He yells/hits her &constantly says shes useless &stupid, but she's not. She's 1 of the most successful girls I know. She gets straight A's, nice, athletic, &fun to be w/. On the other hand, her mom is the one that she can turn to but she doesn't want a divorce b/s she thinks staying married is the only way to financially take care of 2 kids. Her father treats her mom the same way he treats her, but not her younger bro. I really hate to see her come to school evry morning crying. Recently; She had to stay afterschool to take a test & she couldn't call her dad so he had to wait for her for 5 min. When she came out.. he yelled at her saying things "I waited so long! Do you want me to beat the crap out of you when we get home?" right in front of us.. &Last month she spilled out everything to him. It ended up for her getting literally KICKED out of the house @ night for a few hours. Please give advice.. I don't want her to stay like this forever.. Even though she says she can live w/ it...
2007-12-19 14:53:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to talk to a school counselor to tell them whats going on, and then encourage your friend to do the same. Parental abuse will screw her up in later years so please get her some help!!
2007-12-19 15:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by Nessa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try these steps.
1. Talk to your counselor.
2. Talk to your friend.
3. Share her burden by giving more support.
4. Lead her to a church or some supportive organizations.
5. Please do remember pray for her.
2007-12-19 23:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by SASA 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
try and talk her into moving out or even better get her to report him - he shouldnt be like that
2007-12-19 23:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh. He seems abusive, just tell her a little bit of your opinion
2007-12-19 23:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by OkiDoki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋