on the phone. He would call or text me everyday and we finally set up a meeting. We both agreed that NO sex would be involved because we didn't want to damage our connection. Well he came up and proceeded to come on to me the entire time, I was so disgusted that when he left, I was relieved. While our phonecalls & texts have slowed way down, in fact, we hardly talk...just a lil chit chat here & there but I refuse to make the effort to contact him. I get the feeling he's sitting around waiting for me to make the effort but why should I? He has nothing to offer me and I wouldnt catergorize him as a "catch" I guess I don't understand what happened from being respectful & agreeing on no sex to being a total horndog and now no communication???? HELP
2007-12-19 15:14:42 · 7 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could try and ask him if the both of you want to start over again and for him not to come on too strong this time, or if you don't really want to keep in contact with him ask him to leave you alone because hes not the person you thought he was. Yeah thats all i can really tell you to be honest, Well peace out.. And go with the flow:)
2007-12-19 15:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very clear from your point of view, you don't like him.
The text message etc. has nothing to do with having a clean relationship as you had told him and he knew about it.He remained away from this for a while and during those days you had to spend some time with him ...talking and all, you found him disgusting .
The recent behaviour is unacceptable.He can't expect you to be available whenever he wants to.Please try to understand , there's no scope to get confused about his gesture.He doesn't deserve you.
Don't invite trouble for nothing.You won't like it.He simply wants to have you drawn toward him for sex and nothing else.He isn't thinking of a lasting and good relationship with you.Just avoid him.Maintain your own dignity.In any case, you don't never found him likeable at all.
He is not to be trusted.........that's what he s.
2007-12-20 01:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying something and then actually doing something are two totally different things. His actions reflect his mindset. It basically shows that he can't keep his word. Plus, it's way more impersonal if you were to text, e-mail, or even talk on the phone with each other.
What I'd suggest doing is talking to him about how you felt and why you're acting the way you are. Otherwise, this issue will keep haunting you unless you can completely forget about it and move on to someone else.
2007-12-19 23:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a guy, as am I, and I will admit that most guys will say no sex but they are only doing that so you will think they are sweet and have sex with them. There are very few "nice guys" left. I do my best to be one of them even though most of the time nice guys finish last.
2007-12-19 23:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by drewsteriam5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its often what happens from online romance.....you don't really get to know the real person until you meet them face to face.....
2007-12-19 23:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by mr b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's so not worth it, hun :P
2007-12-19 23:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try,,,,,,,,,
2007-12-20 00:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by cmurugesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋