house a few days ago and when we got there, her parents were out. When they got back they were talking about selling something and how they lost it and they were argueing about it, Then i realised they were talking about selling Pot. They were also smoking it and drunk. I told my friend that while we were there, And i said dont you care? She replied "Thats how we get money". Should They be Turned Into Social Services? My dad knows about it also. He talked to her about it he said they should be turned into social services. And she said she knew about social services and what they could do. Should we turn their parents in? The family there are 2 babies, 1 5 Year Old, And 2 13 Year old Girls. Would they get taken away from their parents?

2007-12-19 14:57:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-19 14:56:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf broken up with his ex and his brother didnt know that so his brother bought aticket for that ex to come to spend this xmas with my bf's family. my bf showed me her meassage begging him to let her come for the last time and the fact that she is already here with his family. his parents like that girl better than me. my bf asked me if i could be patient for the last time because she is already here and he doesnt want to break the harmony in his family during this xmas. he told me that everything will be the end after these two weeks.he loves his parents and dont want to make them sadduring this holiday. should i give him another try? should i wait for him 2 weeks and see what happens next? should i be patient for the last time? please help me, i am very confused and have no idea what i should do. half of me tells me that i should give him 2 weeks but the other half cant put up with the idea that his soon-to-be ex is spending time with him and his family.

2007-12-19 14:56:13 · 4 answers · asked by hong h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok...I went on a date with this guy and we danced too, we wanna get together again. Does this mean that we are "going out" and that I shouldn't flirt with or go on a date with anyone else?

2007-12-19 14:55:52 · 3 answers · asked by Helpfull 2 in Singles & Dating

my parents have been divorced for about 15 years and it has not affected me until now, i lived with my mom until i was about 15 and she kicked me out. i have not spoken to her since, i am not 17 and realize how much i need and miss her. My Dad does what he can to help me but there is only so much he can do and he cannot fill the void of a mother. i just really need my mom and miss her so much, have any advice?

2007-12-19 14:55:39 · 7 answers · asked by Issy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm so sick of my parents thinking that they can control my life in every way they want to. All summer they were telling me to get a job because I was too old to sit around the house and enjoy my summer. Now they are telling me that I am working too much and they are calling my management trying to change my hours without even coming to me first. That is ridiculous. They control how much time I spend on the internet, what I can watch, and just every part of my life is controlled by them. They have ruined my life by trying to make it better in there own eyes. I just wish they would leave me alone and let me do my own thing. I think they forget that I can move out of the house in less then a year. I am seventeen, not some little five year old in preschool. Why can they not just treat me my age and let me live my life the way I want to.

2007-12-19 14:54:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

sometimes i think he likes me (my friend) and other times i don't. He talks to me the most. he flirts with me alot (but he is a big flirt with other girls). And every time a friend of mine is around us they'll say i like him or he likes me. And today she said it and he said yeah i know (but i didnt know if he was playing). And even before this happend in school he asked if he could call me so we could watch funny clips on youtube together. (btw we had such a great time laughing =P) and we also have youth together after school and we can play video games there so he always asks me to play games with him. (even though he already has enough friends to play with on there). And once he said this kinda like a joke (but i dont know if he ment it)(we were playing games at the time) "I like you and you always make me laugh I, mean I mean....." (there was silence after that. and if there is a specific game he knows i like he'll play it just for me. But my question is does he like me?

2007-12-19 14:53:20 · 3 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1 in Singles & Dating

He yells/hits her &constantly says shes useless &stupid, but she's not. She's 1 of the most successful girls I know. She gets straight A's, nice, athletic, &fun to be w/. On the other hand, her mom is the one that she can turn to but she doesn't want a divorce b/s she thinks staying married is the only way to financially take care of 2 kids. Her father treats her mom the same way he treats her, but not her younger bro. I really hate to see her come to school evry morning crying. Recently; She had to stay afterschool to take a test & she couldn't call her dad so he had to wait for her for 5 min. When she came out.. he yelled at her saying things "I waited so long! Do you want me to beat the crap out of you when we get home?" right in front of us.. &Last month she spilled out everything to him. It ended up for her getting literally KICKED out of the house @ night for a few hours. Please give advice.. I don't want her to stay like this forever.. Even though she says she can live w/ it...

2007-12-19 14:53:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay so i have this boyfriend and his birthday is coming up and christmas is coming up too n i really wanna get him something NICE. But i really cant think of what to get him at all!! Can someone plz give me some ideeas???

2007-12-19 14:52:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to this girl ever since November 10th of this year. We talk everyday on aim and myspace a lot and she works near m house so i went to visit her one day when it wasnt busy at her job and we sat down and talked for an hour, and then i asked her for a hug and she smiled and gave me one. she even asked me if I have a gf and I said no, I asked her if she had a bf and she said she isn't sure. I really like her and want to as her out. I have not had much sucess in he past with women, but do you think she woul actually give me a shot? By the way we are both 17...

2007-12-19 14:52:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got absolutely nothing from it and i ended up hurting the ones i love. I feel MISERABLE right now, what do i do?

2007-12-19 14:52:34 · 5 answers · asked by Lala 4 in Other - Family & Relationships