hi,
there is a girl at school who i like.. were both in year 9 and both the age of 14. it seems that she hates me....she tells me she doesn't like me but she doesn't say why.....but my mate was talking to her on msn the other day and apparently she said she fancied me.....ccould she be playing hard to get or does she really hate me....what can i do to get her i mean ive written a poem about her but .... if she hates me then you know whats coming....thanks....
2007-12-19 19:32:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please help me...thanks...
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2007-12-19 19:37:01 · update #1
and to be honest i'm not that good at asking people out and people at my school will take the mic if she says no and i'm scared if she does...
2007-12-19 19:38:28 · update #2
sounds a bit hot and cold to me... fancies and hates are at extreme ends of the scale..
Can't you guys just be friends and see where it goes from there??
Maybe she likes you but is being horrid as she's not sure how best to behave in your company??
Play it cool.
2007-12-19 19:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Pagan Pip 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time she says in public that she doesn't like you, tell her that isn't what you've heard, if she causes a scene, she isn't worth bothering about especially if she's more concerned about how she'll look in front of her friends rather than admitting she does indeed like you, she either likes you or she doesn't, she needs to make up her mind instead of messing you about, so if she really isn't interested you can move on and find another girl who does want to go out with you, good luck!
2007-12-19 22:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by Rainbowz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well stop being so shy and go up to her and ask her if she would like to hang out after school, if she says yes, then she interested and if no then she doesn't, but then if shes playing hard to get then when she says no then say," well then ill go hang out with my friend Juliette or something to make her jealous, because then she will be like ugh OMG nooo!!!! then she will be like hey wait, um yeah we can hang, kinda harsh but that's what those kinda girls get for being like that.
2007-12-19 19:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont u be a bit old fashioned and ask her? try to write her a letter or something? i could be that she fancies u but she doesnt want other to know. normal thing for ur age. try to be friends with her first n see how it goes from there..
2007-12-19 19:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by julie mickey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pal, the best advice i could give you is just forget about her--at least for a while. if she is going to play these little games, she doesnt deserve your time. just pretend you arent interested for a while and if she really does like you, she will most likely come looking for you.
2007-12-19 19:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like that. She is playing hard to get if she's been talking with your friend. Does she tell you she doesn't like you when you are around people? if she does, talk to her alone, i bet she'll open up to you!
2007-12-19 19:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what shes doing to you play hard to get... its all about the chase. if you keep going after her shell say ok i have him ill come back to him when i want to... but if you kind of let er come after you and you kid of ignore her.. she ll think whydoesnt he want me anymore and shell want you back
2007-12-19 19:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by curiouschick3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't ask her out...
simple as...
shes just being plain evil to u...
she doesn't sound like a nice person at all to do that to u!
2007-12-19 19:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just go up to her and kiss her full on and see what happens
2007-12-19 19:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Doom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wheeeehooooooooohhh if you like her ask her out
2007-12-19 19:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋