so ive been going out with this amazing guy for almost 11 months, and as hard as i try, i cant seem to find what he likes about me. im not all that interesting or attractive...why does he like me so much? pic included
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2007-12-19 14:58:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry, pic link doesnt work try this one..
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2007-12-19 14:59:19 · update #1
Don't worry about that girl. Just be grateful that you're one of the lucky few that seems to have a really great guy that loves you for who you are. Now go and be grateful that you've been so blessed. And btw, saw your pic and I think you're a doll.
2007-12-19 15:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Horserider75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lilly,
You are fabulous to see!!!
And you feel you are not that atrractive or interesting? Honey, is this a prank? This is not April to make us fools.
It could be just that, if at all, you are getting a little insecure by your judgement about him that he is so amazing. Taking what you said about him, I feel you are equally amazing or more precious.
You have been going out with him for 11 months and the relation seems to be just great. He seems to be quite happy about you or else it would not have lasted this long. That means more than looks you must be having an interesting personality also. And you dont have to try hard to find the reason, the reason is simple, that you are matchless!
Take care, All the best..
Merry Christmas and a Very Happy New Year to You..
2007-12-19 23:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by doer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very cute. Don't dwell on the fact that you don't know what he sees in you. This insecurity can end up driving him away. You have very pretty eyes. Don't worry about why he likes you, just embrace the fact that you have someone that cares about you and cherishes you. If he didn't think you were attractive or interesting he wouldn't be with you. Enjoy life with him, don't be so harsh on yourself. Here is a quote: Some people can't believe in themselves until someone else believes in them first.
2007-12-19 23:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by Brina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember: Looks are a plus, personality is a must. He loves you for who you are. And 11 months is pretty long, there must be something about you he loves. If you aren't sure of it just ask.
2007-12-19 23:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
True, you're not that hot, but I don't know, it could be your personality or something, and actually you do look a little interesting. I once liked a girl whom everyone hated, but hell, I still thought she was hot and funny and interesting and all that stuff.
2007-12-19 23:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Maus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get an honest answer ask him. "What made you choose me over all the other girls". Since he's been with you for soo long he'll probably have a great answer.
2007-12-19 23:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by Weapon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be attracted to you. you don't look like a barbie doll but you're still pretty cute (no lesbo) and he has to like your personality or he wouldnt be w/ you for 11 months. dont be so down on yourself
2007-12-19 23:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a little confidence...its not what u see its what he sees.....stop being so self conscious and open ur eyes...u dont need to be this really hyper barbie like beauty pageant queen for men to like u
2007-12-19 23:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by tinascotia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares. Does he treat with respect and kindness? That is all that matters. Don't try to think....just feel.
2007-12-19 23:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by sparkyboy444 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be one of us good guys who likes girls for who they are as individuals in every way :]. I say he likes your personality probably.
2007-12-19 23:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by Cam73ghs73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋