ok, me and my wife been together for 6 years, weve been married for 3, she first cheat on me 4 days after i proposed to her, we worked it out, i joined the army reserves and got married right before i left for traing. when i came back from training every thing was good,we had a baby. then her brother killed himself and age 14, right after that we found out that she had cancer, she had the agressive chemo, she was cured, then 1 yr later she cheats on me again with my best friend, the day i found out she try 2 kill herself, she always cut herself even before she cheated on me, right in front of r daughter.shewentto a mental homefor 3 days, we went to counciling andworked it out, the next yearsheends up leaving me for my brother n law, who is 41 and she is 21, i know alot has happened, but i still love her, i want her back but can't, i need help to stop being in love with her, since she dating my brother n law it's puting my daughter and my sisters kids in this there shocked they r 3-7
2007-12-19 20:30:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Definitely not a good situation here. Personally think you need to divorce her especially since you cant trust her and move on and find someone better suited for you. You can get custody of the kids based on her mentalpoblems with the suicide and all. Then move on and leave that scene for her and all the rest but definitely give your kids a better life. I know it wont be easy but under these circumstances the kids should not be subjected to the stupidity of their mother either, not healthy for them. Theres always a way. Sorry to hear about your situation but just believe and you just might get a Christmas miracle as this is the time for those and they really do happen. Good luck and Happy Holidays
2007-12-19 20:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you keep saying that you worked it out but you really did'nt. She has some issues. Sounds like she needs medication help. Has she ever been diagnosed as Bipolar? She may have impulse issues. Get to the root oh what is really going on here so you can help yourself and her the best. I wish you the best.
2007-12-20 05:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to simplify your life. It sounds like you started your relationship VERY early. Get yourself some counseling and see what you can do to help your daughter so she doesn't have the same problems her mother has had. You also realize you need to "move on", but you also need to make any of your decisions in your daughter's favor.
2007-12-20 04:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is too messy. Forget about her as she cheat already. Protect your children. Look for a new life which is better. Always have hope. Again, forget about her, no hope. She make choices for her life & you do not need to responsible.
Very last, pray & let God handle it.
2007-12-20 04:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by TT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋