Family & Relationships - 19 December 2007

OK theres this girl who was the first college friend I made. We met online before college, when we met in reality she wasn't what I expected. At times around campus she sees me but ignores me. She got mad at me for not walking her to class but I did walk her to the building...

Also when we chatted online, she seem to got less close to me when I said that I would date any race of women. She and I are the same race and she only likes guys of her race. Also whenever I try to talk to her as usual she makes up these excuses to leave. I then gave up and didn't bother.

Just today I got a friendly message from her. What does she want? What should I do?

Thanks.

2007-12-19 20:39:43 · 21 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

how can i win over my crush's heart..
please help
im desperate.

2007-12-19 20:39:09 · 6 answers · asked by A 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, me and my wife been together for 6 years, weve been married for 3, she first cheat on me 4 days after i proposed to her, we worked it out, i joined the army reserves and got married right before i left for traing. when i came back from training every thing was good,we had a baby. then her brother killed himself and age 14, right after that we found out that she had cancer, she had the agressive chemo, she was cured, then 1 yr later she cheats on me again with my best friend, the day i found out she try 2 kill herself, she always cut herself even before she cheated on me, right in front of r daughter.shewentto a mental homefor 3 days, we went to counciling andworked it out, the next yearsheends up leaving me for my brother n law, who is 41 and she is 21, i know alot has happened, but i still love her, i want her back but can't, i need help to stop being in love with her, since she dating my brother n law it's puting my daughter and my sisters kids in this there shocked they r 3-7

2007-12-19 20:30:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was with this girl for almost 3 years and we broke up, when i thought that we could atleast be friends i called her and she told me she was in love with someone else and it was only like a month after i broke up wit her. The person she is with now told her to tell me that she wasnt allowed to talk to me and she had no objection to not talking to me anymore she seemed all for it. Now after 4 months of being with the new person she now says that she seems to have made a mistake and she wants me back but im not sure that i feel the same about her.

2007-12-19 20:29:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright so I am a 19 y/o guy and I would never let a woman control anything about me I do what ever I want. But I have one friend and see it all the time. I don't get it do they not have balls or something to me guys that are whipped like that arn't men but little boys. Some guys might as well be dogs, cuz it looks just like they r when there whipped like that anyways. I guess I just have lots of pride in myself and am independant, so don't get why any guy or girl would want to get contrtoled like that??? Alright so I have a friend who acts more or less like a ***** now cuz hes whipped. His girlfriend trys to instegate and get him to disrespect his friends. My whipped friend recently called one of my friends who is also his friend and tried to ***** him out about teasing his girlfriend at work. But my other friend just said it aint his problem and pretty much told my whipped friend to f**** off.

2007-12-19 20:28:36 · 8 answers · asked by One Day 1 in Singles & Dating

If i hug her and she gets a good wiff of my man musk, would she get turned on at all?

2007-12-19 20:28:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am currently in a relationship and recently she went on my myspace as she thought something was wrong and found a message from my ex in regards to my current girlfriend being upset with my ex posting a picture of her toes, and said something about "other" pictures. I talk to my ex and have no interest in getting back together with her. Anywho, my girlfriend asked if I had dirty pictures and I said yes, as I just... never deleted them. She was extremely upset with that fact.

Am I in the wrong, it is not like I look at them, just have them on my computer.

2007-12-19 20:24:06 · 11 answers · asked by Andrew B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 20:21:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im of asian origin,35yrs and athletic build.intrests sports,movies,diving and travelling....

2007-12-19 20:18:29 · 2 answers · asked by sajad 1 in Singles & Dating

What could you do to try and get back an ex?Do you think it can be done even if your ex has a new girlfriend and seems to have moved on.

2007-12-19 20:17:11 · 6 answers · asked by bettys5incali 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 20:16:06 · 5 answers · asked by TT 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 20:15:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 20:11:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 20:06:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

another year has ended. What have you achieved so far?????
married,retires,got grand child,won a lottery,bought a new car,
found a newmate???????

2007-12-19 20:03:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in the "courtship" stage w/ a girl I've begun to date. In convo, the dreaded question of "How many partners have you had sex w/?" came up. We both agreed to save the qestion for a later date. Recently she said she wants us both to answer the question. I postponed it again. LOL. I'm 20 & have had sex w/ 8 girls. I AM clean as a whistle (I've gotten checked.) She knows that I've only been in 2 serious relationships. Should I tell her the truth? Should I lie? Is 8 too high a number @ my age?

2007-12-19 20:03:11 · 42 answers · asked by mrpresjg 2 in Singles & Dating

giving birth , achieved sucess fiancincially, and in her late 40s........ Is she having her monopause????????

2007-12-19 19:56:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are going to the snow soon and i would like to suprise her with something really romantic. im open to any ideas

2007-12-19 19:53:48 · 17 answers · asked by adam p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

no everytime i get a b/f they break up with me one i got a kid i duno if they dont want to be a family or not

2007-12-19 19:50:59 · 10 answers · asked by bluecrazy_ass b 2 in Singles & Dating

i can sing really well...but my voice is pretty high
is will girls think its wierd LOL?

heres a good vid ...my voice is pretty similar, listne to the whole thing

http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=f0Mxc1rClqU

2007-12-19 19:47:29 · 12 answers · asked by -{s0c}- 2 in Singles & Dating

What does he want me to say?

I like to play with his penis frequently. I don't masturbate him properly, because he doesn't play with my privates like I want him to, and he is too difficult to make *** even when I do try.

Anyway, when I ask why doesn't he play with me he says I have to ask. When I do ask him to rub me, or make suggestions, he says I'm not romantic and he's not going to do it if I say it like that.

I was hoping to have had sex with him by now, but I can't get there if we don't do any of the precursors. I would really like to be rubbed and fingered by him, but I guess I'm using the wrong words and phrases, or something. What does he want me to say or do to get him to do those things for me?

2007-12-19 19:45:31 · 3 answers · asked by Philosopher 5 in Singles & Dating

I dont know what to do. I think I have feelings for someone else but Im in a relationship with a guy who I have been with for a while. Sometimes I think hes great then others I wish I was single?? I do care about him a lot Im just so confused? Anyone else been in a similar situation. Advice ??

2007-12-19 19:41:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really love my man and he loves me too and he wants to make things better with me he know he did wrong to me and he appoligized and made up to me and is making up to me more and i love that he even said to me that was not him at all from the way he was treating me and we live togeather to and my hours are altered because of work midnight to eight in the morning and i love my job because when i get off everyone goes to work sucks to be them lol so what do you think has happened here?

2007-12-19 19:39:39 · 19 answers · asked by daddyslittlegirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It's so amazing. Every moment. I want our long distance relationship to last for a long time. We had a candlelight dinner over msn messenger the other day with our webcams. I got all dressed up and all and talked about when we first met eachother. It was out of this world.
What other cute things can we do together like that? I want it to be like we are right there with eachtother. Please help!

2007-12-19 19:38:58 · 6 answers · asked by *~*IllusiveButterfly*~* 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 27 and I met a wonderful man 3 months ago online, (who is 29) and we fell in love almost instantly. Neither one of us has ever been so happy, and he's proposed and asked me to go with him to the county clerk's office next week and get married. He thinks we can have a proper wedding ceremony for our families at a later time, but it feels right to make it official now. I really want to be with this man for the rest of my life, and there isn't a shred of doubt in my heart that he's the one. But everyone thinks I'm a lunatic if I go through with this and marry a man I've only known for 3 months! Should I marry him anyway? Or should I wait?

2007-12-19 19:38:19 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm 22. this all happened after only meeting her twice before....

She gave me her number awhile about a month ago, We had nice conversation and it lead to her telling me about younger guys that she has been with. She said it was fun. I then asked for a kiss, and she said NO. I back off and lost interest when I founf out that I wasn't going to get any. ( I asked for a kiss the second time she came over) Now, when I see her, she asks if I STILL HAVE her number? Why? She already rejected me. IS she playing hard to get? Or is she trying to see how far I will go to get it?

I saw her 2 sundays at a party, I didn't go up too her she came up too me and started talking....then she asked if I still have her #???????????

2007-12-19 19:38:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a bloody period pad that has been laying around for a day or two. By the way I know thats what his breath smells like also because yes I know what them things smell like. How do you think he got his breath that way? What do you think he has been doing to cause this?

My breath after I wake up doesnt smell as bad as that. And his breath when he wakes up smells like baby diaherra.

2007-12-19 19:36:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 19:33:34 · 19 answers · asked by shar 1 in Singles & Dating

hi,
there is a girl at school who i like.. were both in year 9 and both the age of 14. it seems that she hates me....she tells me she doesn't like me but she doesn't say why.....but my mate was talking to her on msn the other day and apparently she said she fancied me.....ccould she be playing hard to get or does she really hate me....what can i do to get her i mean ive written a poem about her but .... if she hates me then you know whats coming....thanks....

2007-12-19 19:32:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like every time I look up, he's looking at me. I had this funny feeling when we looked at each other. Maybe i'm imaging things but when he came to my department, he was asking all kinds of questions like he was trying to find out if i have a man in my life, kids etc. I could be wrong but I sensed interest , especially the way he looks at me. Am I imaging things? Any advice? Input??

2007-12-19 19:29:45 · 6 answers · asked by Kari L 2 in Singles & Dating