We met a couple weeks ago at the mall, he was working and somehow weasled me into buying 3 shirts for $35 a piece! anyways. I stayed a while and we talked for quite a long time. He lives a town over from me, and we talk everyday all day long. Texting, calling, im-ing. I really do like him, and it's driving me insane because he lives kind of far. The difference between the towns in an extremely icy mountain road during the winter. Anyways, I want to know what you would do? We've both admited that we want the relationship, but it would be hard. If we both put in the effort, it can definitely be done though! Would you go into a relationship, or stay friends? He's perfect for me. It's insane.
2007-12-19 15:27:16 · 10 answers · asked by somewherelovers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, if he's perfect for you, then give it a try. if it works, good for you, if it doesn't, at least you try. this way you won't regret anything later on. if you guys get closer, one of you will move closer. love is a two way street, since both of you guys have feelings for each other, go for it. don't let something good slip you by.
2007-12-19 15:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Kev 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you both feel it's hard to establish a relationship with each other because you both know that it's not a proper time for this... wait until you think that it will be more comfortable for the two of you. if you think that you are inlove with each other but can't put up a relatinoship it is much better for the two of you to stay being a friend for the mean time and then when you find the proper timing that you feel you're both prepare and can handle the relationship well then go for it! don't just rely with what your heart will say use your brain also because our heart is deceitful if you'll just rely on it you'll come up being in hurry and won't enjoy what you really want in life. and most of all it might just bring the two of you in a worse situation... prepare yourself first before making a decision...
2007-12-19 23:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by amarie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was that perfect for you, you wouldn't be asking us if you should give a relationship with him a chance. What do you have to lose? And is he worth the risk?
It won't be easy, but even relationships where the person lives 5 minutes away aren't easy.
2007-12-19 23:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by Meghan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one of you is gonna have to sacrifice leaving your job and friends and family but not really but this would be a big step so you should see what kind of lifestyle you would have that every thing into perspective and then make your decision...but he sounds like he's Right for you..
2007-12-19 23:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mike!69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I are 2.5 hours apart. I say try it...just don't drive on the mountain during icy times lol.
2007-12-19 23:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would keep on getting to know each other. As your friendship progresses, maybe you can spend time planning how to live closer to each other. If you don't both own your own houses then surely you can find an apartment building where you could live closer to each other's homes.
2007-12-19 23:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by Ann, The Decatur Gardener 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing. You still believe in perfect. You'll learn that such a person just doesn't exist. Not sure I see a real question here, but good luck with it.
2007-12-19 23:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say def give it a shot! You sound happy and excited about the relationship, and that's what matters the most.
2007-12-19 23:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by LuvWright5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't rush into a relationship just yet. take time getting to know each other and if he asks your opinion on getting together, tell him you'd love to but you want to continue getting to know him better.
2007-12-19 23:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by jessi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it girl!
if you both really like each other
than their should be nothing else stopping you.
good luck =]
2007-12-19 23:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jackie <3. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋